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3rd Trimester
Birth certificate question
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Re: Birth certificate question
Don't forget you keep us posted in the future.
Does he take you home and show you off to his parents? Have you met his siblings and been introduced to his close friends? Do you get to go to his family events and Christmas dinner? No? That's because you're nothing more than his whore on the side. I'm sorry, I'm usually not a judgmental person but as someone who has been witnessed the other side of this issue I judge you with my entire being. I HOPE that he walks out on you. I HOPE that you find out you aren't his only PROSTITUTE. I HOPE that you get to feel the pain that his wife will feel when she finds out that her husband is a cheating lying jackass who isn't worth the dog shit on the sidewalk outside of your mistress housing unit.
You and your sugardaddy are both horrible human beings and I'm ashamed to know we are members of the same species.
You're stupid. You are absolutely ill if you honestly believe he cares about you. He's in a bad spot at work so he'll divorce his wife later? What, when you kid is old enough to watch and find out how horrible a person his/her daddy is? Oh, or when he walks out on his wife and then you realize, oh damn, he's leaving me and this kid behind as well. Uh-oh, what happened to my expense account? But I was so set for life! News flash you dirty skank, you are just an expensive hooker. I hope when they ask you what your profession is you tell them you're a million dollar prostitute and full-time home-wrecker.
I hope he leaves you and you feel the pain of how his wife will feel. Except I hope he does sign the birth certificate and he gets full custody because I feel bad for any person who is exposed to the likes of you. When your kid grows up and you start telling them about "prince charming" and what to look for in a man are you going to say "Make sure he's rich and his unsuspecting wife can't have kids so you can swoop in a trap him into paying for your shit for the rest of your life."
Oh, and what about when your kid asks about how you and 'dad' got together and what you used to do together are you going to say 'Romantic story. We used to go on these exotic vacations together because his WIFE was at home so we couldn't go there. We used to SNEAK AROUND behind EVERYONE'S BACK because mommy's a whore!" Good idea. Honesty, right? Oh no, I forgot you have NO IDEA what the word "honest" means.
"His wife is not my priority" Clearly neither is your child. You are doing nothing to protect yourself from him and YES I AM JUDGING YOU for that. You are a horrible person and you sound like you will be a terrible mother. "It's okay, daddy will be home in 3 weeks, but just for the weekend. He's visiting his other family right now." Your kid is going to feel so loved knowing he/she is just your boss' 'planned' accident. If it WAS planned by you both like you say, why is the birth certificate issue only coming up now? Why didn't he plan for this before?! Why doesn't he tell his wife now so that he can be involved in HIS baby's life full time?
Oh I know, because he doesn't give a shit about you or the kid. You know how I know? You claim he wants to leave his wife because she "can't give him children" - but you can, so you're having a baby together, right? But he still hasn't left her. Will he leave her as soon as the baby is born? No, because he isn't going to leave her. He's been 'planning' to for 2 years now you say? Yet he still hasn't even thought about mentioning any of this to her. He's a jackass and she deserves WAY better and I hope she leaves HIM, but at this point it doesn't look like that will happen any time soon, because he actually cares about her. If he didn't, he would have left her at the curb years ago when he found out she couldn't have kids. I hope you are okay with the fact that your kid will only have one extended family because he obviously won't be introducing your baby to his family any time soon - seeing as the baby isn't coming from his wife. Unless, you know, you're as bad at parenting as you are at making life decisions and he gets full custody. What'ya know, if his wife 'forgives' him he can keep the wife AND get the baby. Pfft, you're dirty.
You disgust me. If I knew what your sugardaddy's full name was I would find out how to get a hold of his wife and tell her myself. You are vile person and I hope for the kid's sake that ONE OF YOU turns out to be decent enough to pass for a 'good parent', since both of you fail horribly at being "decent human beings."
Gross.
Jesus Christ, lady, you are really stupid and in major denial about what you have gotten yourself into.
Good luck..
Obviously you are not enough for him either, or he wouldn't be going HOME to her. He married her and sleeps with you on the side for a reason.
Hope you have a supportive family, because you're going to need it when he leaves your dumb ass out in the cold. It'll happen.
Emma Kate - born 10.16.03 @ 29 weeks, weighed 1lb 13oz and 13.5" long.
TTC #3
This! When a man has two women, it means neither are enough for him. Get over yourself.
Seriously? Hah.
FYI if you are actually so clueless that you are surprised by people being put off by your relationship with a married man/having his child, then well....I guess that explains the whole situation in the first place. Please don't present your incredibly personal issues to strangers and then act all pissy when you don't get 'high-fives' for announcing your generally immoral behavior.
And here's a hint. You can keep that info to yourself if you don't want to get side-eyed.
IF this isn't MUD, I think OP is making up bits and pieces or is living in a fantasy world. For example, if he's so 'happy and loving,' why is he still married after being in this 'wonderful' relationship with her for TWO years? OP, you're clearly in denial sweety and you will not convince anyone here that he is so happy with you but goes home to his WIFE every night. You slept with a well off married man thinking you'd get the last laugh but all you've managed to do is be the whore he's ashamed of enough to not even claim your child. Any man that loves a woman or his child would never deny to claim their child married or not. Open your eyes and close your legs then you might have a chance to be someone's wife and not a sideline hoe. I feel sorry for your child who did not choose to be born out of wedlock to a psycho home wrecking whore.
When his wife found out her husband had fathered a child with another woman the shit hit the fan. The dad was not allowed to have ANY contact with the other woman or his child. She also had had trouble conceiving, but eventually she (the wife) had two children of her own. Guess what family the dad is with (still)? I'll give you a hint...its not you.
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Due Date 11/10/16
Yes, you sound like quite the vacuum cleaner.
MMC 01/26/12
MC 12/25/12, D&C 01/05/13
BFP 03/05/13, EDD 11/12/13. HB 175 @ 9w2d. Its a Girl!
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TTC: 8/11 BFP: 5/13 EDD:2/2/14 Born 1/13/14