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Uk mummy's can't have early scan

KelcovukKelcovuk member
edited December 2013 in 1st Trimester
Ok so I see a lot of mummy's 2 b on here having their ultra sound at as early as 5 weeks I'm so jealous us in the uk are not offered our first scan untill were at least 12 weeks then we have 1 more at 20 weeks wish I could have early scan not fair :(
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Re: Uk mummy's can't have early scan

  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    No I've seen a lot of first time mums getting scans just to see how far along they are all I'm saying is I would love to have a early scan even if it does look like a blob at 7 weeks I think every mum should have that bit of reassurance
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  • PrimRoseMamaPrimRoseMama member
    Kelcovuk said:

    No I've seen a lot of first time mums getting scans just to see how far along they are all I'm saying is I would love to have a early scan even if it does look like a blob at 7 weeks I think every mum should have that bit of reassurance

    That's a dating ultrasound...

    Can you not pay out of pocket ($/£) to an elective place?


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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    Yes but for the amount they charge is unreal and so close to Xmas I would rather my money went on that than pay so much
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  • PrimRoseMamaPrimRoseMama member
    You say UK but not exactly where. This private center offers early pregnancy scans. You can always call & ask them where you can go in your area.

    https://www.thelondonultrasoundcentre.co.uk


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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    That's based in London very far from where I live I guess I'll just have to wait till I get my appointment 12-14 weeks I've been told I think it annoys me more because I found out earlier with this one I was about 7 weeks when I found out with both my girls I found out at only 4 weeks with this one which is why it feels like for ever to see baby
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    For a early scan there cost £90 which is about $146 or around that price
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    I wasn't aware of this but there are a lot that wasn't what I said anyway I've seen you tube videos of women in the USA with a shock pregnancy and that they were goin for a scan again these are first time mums and they have said they healthy so baby's healthy
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    No need to jump down my throat [-(
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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member
    I just moved to the UK from the states and Ive only told my mom and my mother in law so far and Im 6 weeks. So my mother in law said 20 weeks(that was a while ago though)  is when she got her first scan but coming from the states I know a ton of moms, including mine who got ultrasounds early on as well. Makes me a bit jealous :/  Im hoping I can get one at 9- 10 weeks here lol Im going to call and make the apnt now actually.
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  • WashingtonQueenWashingtonQueen member
    You really need to try to relax.
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    Omg calm downnnnn my god hormones alert!! Was just a question I didn't know why u lot had so many early scans!!
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    Thank you that is the point I was trying to make x
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    12 weeks I will have one so pipe down!! And again at 20 !!
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  • WashingtonQueenWashingtonQueen member
    Kelcovuk said:

    Omg calm downnnnn my god hormones alert!! Was just a question I didn't know why u lot had so many early scans!!

    Are you talking to yourself? You're the only that is freaking out.
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    You lot are laying into me for asking a simple question talk about hitting a nerve jeezeeeee
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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member
    Lol I came on here to learn some things and talk things through but some women are harsh! Just ignore those ones ;)  I understand what you mean about an early scan. Most women in the US do get earlier scans then in England and it isn't just because they are at health risks. Im not saying ALL women but most do.
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    Thank you yes they and it's defo not to do with their health issues or previous pregnancys I just think some people need to get off their high horse and show some respect for others askin a question
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  • WashingtonQueenWashingtonQueen member
    Kelcovuk said:

    You lot are laying into me for asking a simple question talk about hitting a nerve jeezeeeee

    Goodness sakes! No one laid into you.
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    Your doing it now sweetheart! If u don't like it walk away!
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    U to leave it would be nice!!
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  • WashingtonQueenWashingtonQueen member
    Kelcovuk said:

    Thank you yes they and it's defo not to do with their health issues or previous pregnancys I just think some people need to get off their high horse and show some respect for others askin a question

    Oh dear lord. I think it's time for you to log off. You are just ridiculous.
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    Some mums would like to see their baby's earlier but can't because we live in the uk! That's my soddin point u arrogant person
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  • WashingtonQueenWashingtonQueen member
    Kelcovuk said:

    Some mums would like to see their baby's earlier but can't because we live in the uk! That's my soddin point u arrogant person

    An early ultrasound is not a right or a necessity. It won't change anything. You need to move on.

