My dh just told me that he saw my exh at my dc's halloween parade in a costume and was making fun of him. As you probably would know, there is no love lost between us. However, I have to admit that when I heard that, it twisted my heart a little. IMO the fact that my dc's dad wore a silly costume to her parade is pretty sweet. Yes he can be a total ahole and even worse sometimes. But it made me feel bad to hear dh mocking him. He really is just an a-hole when it comes to me, and is a pretty good dad. Anybody else get mixed feelings about their ex's sometimes, when they are being good parents?
Re: mixed feelings for exh
I still want to defend XH sometimes when he tells me things XSD is saying and doing to him. If he dressed up in a dorkyass costume for my daughter, I would love it and think better of him.
I don't trust him. I don't really like him. But I do think there are some good qualities to him that are important to DD. And she matters the most.
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I probably would have balked at the insults, too.