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wishiwaspreggo · October 2013

Yeah, I think that's all you can do (hit the gear icon in the upper right corner) and just delete the text. And really, just leave and stop posting. That's the most compassionate thing you can do at this point. No more apologies, nothing, just let these threads die.

Lm92599 · October 2013

Jmgresham22 · October 2013

Lm92599 said:

Jmgresham22 said:

I said that to show you guys exactly how mean you guys sound. No I don't believe God punishes people by not giving them kids. God knows if we were punished by infertility that I wouldn't have babies....

I've read a lot of posts, mine included, that you guys immediately get snarky and mean. All any of us are looking for is hope and truth. I agree there are some people who may post in the wrong place or who may be so much in denial that those 20 bfns mean nothing to her..... But the WAY something is said sometimes means more than what is actually said. I don't think there's a place for sarcasm or poking fun or anything else in a board designed to be supportive. It's like "mean girls" of ttc. I wanted to come here an be able to say those chicks are crazy these ladies are nice! But you guys have a bad rep. I know you don't care.... But there are ladies who are just starting out who aren't educated and who come here to learn. They're not just being ignorant on purpose.

Now I HOPE that at some point I can get along with you because I need answers to some things.... And something's are better learned from people's experiences than a text book answer from google.

I apologize for MY harshness.... And my opinion doesn't matter.... But I do wish everyone could just be a bit nicer here.

what! you start this post by coming her and basically trying to pick an argument... and then say you came here with that exact intention... to get them all going? to learn by experience?? WTF!!! really?? Do you think that everyone here and in the infertility world where you went and made your apology.. prob to stir up more bad feelings, because us in that world would have never known your insensitive comments from over here. Just so you know its just plain mean. I don't know if your looking for attention and that's what you got, but its just sad. All of us are emotionally, physically and financially drained and don't need the drama. shame on you.

Someone said apologize to the infertility community and I took it way too literally. Shame is on me I feel terrible that I hurt anyone and I am very sorry.

ash273uk · October 2013

wishiwaspreggo said:
Yeah, I think that's all you can do (hit the gear icon in the upper right corner) and just delete the text. And really, just leave and stop posting. That's the most compassionate thing you can do at this point. No more apologies, nothing, just let these threads die.

JMGresham, you just keep digging a deeper hole the more you keep posting and "apologizing" or "explaining yourself".

I agree with the above. The most compassionate thing you can do is just stop posting, drop the subject and let things die down.

The rest of us should honestly probably do the same. She won't have anything to respond to if we don't give her anything to respond to!

bugandbibs · October 2013

Jmgresham22 said:
Qfp??

This means quote for prosperity. So that when you get flamed and delete your post everyone knows exactly what you said. Thanks for proving me right

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MrsLillyG · October 2013

eek at the God comment

mean.

Mysterious_wife · October 2013

I thought QFP=quit fucking playing.

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Mysterious_wife · October 2013

I'm still laughing at my dumb ass.

Jmgresham22 · October 2013

Oh ok! Thanks! Bibs I deleted because I was advised to. Not to prove anyone anything. It's very clear that it had been quoted enough that people would still see it. I am simply trying to move on and drop it. I have apologized as much as I can and it seems it will not be accepted and i understand and would probably feel the same way. I wish you all the best!

bugandbibs · October 2013

Qfp??
This means quote for prosperity. So that when you get flamed and delete your post everyone knows exactly what you said. Thanks for proving me right )
Posterity. Or proof.

Stupid auto correct

laurenstar18 · October 2013

This post has crazy written all over it! 8-}

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