"Don't you know better?!?!"

mrscrcalli · October 2013

So today at lunch I got the shot of wheatgrass with my juice. A lady in my meeting began to lecture me in front of everyone around how I could drink that without looking up if it was safe that wheatgrass is not recommended when you're pregnant.. So naturally I started freaking out and turning to Dr. Google, there are mixed opinions as always.
Then about a half hour later she brings her phone over to me and says "see look it's not recommended, it's like feeding your baby mold"
and I just started crying I didn't know what else to do it was in front of everyone she's telling me that I basically poisoned my baby?!

So I'm far away from home and in a hotel and I can't shake this feeling of what I might have done wrong.

J&NL · October 2013

I think she's just a bitch and needs to leave you alone. Don't feel bad. I don't think wheat grass is the worst thing you can put in your body while you're pregnant so don't feel bad. Damn, I hate people.

ksulli · October 2013

I'm pretty sure a single shot of a juice won't have a lasting impact on your baby. It's the single shot of meth you need to keep an eye out for.

Rrrrrachel · October 2013

Something like wheatgrass is seriously not going to hurt your baby.

buffyjsa · October 2013

I don't know much about wheatgrass, but what she did was completely uncalled for. if she was worried, she could have taken you aside and told you her concerns and let you make a decision. I don't know if I might have tried to slug her for something like that.

and my philosophy is if you only do something once, chances are that it's not going to have a significant effect and the baby should be fine. we all do less-than-brilliant things every once in a while and we're still ok.

sorry for the upset. *hugs*

hordol · October 2013

Don't get worked up over a shot of wheat grass, I'm confident everything will be fine.

that lady needs to work on delivery methods for her messages...she sounds like a real peach!

mrscrcalli · October 2013

Like honestly even if it was bad she is a total Bitch for presenting it like that and I have to see her again tomorrow have been going over in my head since it happened what I want to say to her.

And of course now I'm my own worst enemy I've read 37 articles about wheatgrass

Erikahenderson1 · October 2013

You and baby are fine. I'm sorry that lady was such a bitch but it sounds to me like she has wayyyyy too much time on her hands and needs to get her own life.

mrscrcalli · October 2013

dani+california said:
Honestly, what's done is done so don't bother Googling things and worrying yourself over nothing. Maybe check with your doctor next time you see him/her? But you don't want to upset yourself over nothing.

I would honestly be putting together a nice speech for your little friend tomorrow. You should tell her that her actions were inappropriate and you'd appreciate her minding her own business in the future - people like her need to be put in their place. I have a really good long distance plan if you need me to do it...ahahaha

Hahahah you can do it! I'm so not good at that stuff and she's really the bossy type she is always adding her 2 cents in the meeting

mrscrcalli · October 2013

KendraColeslaw said:
That woman who lectured you sounds like a total bitch! She didn't need to talk down to you, especially in front of other people, and make you feel bad for that. I know wheatgrass is an iffy subject - some doctors say no and others say to consume the powdered form only. I think it's probably like every other thing we're "not supposed to do": alcohol, caffeine, cigarettes, deli meat - some do, some don't. Drinking it this one time isn't going to hurt you or baby. Don't let that woman make you feel this way. We can't possibly know EVERYTHING that may not be good for us, and wheatgrass does not come close to topping the list.

Thanks everyone.. There is so many different opinions on this on the Internet that some of them are really starting to freak me out, and some were saying that they were drinking it by the gallon when they were pregnant.

To be honest when I ordered it I didn't think twice about it until she opened her fat mouth

ksulli · October 2013

Fwiw, I wouldn't have thought twice either.

Krispix78 · October 2013

Ridiculous! People are so opinionated with regard to pregnant women. As if we don't all want to do whats best for our babies (well, most of us that is). RUDE. She's just trying to show off for some reason because she is insecure.

MamaFantastic · October 2013

people amaze me.

drink another one tomorrow in front of her face, and don't break eye contact the entire time you guzzle it down

Twirple · October 2013

So drinking wheatgrass is like feeding your baby mold?! Well, penicillin is made of mold and think of how many people it has helped. You're just helping to give your baby the immune system of Superman!

Seriously, the woman should STFU and mind her own business.

hlm184 · October 2013

If someone did that to me I would look them straight in the eye and say "Well, it can't be worse than the crystal meth I was doing last night."

