I had my trip to L&D last night cause I cramped all day, and I did not want to be that first time mom that freaks about everything. So I figured it was just BH so I drank water, I walked, I took a nap nothing took them away. So finally I told hubby we need to go in and get checked out. I was having contractions but they were irregular and my cervix was closed so that is good. My husband gets douche bag year of the award, there was no comfy recliner so what does he do he curls up on the floor and sleeps the whole 4 hours we are there. After the nurse gets the ok for me to go home to rest and keep my feet up I wake him up and when he asks me what it was I told him and he goes so we came here for nothing. I slept on the hard floor for nothing, I told him so sorry you were so uncomfortable ugh! We get home and instead of taking the dog out cause she really had to go I took her out, he calls today like nothing happened and when I tell him I need more help he complains, I tell him I ask him to do things around the house and then he comes home and sits on the couch and plays xbox till it is time to go to bed. The roomate left his dinner mess in the sink and it attracted ants and I had to clean it up this morning. I really want to slap the hell out of both oo them. They both have weekends off, they can help clean the house, they both know how to read directions they can cook dinner once in awhile. But ones excuse is why should he and the others is well then I will just burn it.
They do not get it while they are warm in bed I'm wide awke cause I just can not sleep anymore, I'm so sore and it is really hard for me to bend over to get everything as clean as it needs to be. My husband has Saturdays off and we are suppose to get the house ready for baby but he plays xbox all weekend. I'm pissed because he took so long to go look at cars that we will have no car to bring baby home from the hospital so I have to arrange transportation. This baby was not a surprise we were not using any contraception we talked at great lengths about what needed to be done once baby got here. I know I'm stressed and tired and that is not helping my body but I seriously do not know what to do anymore, they are being so selfish and all about themselves. I feel like screaming at them telling them I need them to grow the hell up and stop acting like my children.
Re: I'm really irritated right now and just need to vent, cry or scream.
I'm sorry you feel like this, maybe you can talk to your husband. It may start a fight but at least he'll know how you feel.
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Brilliant.
Sorry your husband is being a douche.
Normally I'm all in favor of a calm, balanced response but sh*t, girl, GET THOSE HORMONES OUT OF CHECK AND GO APESH*T ON THE BOTH OF THEM.
You deserve better, period.
Ooh! What was it?
DO tell!!!
Baby GIRL due 12/26
And you need to have some hard conversations with your DH. Is he ready to be a father? Does he understand what's involved? The sleepless nights, poopy diapers, trips to the doctor, cholic, spitting up, etc.? Parenthood is not for wimps. And if he thinks he can play Xbox all weekend with a baby, he can think again. He needs to get his crap together.
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My husband is military and works longer hours than me-I am appreciative that he steps up and does alot. Through the course of this pregnancy (our first together and we had my stepdaughter with us thru te summer) I have learned to let go of some things and focus on the
Positives. It is a give and take and when I have energy I have been on it with dinner and housework. I have learned a ton about communication this pregnancy along with managing my insane hormones lol!!
And I am 35 and husband is 40 lol!
yeah it seems like you have lost all balance in your relationship, or you didn't have it to begin with. working all day doesn't give you a pass for household stuff, or if it does, it swings both ways on the weekends.
and the roommate, yeah, i seriously don't think you should put up with crap from him. he's a TENANT, you're not asking him for a favor, you're asking him to contribute to the household needs, and that should be spelled out in whatever WRITTEN agreement you have with him. If he doesn't comply, show him the door. you shouldn't put up with this crap from either of these men.
and i mean, seriously, your husband was complaining that HE was uncomfortable in L&D? SERIOUSLY?!?!
I think she said hes 35
Baby GIRL due 12/26
One thing that might help is getting a dry erase board and writing down exactly what chores are assigned to a person for each day. Like mondays i clean the bathrroms, Dh takes out trash, roommate does dishes. Tuesday, i do laundry, DH does dishes, roommate vaccums. Etc. Hope this helps!