Confession: today's the first day I've felt like absolute garbage with this pregnancy and I'm having a REALLY HARD TIME managing that and dd. As in she and I have literally been laying in my bed all morning and my patience is practically non-existent when she gets fussy. It makes me question if I can handle this moving forward. I mean, it's not optional... I'll have to handle it. I just don't know how good I'll do. Ugh. Too much going on right now.
Confession: today's the first day I've felt like absolute garbage with this pregnancy and I'm having a REALLY HARD TIME managing that and dd. As in she and I have literally been laying in my bed all morning and my patience is practically non-existent when she gets fussy. It makes me question if I can handle this moving forward. I mean, it's not optional... I'll have to handle it. I just don't know how good I'll do. Ugh. Too much going on right now.
You can do it! I understand the patience thing. You'll go through it again during the newborn slog with #2. You will make it though.
If you have to cry, go ahead. Let it out. I can't tell you how many tired, sleep deprived little boo-hoos' I have had on hard days. (((Hugs)))
Confession: today's the first day I've felt like absolute garbage with this pregnancy and I'm having a REALLY HARD TIME managing that and dd. As in she and I have literally been laying in my bed all morning and my patience is practically non-existent when she gets fussy. It makes me question if I can handle this moving forward. I mean, it's not optional... I'll have to handle it. I just don't know how good I'll do. Ugh. Too much going on right now.
I hate to say "bless your heart" because it sounds condescending, but seriously...bless your heart because I don't know how people do it. You can rip your skin off with me. Lol I dread getting pregnant if and when we decide to. Just because I'm such a weenie.
Confession: today's the first day I've felt like absolute garbage with this pregnancy and I'm having a REALLY HARD TIME managing that and dd. As in she and I have literally been laying in my bed all morning and my patience is practically non-existent when she gets fussy. It makes me question if I can handle this moving forward. I mean, it's not optional... I'll have to handle it. I just don't know how good I'll do. Ugh. Too much going on right now.
You can do it! I understand the patience thing. You'll go through it again during the newborn slog with #2. You will make it though.
If you have to cry, go ahead. Let it out. I can't tell you how many tired, sleep deprived little boo-hoos' I have had on hard days. (((Hugs)))
Thanks. Just a little overwhelmed today, I think. Feeling sick, dh is working on the chimney, dd needs to sleep but won't, mom's surgery is Monday, still having an issue with a crazy mom at school, and, oh yeah, working on growing another human. Lol. I'm usually really put together, I swear!
My ffsc is that I let DD look at the internet when I am bumping. She likes the words and it occupies her so I let her look. I said that my kids would not be watching tv early but since DD will be a visual learner I have no choice. She also told me she wants an ipad for xmas....I may buy one and say it is for DD when it really is for me. @mermomo5 DD looked at the flashy pic and was soon uninterested.
Confession: today's the first day I've felt like absolute garbage with this pregnancy and I'm having a REALLY HARD TIME managing that and dd. As in she and I have literally been laying in my bed all morning and my patience is practically non-existent when she gets fussy. It makes me question if I can handle this moving forward. I mean, it's not optional... I'll have to handle it. I just don't know how good I'll do. Ugh. Too much going on right now.
@Irichmond86 - I'm sorry I know all too well how this feels. Sometimes I get so upset and frustrated, I question my choice to be a mom at all (and feel super guilty). I'm sure you are handling everything a lot better than you think. Remember to take care of yourself as much as possible.
Btw, I'm a little jealous of all you ladies who get worried that your H's will get mad at you for spending too much money. When SO goes out shopping, he takes my cards and I have to keep track of everything.
I've been told I look confused when I'm really just concentrating, hahahaha!!!
For all you with a bitchy resting face:
Love Larry David! I really want to slap people when they tell me to smile. Try saying something funny and we'll talk.
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
I still think it's gross that I haven't bathed him since then... but everyone yesterday kept commenting on how good he smelled, WTF? I mean, I have wiped him down, but smelling good? I think not.
I don't know what you all are talking about; I am absolutely TERRIFYING in real life. It's only on TB that I'm nice. (Actually, I'm joking, but I have a rep for being a hard
Also I really love that DD STTN but I really wish she would take naps. I should also take her for walks since it is nice out but I just sit on the couch watching tv.
I still think it's gross that I haven't bathed him since then... but everyone yesterday kept commenting on how good he smelled, WTF? I mean, I have wiped him down, but smelling good? I think not.
DH made me give mo a bath yesterday because he said she smells. FFSC, I've only given mo 3 baths ever... She gets bathed Monday, Wednesday, Friday... The nanny does it.
@valstulas, yes, she does li too! DH does li on weekends, do I usually get away with no baths! Because of DH's procedure, I've been doing bath time this weekend... Li actually really likes the bath, so it's not too bad. The hardest part is water on the head and getting her to get out.
Re: FFSC
:-/
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If you have to cry, go ahead. Let it out. I can't tell you how many tired, sleep deprived little boo-hoos' I have had on hard days. (((Hugs)))
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I hate to say "bless your heart" because it sounds condescending, but seriously...bless your heart because I don't know how people do it. You can rip your skin off with me. Lol
@mermomo5 DD looked at the flashy pic and was soon uninterested.
For all you with a bitchy resting face:
@lrichmond86 I'm sorry today's so rough. Big hugs.
@maryannespier Ouch! I do not like this one bit.
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Uh, what is sleep??? He had his shots yesterday and he's being all sassy today!
Ditto.
I should also take her for walks since it is nice out but I just sit on the couch watching tv.