And then once I enjoyed their sweet sweet reaction I would ask them to mind their own darn business.

Alycia Hause · October 2013

She's acting like you took a shot of whiskey!! How dare she doubt your knowledge and try to embarrass you in front of people. Shame on her. You know what's good for you, don't doubt yourself mama!

RocksInTheWater · October 2013

Some people just aren't happy unless they are bossing others around and shoving their opinions in people's faces. Sorry you had to deal with one of those people today.

As PP have mentioned, don't beat yourself up about the wheatgrass. Leave dr. google alone and try to enjoy your night.

mrscrcalli · October 2013

spasticfantastic said:
people amaze me.

drink another one tomorrow in front of her face, and don't break eye contact the entire time you guzzle it down

That's what I was wanting to do but then I got scared!!! I was thinking even getting the giant green goddess smoothly and telling her it was just a giant wheatgrass smoothie

Lindsay808 · October 2013

She's not a midwife or an OB - I wouldn't pay attention. There are also women that think ultrasounds are bad or you can't look at a cat while pregnant (okay maybe I'm exaggerating on that one). I was eating Cheez-Itz awhile ago (one of the few snacks I could stand during my m/s stage) at work and a girl was totally judging me and made a comment about how processed food can't be good for the baby. Eye roll. We aren't perfect. You didn't smoke crack, you drank some wheatgrass. Don't beat yourself up and just ask your doc for some reassurance.

mrscrcalli · October 2013

mummyofsix said:
What a horrible person.

She acted like she was doing me a favor by "educating me"

Sisimama10 · October 2013

Rude and obnoxious.

Sisimama10 · October 2013

jellysparkles said:
Anytime someone makes a comment to me in public like that, I respond that my OB's cool with it. Whatever the hell it is I'm doing. Whether or not my OB said it. Because (a) they need to STFU, (b) they DON'T know what my OB has said to me, and (c) I know I'm not going to knowingly do something I feel will hurt my baby.

And if I have any doubt in my mind, I call the OB or hang out with Dr. Google in the privacy of my own home.

Really though, you could do a lot worse than wheatgrass.

Right, a lot worse! Shots of vodka for you and everyone at the meeting tomorrow! Body shots will score you extra points in my book.

mrscrcalli · October 2013

Sisimama10 said:

jellysparkles said:
Anytime someone makes a comment to me in public like that, I respond that my OB's cool with it. Whatever the hell it is I'm doing. Whether or not my OB said it. Because (a) they need to STFU, (b) they DON'T know what my OB has said to me, and (c) I know I'm not going to knowingly do something I feel will hurt my baby.

And if I have any doubt in my mind, I call the OB or hang out with Dr. Google in the privacy of my own home.

Really though, you could do a lot worse than wheatgrass.
Right, a lot worse! Shots of vodka for you and everyone at the meeting tomorrow! Body shots will score you extra points in my book.

To her it was like spoon feeding my fetus mold.. She was fuckin researching it for a half hour then brought her phone to me to prover her point. I was mortified and irate!

Teresa1896 · October 2013

What a bitch!!!! None of her business and totally inappropriate for her to bring up in front of others.

I would just egg her on tomorrow by showing up with a giant coffee (decaf or not, tell her it's regular), lunch meat, sushi, Diet Coke, alfalfa sprouts.... If she said anything I'd ask her where she went to med school.

MrsG325 · October 2013

I'm so sorry you had to deal with her. That's really terrible that she did that. Some people are just completely blind to how inconsiderate they're being. I'm sure your baby is just fine.

Linnea503 · October 2013

Throat punch time. Horrible.

I wouldn't have thought twice about the wheatgrass either.

mrscrcalli · October 2013

lia619 said:
She sucks. Who wastes their one researching and then shoving it down someone's throat! I've definitely had wheat grass with my smoothie....so you and I can have our moldy babies together

I literally ordered it with pride too like it was the damn fuel that would make my baby a superbaby

Moldy baby club

twinklemoon · October 2013

What a bitch! I'm sorry. There are nicer ways of telling people things. Like anything else I think I'm moderation something won't harm the baby. In any case did you call your dr? He is an expert and maybe can eases your mind. But that lady was a bitch! Smh :-$

mrscrcalli · October 2013

jellysparkles said:
You should probably give up carrots, too, since they're, like, grown in dirt. And yogurt, since it has all that bacteria in it.

