Lola- I didn't say that to you directly. Get over it- I stated my own opinion.
STFU! I could care less who your comment was directed at. When you decided to post a comment in a public forum for all to see, I will voice my opinion whether you like it or not. If you want to have a private conversation with someone specific feel free to send them PM.
also I am sure that I may get banned- but I am sure of few of you will too- since you all decided to attack me for my own opinions in such an aggressive way without true provocation from me.
This isn't a "if I'm going down you're coming with me" kind of deal. This happens way more often than it should. The troll gets banned and regulars move on with their lives until the next troll comes out from under it's misguided bridge.
amberjade- I was not being a troll at all. I posted two of my own opinions just like all of you do- but I got attacked because some of you got upset.
In Internet slang, a troll is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people, by posting inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a forum, chat room, or blog), either accidentally or with the deliberate intent of provoking readers into an emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.
amberjade- I was not being a troll at all. I posted two of my own opinions just like all of you do- but I got attacked because some of you got upset.
Again, you are wrong. No one is "attacking" you because you have your own opinion. We are pointing out the flaws of your "logic" and letting you know your opinion is offensive to all on this board.
It's pretty sad when the white knights stay quiet. That in itself should show you how wrong your "opinions" are.
@SweetHeartSparkles Ok I just have to say one thing. So because you wouldn't murder your baby girl, you'd just give them away, we shouldn't judge you? Because you wouldn't murder a child you shouldn't be judged.....that's setting the bar pretty low.
The self hate you must possess. I feel so sorry for you and your children. I truly hope you get help for the sake of your boys.
It is really telling that you're spending your time debating the TOS instead of addressing the legitimate arguments against your opinion. Probably because your "opinion" is complete BS.
I hate to say it, but me and the father were scared to death of having a girl. We are having our second boy thank god. I may have put a girl up for adoption. And befor your judge me on that- think about this- I would have carried a girl ful term and given birth to a healthy child- and given to a family who wanted it. That is better than abortion or the practice of killing/discarding babies girls that is found in MANY other cultures and countries. Its sad and sick but true. Girls are just not as valued as boys are- they never have been. Its historical fact.
But if you are happy then congrats to you- someone has to raise girls or the human race wouldn't be.
this is an opinion from a woman who was raised by an abusive and overly controlling mother, who to this day tells me directly how much she hates me.
So, just out of curiosity...what do you think of yourself? Do you consider yourself inferior and less important than men???
This has to be one of the most pathetic posts I have ever read on the bump. I feel very sorry for you if this is how you view females...
Jenny- why involve yourself in this now? you should be smart enough to stay away from something that you can easily see is going downhill for everyone involved..
Well actually this is a public forum and I can comment on whatever I would like, but thanks for your concern. I'm a big girl I can handle one ignorant person on the internet and not get my my panties in a wad. And if we've been reading the same discussion the only person this is going downhill for is you.
you must have no life if you find this to be so entertaining
Or she could be on bed rest and trying to entertain her mind? Furthermore, who attacked you? If you don't have proof, we won't believe it.
Personally, I'm in my kitchen boiling/prepping prefolds and doing laundry. This is just to pass the time. I haven't even had to crack out on Candy Crush yet!
you must have no life if you find this to be so entertaining
Or she could be on bed rest and trying to entertain her mind? Furthermore, who attacked you? If you don't have proof, we won't believe it.
Personally, I'm in my kitchen boiling/prepping prefolds and doing laundry. This is just to pass the time. I haven't even had to crack out on Candy Crush yet!
Aw...lucky you I'm looking at prefolds on line. I wish I could my laundry...Dh does and sometimes he doesn't use fabric softener.
you must have no life if you find this to be so entertaining
Or she could be on bed rest and trying to entertain her mind? Furthermore, who attacked you? If you don't have proof, we won't believe it.
Personally, I'm in my kitchen boiling/prepping prefolds and doing laundry. This is just to pass the time. I haven't even had to crack out on Candy Crush yet!
Aw...lucky you I'm looking at prefolds on line. I wish I could my laundry...Dh does and sometimes he doesn't use fabric softener.
Where are you looking for prefolds at? I got some Unbleached Indian Cotton from cottonbabies.com, no shipping and they're really nice! When I bought my GMD's I thought the shipping would kill me, lol. A lot of my stash is pre-used too.
you must have no life if you find this to be so entertaining
And how doe that reflect on your life? You keep coming back, and admitted to me yourself you find it "hilarious," so please excuse me as I take anything you say with no more than a grain of salt.
you must have no life if you find this to be so entertaining
Or she could be on bed rest and trying to entertain her mind? Furthermore, who attacked you? If you don't have proof, we won't believe it.
Personally, I'm in my kitchen boiling/prepping prefolds and doing laundry. This is just to pass the time. I haven't even had to crack out on Candy Crush yet!
Aw...lucky you I'm looking at prefolds on line. I wish I could my laundry...Dh does and sometimes he doesn't use fabric softener.
Where are you looking for prefolds at? I got some Unbleached Indian Cotton from cottonbabies.com, no shipping and they're really nice! When I bought my GMD's I thought the shipping would kill me, lol. A lot of my stash is pre-used too.
I'm looking at Amazon. Kelly's Closet, and target. I'm getting prices, and then deciding if I how I want to CD.
