Me and my little brother are a few years apart and share the same birthday. My brother has a daughter who is 3 and she is a wonderful niece love her to pieces, his child's mother i/the family are not a fan of for we didn't know about her until about 2 weeks before she delivered. A few days ago my brother texted me asking if he could talk and he told me that chick( can't say girlfriend because he says they aren't together) is pregnant again. I was supportive of my brother because he is like what do I do we aren't happy together and my niece can see that. I told him you don't have to be with her to support your children but I told him if y'all weren't happy why did you continue to have sex with her?? He is the one working paying all the bills because this ratchet chick keeps getting fired from her job and has the nerve to kick him out the apartment he is paying for!!!! Granted he is at fault just as much as she, but what burns me is that these two cannot afford to take care of their daughter now without help how they going to another?? I'm hurt and pissed that me and my DH have done everything right and can afford to raise a family and I can't get our babies here but these female can get pregnant and have healthy babies but cannot support them. I want to be happy for m brother but it is hard to be when I know he has not made the right choices.