The kids leave in 3 weeks to see DC. He actually booked the flight and everything about 3 weeks ago.
He has made zero effort to have any contact with the kids in over a month. They both have their own emails and their own phones, and DC has all that info. He doesn't have to "go through" me to talk to them. DS has a FB that DC can message him on. But there's been no contact from DC. Now DD, who is still somewhat wearing rose-colored glasses in regards to DC, is nervous about going out there to see him. I'm torn between texting him and saying, "Hey give the kids a call or shoot them a text soon because they're getting antsy", and just staying out of it completely and let him deal with the kids when they're cranky and pissed off from not talking to him.
Why on Earth does he even bother flying them out there when he basically ignores them the rest of the year? How does he not see how stupid he's being?
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Re: Silence from DC
I would not want to get in the middle of him showing his true colors, but I also would not want to send my kids all the way across the country without knowing for sure that he will be there waiting on them. I would want to contact him somehow about confirming visitation.
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On a side note, I can't imagine how he doesn't even try to contact them. It is so easy to send a message on Facebook or a text to see how their days are. My DH literally calls SS every other day to talk, and BM never answers or returns phone calls but he still tries every week, several times a week. Why? Because he cares about his kid enough that he will deal with Satan incarnate to get to him..
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