So I've been having a more intimate relationship with my vibrator than my DH. I just know I'll enjoy it and I know what I like. It's not that I don't love my DH I just like doing it myself these days being 17 weeks preggo. Anyone else having the same issue? Thanks! Sorry if TMI!
Thanks for sharing FarmBoysWife! My DH has been taking matters into his own hands too. Maybe we are just kind of on our own now that we are pregnant? I'm really not the type to include him either so I guess it's just the way it is.
I love sex - and I love my morning time with my other boyfriend when DH has already left for work - especially since my other boyfriend doesn't really demand that I do any work Much more into it lately - but still trying to put the effort into sex on as regular a basis as I can manage - which isn't very regular.
Not TMI. I got intimate with it today in fact and loved every second of it. 3 minutes later I was finished and not nearly as messy as when I'm finished with DH. That's why I like it more sometimes...it's faster and cleaner.
You ladies who don't but who are interested should have a post pregnancy passion party. I say post preg so you can warm up with some wine. I did one for a girlfriend for her bachelorette and about half of the girls didn't already own something. They ALL left the party with favors and ALL gave rave reviews after.
Edit: by saying I did the party I mean I hosted, I am not an actual rep for passion party but there are plenty in most areas
Thanks ladies! I was going to take my post down b/c I was so embarrassed, but ya'll made me feel better! My DH actually got me the vibrator early in our marriage Maybe he knew I would really need it one day.
I use mine a couple times a week. It's cleaner, faster & always gets the job done. Love my husband, and our sex life, but sometimes I just prefer to focus on myself.
Married 4-26-2011 Me 31 DH 28
TTC since 12/2011
5/4/13-IUI #1=BFN, 6/3/13-IUI #2=BFN, 7/1/2013-IUI #3=BFP!!! Little Man arrived 3/28/14 at 10:32pm 9 lb 1 oz & 21 3/4 inches
Best investment you'll make. It can improve your sex life with your husband as well. So don't feel like you should hide it. Use it (on yourself) and give him a BJ at the same time - he'll fall in love all over.
You are not alone sister! I love my toy. I had an Athena's party a few years ago and my little buddy is still going strong. H travels for work about once a month so it's been a life saver!
DH and I have pretty crazy sex lives... maybe not traditional in some way of thinking :P We have A LOT of toys etc... I LOVE my Hitachi Magic Wand, however I've been going pretty slowly with him because I started spotting after using him back in the 1st trimester. Wi Vibe is also epic.
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Proud Cloth Diapering, Babywearing Mommy to Desmond (5.30.2011)
and Evangeline (2.26.2014)
Loving wife, best friend and teammate to Babywearing Daddy, Kelly (7.27.2000)
You girls have me laughing! I never even heard of these toys before! Lol
DH bought a "toy" for us almost a year ago. He gets it out every now and then to use it on me. It makes things fun, but I've never used it on myself before. I guess I'm not brave enough haha.
Wife & Full Time Step Mama to an incredible boy! First Date.. March 11, 2010 Engaged...August 09, 2011 Married...August 11, 2012BFP...July 21, 2013 E.D.D... March 31, 2014
I used to have some cheap off brand vibe that I bought after DS was born. Too afraid to have sex for awhile, but I was crazy horny. Loved it! Unfortunately I lost it in a move and haven't worked up the courage to buy another one
February 19, 2010- BFP!
March 14, 2010- M/C
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This may be my favorite post. I told my husband and showed him the we-vib...lol. First, he looked confused then curious and now I think Ill be getting it for xmas.
DH and I will be going through the we-vibe merchandise this evening I decided! I have several vibrators that i use solo or use with DH. We have lots of toys.
P.S. I agree with @FarmBoysWife give me your addresses and I will send all you ladies a toy! Everyone woman should have her own toy
Married 11/23/11, TTC starting 10/12, BFP#1 11/30/12, Adoption of stepson finalized 03/19/13,Loss of our daughter at 20w4d due to incompetent cervix 03/27/13, BFP#2 06/28/13, DS2 born 3/1/14.
Re: Does anyone else love their vibrator? Sorry TMI
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Are these brands? God I feel like a prude...need more info before I google!
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Amen!
Little Man arrived 3/28/14 at 10:32pm
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I thought it was just me lately enjoying my vibrator more than usual...guess it's notmal for this stage haha!
Proud Cloth Diapering, Babywearing Mommy to Desmond (5.30.2011) and Evangeline (2.26.2014)
Loving wife, best friend and teammate to Babywearing Daddy, Kelly (7.27.2000)
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You girls have me laughing! I never even heard of these toys before! Lol
DH bought a "toy" for us almost a year ago. He gets it out every now and then to use it on me. It makes things fun, but I've never used it on myself before. I guess I'm not brave enough haha.
Wife & Full Time Step Mama to an incredible boy!
First Date.. March 11, 2010 Engaged...August 09, 2011 Married...August 11, 2012 BFP...July 21, 2013
E.D.D... March 31, 2014
P.S. I agree with @FarmBoysWife give me your addresses and I will send all you ladies a toy! Everyone woman should have her own toy