I actually asked her in my shitty tone.. So mushrooms are totally out of the question right???

bingbongsmama · October 2013

I didn't know wheatgrass was dangerous. I didn't know about soft serve either until it was mentioned here.

Serenla · October 2013

spasticfantastic said:
people amaze me.

drink another one tomorrow in front of her face, and don't break eye contact the entire time you guzzle it down

This and please show her this from me, she is a fucking cuntburger.

mrscrcalli · October 2013

Serenla said:

spasticfantastic said:
people amaze me.

drink another one tomorrow in front of her face, and don't break eye contact the entire time you guzzle it down
This and please show her this from me, she is a fucking cuntburger.

I enjoy how freely most of the ladies on here use the term cunt..

Serenla · October 2013

Alycia Hause said:
She's acting like you took a shot of whiskey!! How dare she doubt your knowledge and try to embarrass you in front of people. Shame on her. You know what's good for you, don't doubt yourself mama!

Oh you should get a big green smoothie, take a small flask filled with apple juice and pour it in while you talk about how much you like whiskey in the morning!

twinklemoon · October 2013

dani+california said:
Educate her face with your fist

I busted out laughing when I read this. Lol love it!!! You know that feeling you get when you drive behind people who are dumb ass drivers ?? I want to honk , flip finger,, all the works lol I hate people like that

Bluebird2318 · October 2013

She's being ridiculous. I felt bad for a minute after eating tabbouli because I heard too much parsley was bad for pregnancy (causes uterine contractions). PARSLEY. I can't even imagine the amount I'd have to eat in order for it to actually cause uterine contractions. And I was stressing over a small bowl of tabbouli. As long as you're not downing raw meat constantly, eat whatever you want in moderation. Just follow the basics outlined by your OB, and avoid Googling anything else. That's where I'm at right now.

kwolslager · October 2013

jellysparkles said:

mrscrcalli said:

spasticfantastic said:
people amaze me.

drink another one tomorrow in front of her face, and don't break eye contact the entire time you guzzle it down
That's what I was wanting to do but then I got scared!!! I was thinking even getting the giant green goddess smoothly and telling her it was just a giant wheatgrass smoothie

Do it. DO IT.

I was going to suggest taking a flask to your next meeting full of something you love and pour it into a drink as soon as you see she's looking. Lol... But this works too.

kwolslager · October 2013

Serenla said:

Alycia Hause said:
She's acting like you took a shot of whiskey!! How dare she doubt your knowledge and try to embarrass you in front of people. Shame on her. You know what's good for you, don't doubt yourself mama!
Oh you should get a big green smoothie, take a small flask filled with apple juice and pour it in while you talk about how much you like whiskey in the morning!

Hahaha. I just suggested this same thing! Great minds think alike!
I vote yes, on this genius idea!

Mamamonzo · October 2013

How rude! Don't you worry about a thing! You and your baby are going to be fine and that lady was a total asshat for doing that!!!

Hugs!!!

mrscrcalli · October 2013

karissamonzo said:
How rude! Don't you worry about a thing! You and your baby are going to be fine and that lady was a total asshat for doing that!!!

Hugs!!!

Second "asshat" in the thread.. I've never heard it but I really like how it rolls off the tongue

Eija3014 · October 2013

mrscrcalli said:

lia619 said:
She sucks. Who wastes their one researching and then shoving it down someone's throat! I've definitely had wheat grass with my smoothie....so you and I can have our moldy babies together
I literally ordered it with pride too like it was the damn fuel that would make my baby a superbaby

Moldy baby club

I had a yummy green smoothie with wheat grass and thought the exact same thing! I was like, "Look at me giving my baby nutrients n shit!"

I guess I'm a horrible mother and my child will never be the same again...

Seriously though, I bet that lady is one of those people who watches the corny news programs and believes every "epidemic" and "silent killer" story they air. She just seems like a looney to me. Screw her for bullying you. Tell her the middle finger mentioned above is from hundreds of well-informed and healthy mommas

samjen2010 · October 2013

J&NL said:

I think she's just a bitch and needs to leave you alone. Don't feel bad. I don't think wheat grass is the worst thing you can put in your body while you're pregnant so don't feel bad. Damn, I hate people.

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