I hate to say it, but me and the father were scared to death of having a girl. We are having our second boy thank god. I may have put a girl up for adoption. And befor your judge me on that- think about this- I would have carried a girl ful term and given birth to a healthy child- and given to a family who wanted it. That is better than abortion or the practice of killing/discarding babies girls that is found in MANY other cultures and countries. Its sad and sick but true. Girls are just not as valued as boys are- they never have been. Its historical fact.
But if you are happy then congrats to you- someone has to raise girls or the human race wouldn't be.
this is an opinion from a woman who was raised by an abusive and overly controlling mother, who to this day tells me directly how much she hates me.
I hate to say it, but me and the father were scared to death of having a girl. We are having our second boy thank god. I may have put a girl up for adoption. And befor your judge me on that- think about this- I would have carried a girl ful term and given birth to a healthy child- and given to a family who wanted it. That is better than abortion or the practice of killing/discarding babies girls that is found in MANY other cultures and countries. Its sad and sick but true. Girls are just not as valued as boys are- they never have been. Its historical fact.
But if you are happy then congrats to you- someone has to raise girls or the human race wouldn't be.
this is an opinion from a woman who was raised by an abusive and overly controlling mother, who to this day tells me directly how much she hates me.
Really Kama, cause Ive yet to get banned.. do you just want to keep on harassing me??
Seeing that's its a Sunday it will take time. I'm sure many of the MODS are with their families. You do realize that the people in charge in reviewing everything are normal posters like us.
They're regular people? I thought they were Gods... ohhhh it's MODS! Duhhhrrrr. lol
Also, why do all of her posts have so much space at the bottom? It's driving me a wee bit crazy.
I really want to hear more about the whole "girls are lesser" and "I'd give my baby up if it was a girl." You really need counseling. This shouldn't be about the TOS.
I know you're "stating your opinion" but seriously, there are lots of opinions that are flat out bad. This is one of them.
@SweetHeartSparkles wow. Just wow. I don't know what to comment on first.....the absolute ridiculous idea that you would give your baby up simply for the fact that she wasn't the gender you wanted, or on the fact that you've spent so much time trying to "take people down with you" for calling you out on your hideous "opinion". Just as you have a right to voice that opinion, we all have the right to give our response to that. It's the most awful thing I've heard on this board. Ever.
You really do need counseling. And I feel bad for your children, because you obviously have no regard for the value of life.
Wow...that is all I can say is wow...OP I am sorry about your situation and the fact that this twat came in with her uneducated view of HER OWN SEX. I am sure he will get over it. and Sparkle wtf is wrong with you? You need some serious help like yesterday I pray you find it...
amberjade your in your pic you look like a crack baby
Jokes on you! My mother actually did drugs while I was in utero, thankfully I was somehow spared all of the birth defects. However I refuse to speak to my mother and she pretty much hates her life because her only child won't speak with her. She tried having others but her drug addled body kept rejecting them. And no I won't flag you because everyone else will do it for me. You're just proving what a miserable troll you are. We don't care about you, you are literally an online toy for all of us to play with to pass the time during Sunday chores and bedrest.
also for those of you who must be confused- I did not put you down for having girls. In fact I did say congrats. Do not make stuff up or get offended by what I didn't say.
No, you just said my children are less valuable because they are female. Not offensive at all 8-|
I can't even wrap my head around giving up a child because it's not the "right" sex. My girls are AMAZING - the most awesome, wonderful, perfect little people I have ever had the privilege to know, let alone raise to be beautiful women. Anyone who thinks my girls are less valuable because of their sex is in need of some serious mental help.
Mama to two sweet girls DD1 Feb 2010 DD2 Sept 2011
@Meery82, I'm a little bummed I didn't make it over here before she got banned. I was pretty busy with other dramas yesterday.
Hey Sparklebitch, if you are still reading do your kids a favor and adopt them out anyway. They would be much better off being raised by someone with real values and who doesn't hate women. Andplusalso, stop procreating.
Re: Yay, It's a girl.. 23wks u/s.....but DH behavior a bit different :(
Yea there's the thing... The bump gods know we go overboard once and a while... However, multiple offences all at once are not tolerated.
It's pretty sad when the white knights stay quiet. That in itself should show you how wrong your "opinions" are.
@SweetHeartSparkles Ok I just have to say one thing. So because you wouldn't murder your baby girl, you'd just give them away, we shouldn't judge you? Because you wouldn't murder a child you shouldn't be judged.....that's setting the bar pretty low.
The self hate you must possess. I feel so sorry for you and your children. I truly hope you get help for the sake of your boys.
This has to be one of the most pathetic posts I have ever read on the bump. I feel very sorry for you if this is how you view females...
I just vomitted in my mouth.
Well actually this is a public forum and I can comment on whatever I would like, but thanks for your concern. I'm a big girl I can handle one ignorant person on the internet and not get my my panties in a wad. And if we've been reading the same discussion the only person this is going downhill for is you.
Check out the marijuana thread, too. She's BSC.
Hahaha! Ok, I had to laugh at this one. It's the first witty thing she's said!
You really do need counseling. And I feel bad for your children, because you obviously have no regard for the value of life.
DD1 Feb 2010
DD2 Sept 2011
Wow.
@Meery82, I'm a little bummed I didn't make it over here before she got banned. I was pretty busy with other dramas yesterday.
Hey Sparklebitch, if you are still reading do your kids a favor and adopt them out anyway. They would be much better off being raised by someone with real values and who doesn't hate women. Andplusalso, stop procreating.