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LittlePigeon · November 2013

Sending you thoughts. It will be a process and like others have said there is no "right" way to process everything. Hugs.

pepperedmoth · November 2013

babylimas said:

I could handle everything else. I was ready for the heart condition and the NICU. I'm just so done with bad news. I'm tired.

Hugs. I know you can handle this too, though it may not seem like it now. You're an amazing woman.

Npironi · November 2013

Im sorry, i can imagine all this news is really difficult to handle and ill pray for your families strength. I cant imagine having to come to terms with such news myself so i feel for you.

Jess11019 · November 2013

I am so sorry! My thoughts are will you! Hope you have a loving supportive family and you will get through this and love you LO with all your heart. I can't imagine how hard this must be!

HobokensFury · November 2013

Hugs to you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers.

Andreabills · November 2013

Oh Sweetie, I'm so sorry that this is piled on top of everything else! As others have said, this is a safe place and you can always grieve/rage here whenever you need to.

Take the time that you need to process this, then find a support group in your area. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family!

lb1117 · November 2013

I'm so sorry. I'm sure it's a lot to process. Let yourself grieve and cope however you need to. ((Hugs))

PinupMomma08 · November 2013

Big hugs to you! I am so sorry

kaking78 · November 2013

I have nothing to add to what these wonderful ladies have said already, but here are some more creepy internet stranger hugs if you need them.

WoodShopGirl · November 2013

Thought are with you.

MandyCakes1224 · November 2013

Wow I'm so sorry. Thinking if you and your family.

boymom312 · November 2013

I'm so sorry you have to go through this too. We're all thinking of you and wishing you peace as you process the news.

bunniekrissy · November 2013

I'm so sorry for your news- it must be very hard to hear. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family as you adjust and process this!

BrideNamedMeg · November 2013

((hugs))

beautifuldreamer1234 · November 2013

Thoughts and prayers as you and your family process this news.

*Naea* · November 2013

You've had a lot to process in a really short time, I don't blame you for wanting to hide under the covers for a while. I'm sure it makes his heart issues a little more intimidating as well. Take the time you need...

Sanibel21 · November 2013

I am so so sorry this is happening. I'll be thinking of you and sending prayers and strength.

kls33145 · November 2013

I'm so sorry for this news....I'm sure you are feeling overwhelmed, confused, an unsure right now. As stated before, we are all here for you! Sending big hugs and positive thoughts your way.

My best friends brother has Down's Syndrome and he was probably one of the most popular kids in my high school. Everyone loved/loves him and he has made such an impact on so many lives.

Please stay in touch and let us know how you're doing.

mcfife09 · November 2013

I hope all your fears and concerns will be covered with love and peace during this time.

kimberpoo · November 2013

So sorry to hear that! It sounds like you have a tough road ahead of you but I'm sure your baby will be wonderful and sweet and loved.

jazzyexpo · November 2013

I'm so sorry, hugs and thoughts for you.

SassyFlats · November 2013

I don't know if you've ever read this, but it is beautiful and honest and brings me to tears every single time I go back to it (including right now):

https://www.kellehampton.com/2010/01/nella-cordelia-birth-story.html

Your baby is a miracle. A wonderful miracle. It is okay and NORMAL for you to feel whatever mixed-up emotions you're feeling now. It's okay to mourn, to be angry, to be afraid. It's okay. And we're all here for you. You can vent or cry or whatever. But just know that your baby is so incredibly lucky to have you for a mother.

talitha712 · November 2013

I'm sorry you got some news that you weren't expecting and you're having to process through that. Thinking of you all as you let go of what you thought and try to adjust to a new normal. Fwiw, I teach and know several kids with Downs who are amazing kiddos.

Missfunball · November 2013

hugs*

I know it must be hard but don't dwell on it. I have 2 friends that have downs children and damned if they arent the biggest love bugs in the world. Keep in mind we face life and challenges, and I can't tell you to be happy about it, no one can but honestly, you'll love your LO no matter what.

Try not to hate on those who try to keep it positive and if you are feeling overwhelmed with how to tell just keep it small. If you know how you'd prefer people to react tell them. Lots of love for you @babylimas . We are here for you no matter what.

MaDa8 · November 2013

My thoughts are with you. Be true to whatever you're feeling, even when others try to persuade you to think differently. ((hugs))

dannie2011 · November 2013

*hugs*

liamandlettie · November 2013

Keeping you in my thoughts. Hope you are doing alright

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legallyginger · November 2013

Oh my goodness. I'm so, so sorry you got more difficult news to process on top of everything else. ((Hugs)) you're in my thoughts. Know that everyone here is willing to lend a shoulder and an ear for whatever you need to feel or say.

teaforthree · November 2013

SassyFlats said:

I don't know if you've ever read this, but it is beautiful and honest and brings me to tears every single time I go back to it (including right now):

https://www.kellehampton.com/2010/01/nella-cordelia-birth-story.html

Your baby is a miracle. A wonderful miracle. It is okay and NORMAL for you to feel whatever mixed-up emotions you're feeling now. It's okay to mourn, to be angry, to be afraid. It's okay. And we're all here for you. You can vent or cry or whatever. But just know that your baby is so incredibly lucky to have you for a mother.

I was going to link to this same birth story. If you read the rest of Kelle's blog, you'll see a really beautiful story unfold, and how much joy her daughter brings. As other PPs have said, there is no wrong way to feel right now. It is completely expected that you would be overwhelmed with many different feelings at this time. We're all here for you on the boards, to listen and understand with compassion. Wishing you much strength right now.

benevolentforce · November 2013

Sending you and your family lots of thoughts and hugs as you process this news.

karacakes98 · November 2013

I'm so sorry.

Yenemous · November 2013

I'm so sorry. I can't even begin to imagine the flood of thoughts and emotions you're dealing with right now. Hoping for peace, wisdom and acceptance for you and your family as you navigate this new direction in life.

cdnmomma · November 2013

I'm so sorry for what you must be going through right now. Take your time and lean on those around you. We have a family friend who's son has ds and he is the light of their life. Ill be keeping you in my thoughts.

Assilemmm09 · November 2013

I am so sorry, it will be a hard road, but remember we never receive nothing we can't handle. That baby will be lucky to have you as a mom, and much as you will be lucky to have him. Lots of love & hugs for you & your LO.

Kmward488 · November 2013

Praying for you...

kcanuck · November 2013

I'm very sorry you and your family are being faced with additional challenges. Big hugs and lots of positive thoughts your way.

matthew24 · November 2013

I am very sorry. Wishing you all the best in the future.

amholley1 · November 2013

Infinite hugs and thoughts for you mama. Im sorry to hear about this outcome, and I can only imagine how difficult it must be. I hope everything works out for you in the end.

kmeyers0611 · November 2013

I'm so sorry you got more upsetting news. You can always come to us as guinea pigs when you need to vent, or just practice accepting something out loud. We are here for you! I will keep your family in my prayers!

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