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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    Ok for a start keep up because that was not aimed at u secondly if u all must know this baby number 3 I'm worried more than ever I've had no symptoms what so ever I don't feel pregnant yet I can not have a early scab last two I had full blown symptoms so why can't us worried mums have a early scan to put our minds at rest? Unless we're bleeding or having cramps were on our own untill 12 weeks!! So yeh I am jealous u lot get scans thrown at u left right and centre!!
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  • WashingtonQueenWashingtonQueen member
    Andplusalso, of a woman is being given scans left and right for no medical reason the doctor it just trying to milk the money.
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  • sunflowermama42212sunflowermama42212 member
    damn I missed this party. 
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  • KelcovukKelcovuk member
    I do know that there's a lot of judgemental people from there and nasty people
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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member

    I lived in the US my entire life, just moved here 7 months ago, I think Id know from experience. but the US is big so maybe you are from some where else where you got scans later than most other women? Personally where Im from all of my friends and family got a scan a lot earlier than I am going to living in the UK.  So rather you agree or not doesn't really matter, that's why more than one person can post a reply on here so say your opinion and that's it you don't have to fight about it.

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  • 24karat24karat member
    Kelcovuk said:

    I do know that there's a lot of judgemental people from there and nasty people

    People who aren't getting an early u/s won't be posting pics or talking about it so you don't see the silent majority who haven't had an u/s. The standard in the States is one u/s at 20wks UNLESS there is a problem/history of problems. Some OBs will do more, but it isn't as common as you think it is.

    People replied that your perception of how things are done in the States was wrong so they're judgmental and nasty? You're the one who jumped down their throats for reminding you to be grateful you don't need an early scan.

    You seriously need to take a chill pill.
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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member
    Lol No but on this board you can either post a thought/concern/question/worry or anything for that matter. No one is complaining here. She simply stated that she has seen US women get ultrasounds earlier on than Uk women. Now rather a UK women got an ultrasound for a health risk or has private insurance doesn't matter. All I said is I agree. So how is your statement a fact and mine not? We are all shouting opinions out here. I just agreed with her from my personal experience. Everyone is just telling their opinions. How do you know the care in the UK ? Actually it doesn't matter because NONE of this is fact.
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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member
    We are here to talk things through and agree or not agree but fighting and being rude about something you don't agree about is really unnecessary and maybe you should find something that makes you happier lol
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  • Jolaine83Jolaine83 member
    Kelcovuk said:
    Some mums would like to see their baby's earlier but can't because we live in the uk! That's my soddin point u arrogant person
    This point has been made, but I'll make it again: nearly all moms want to see their baby early but unless you have a doctor who is trigger happy or you have some sort of a problem, most women wait until past 12 weeks for an u/s.  My practice doesn't do them until 20 weeks unless you have a problem.  I'm smack dab in the middle of the US but I know my friends who have not had issues are in the same boat.  Only my high risk friends or those who have problems pop up.

    To sum: some mom's would like to see their baby earlier but they can't because we live in the US!  See what I did there? 
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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member

     yes because by shouting I meant it literally :) And as I said she wasn't bitching, just posted a normal thought. If you don't agree why cant you just say it nicely? Some women have disagreed  respectfully and I appreciate that but some take offence to a simple thought and in better words than shouting opinions, they are just rude about their opinions... which is fair your allowed to be a bitch I suppose.

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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member
    I was referring to anyone who wanted to bitch I was saying they are allowed to be a bitch so sorry for the confusion. Idk what tos means but oh well. Well If you think shes been unreasonable then maybe just stop talking to her then? idk how to help you there...
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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member

    Some people think some women get an u/s earlier than others, some don't believe that. So that's that, I hope everyone is satisfied .

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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member

    Ok well if you don't believe me idk how to prove it to you? Miscommunication happens quite frequently over the internet hence this whole thread. Sorry for using the word bitch if that offended you and Im sincere about that. 

     And really sorry to anyone who had an early u/s due to complications, that wasn't anyones intentions of "being jealous" of that. I think some people just meant that some moms have a healthy scan earlier than others... that is not a fact btw just a thought. No one is jealous of an unhealthy pregnancy here, I hope the best works out for your families. 

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  • smusgrove92smusgrove92 member
    Yes ma'am, right away ! Thanks for the lovely piece of advice!
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