So today my ex text me an lets it be known he will never be happy with me. An wasn't for awhile. So my response was. Why did you want a baby with me. His response. I didn't know you. Thought I'd be happy with you for the rest of my life. Like wow! But I asked him how he was gonna fill walking away from our baby when he was born. Never said anything back!
Re: Update on becoming single
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Also, see above comment.
It does sound like you are better off though. At least you know where you stand and can try to accept not to have any expectations from him although I know that's easier said than done.
Hopefully you have a good family and supportive friends who will be there to help you xx
Eta. I say the above from experience. I was a single young mother with the father (sperm donor as I call him) never being involved and still is not. It definitely wasn't easy but I have and still do have amazing parents whom helped me raise my son.
No, take him to court no matter what. Not if all else fails. He needs to support his child, even if he is a POS human. Also, I don't think any judge will force you to bottle feed, they'll start visitation later.
Baby Chugging born 12.28.13
induction due to HELLP
You honestly sound like you will consider taking him back if he wants to come back. If he left you once he will do it again and this time it would probably be worse with a child around to see it. Concentrate on yourself and on the baby now. Cut him out and take him to court as soon as LO is born.
Exactly what I was wondering last night.
I've yet to get on the computer to change it! I forgot about it.
I am trying to work with him but he is being a total jerk! And I've actually beat him up once! But I'm standing firm on breast feeding.
No, I actually feel bad for it! But it happen!
I have visions of an episode of COPS.