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henderson1026 · September 2013

I used the J&J Lavender and Chamomile soap on LO last night. I don't like it

She smells like perfume, not yummy baby

ELauren88 · September 2013

Another. Since I EBF, when MH is home I make him change ALL the diapers. Its the least he can do, especially if we spent the day /evening cluster feeding.

ELauren88 · September 2013

Stephw32 said:

kwhite27 said:
My DH has still been cleaning the litter box and I have let it happen. Not sure if he has caught on yet that me being pregnant was the only reason he needed to do it.
Same thing is going on here. Ill enjoy it while it lasts

This was the first thing MH stopped doing.

Sucks, but it is my cat...

LokiLahve · September 2013

@mtb2013 most men don't react the way you seem to think they do to these types of shenanigans. The brain in their pants may react to it, but not the one in their minds, where it really counts.
If you want to get his attention, turn your focus to your LO and yourself. Be a strong independent woman, be an exceptional mother and role model to your LO, dress for success not seduction. The father will either see and respect you for the strong woman you are or miss out. Either way, it doesn't matter because you will be doing right by yourself and your child.
In life there is only one person you can control...yourself. Let him make his own bed and you worry about yours.

TurtleMomma · September 2013

I'm secretly jealous of my LO because of the reckless abandone with which he farts. It's a violent, whole-body experience and I love the look of sheer satisfaction when he's done. If I were to fart like he does, I would shit myself. Totes jelly!

MtB2013 · September 2013

Stephw32 said:
@mtb2013 most men don't react the way you seem to think they do to these types of shenanigans. The brain in their pants may react to it, but not the one in their minds, where it really counts.
If you want to get his attention, turn your focus to your LO and yourself. Be a strong independent woman, be an exceptional mother and role model to your LO, dress for success not seduction. The father will either see and respect you for the strong woman you are or miss out. Either way, it doesn't matter because you will be doing right by yourself and your child.
In life there is only one person you can control...yourself. Let him make his own bed and you worry about yours.

Thanks the more flame I get and advice like yours makes me realize I was doing stupid. I am not like this at all. Most of you know that he put me through hell. But he realizes now that he wants us to be part of his family. He talked about getting a place in the future.

I didn't dress like a slut. I have a beyonce body curves and butt. All I did was wear leggings and a nice top. I know it doesn't justify anything but anger can sometimes make us do stupid things that can only harm us or make us look bad.

CaliforniaDream87 · September 2013

MtB2013 said:
I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch.
I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf?

Yes I'm an evil B!tch

Is this a joke? You think sabotaging his relationship is about your son? Come on be honest. Sabotaging his relationship is about YOU. Also, you dress "sexually" to make him want you?

Yeaaaaaa...I'm side eyeing you for this one. So you're trying to seduce another woman's BF? Oh, but I guess it's because he's also your BD so you feel like you have some God given right to do so huh?

Wow.

Texasmomma13 · September 2013

Sometimes, I feel as if I've taken a wrong turn somewhere along the way when coming to this board. There are so many new names, and I know this sounds bitchy, but I just can't muster up enough shits to give to read their posts. There I said it. I guess that makes me a big ol meanie now.
Oh Well.

girlmama83 · September 2013

MtB2013 said:

Stephw32 said:
@mtb2013 most men don't react the way you seem to think they do to these types of shenanigans. The brain in their pants may react to it, but not the one in their minds, where it really counts.
If you want to get his attention, turn your focus to your LO and yourself. Be a strong independent woman, be an exceptional mother and role model to your LO, dress for success not seduction. The father will either see and respect you for the strong woman you are or miss out. Either way, it doesn't matter because you will be doing right by yourself and your child.
In life there is only one person you can control...yourself. Let him make his own bed and you worry about yours.
Thanks the more flame I get and advice like yours makes me realize I was doing stupid. I am not like this at all. Most of you know that he put me through hell. But he realizes now that he wants us to be part of his family. He talked about getting a place in the future.

I didn't dress like a slut. I have a beyonce body curves and butt. All I did was wear leggings and a nice top. I know it doesn't justify anything but anger can sometimes make us do stupid things that can only harm us or make us look bad.

Getting a place with you? What about the GF he won't leave?

TurtleMomma · September 2013

lindsey61811 said:

Getting a place with you? What about the GF he won't leave?

All 3 are gonna share a place, didnt you hear?

)

CaliforniaDream87 · September 2013

henderson1026 said:

MtB2013 said:

Misunderstood I don't use my body for him to come see his I dress nicely just for him to regret what he did to me. I don't put up when he visits i I go out to do grocery shopping, or run errands. Just the look he gives me knowing that he messed up that he could have a family like he tells me daily now makes me feel that he is capable for forgiveness.

But no I don't use my body for him to come over. He comes because he wants to be part of his sons life but I told him he either allows my son to meet his side of the family or I will introduce himself just 3 days ago my son met his gradma This is coming between his new relationship because he is more involved and spends weekends with my son.

Guys are really simple - if he wanted to be with you, he would. He is probably laughing at your attempts to "make him regret". His interest is in his son, not you. Get some respect for yourself and try to teach your son better so he doesn't treat women like his father.

@henderson1026 you're on it! My God MTB...if he regretted it he wouldn't be with another woman and he wouldn't be keeping his son a secret.

Please wake up and stop using your body as a "capture tool". It won't work.

bendicott7 · September 2013

Maritza707 said:

My DH has still been cleaning the litter box and I have let it happen. Not sure if he has caught on yet that me being pregnant was the only reason he needed to do it.
My dh hasn't noticed either, and I have no plans on mentioning it, lol

Right there with you ladies!

BlondieBia21 · September 2013

MtB2013 said:
Misunderstood I don't use my body for him to come see his I dress nicely just for him to regret what he did to me. I don't put up when he visits i I go out to do grocery shopping, or run errands. Just the look he gives me knowing that he messed up that he could have a family like he tells me daily now makes me feel that he is capable for forgiveness.

But no I don't use my body for him to come over. He comes because he wants to be part of his sons life but I told him he either allows my son to meet his side of the family or I will introduce himself just 3 days ago my son met his gradma This is coming between his new relationship because he is more involved and spends weekends with my son.

I may be wrong MTB, but I believe I spent a LONG time trying to make you feel better about this man. How does it feel to know you are screwing with the other girl who doesn't know about you the same way you were fucked over? Does that make it ok? This guy doesn't need to be around.

Soleil3 · September 2013

Nice top?

cortneyloo · September 2013

I may have driven all the way to my place of work under the pretense of introducing my kid to coworkers when in reality I was more looking forward to showing off the fact that I've already lost all the baby weight to an individual who would always make annoying comments while I was pg. She would say I better get used to wearing one pieces because the weight "never comes off" and I better "kiss being skinny goodbye." She was weirdly happy that I was gaining weight since she's the jealous type, and I was more than a little amused to walk in there in my pre pregnancy skinny jeans

CaliforniaDream87 · September 2013

BlondieBia21 said:

MtB2013 said:
Misunderstood I don't use my body for him to come see his I dress nicely just for him to regret what he did to me. I don't put up when he visits i I go out to do grocery shopping, or run errands. Just the look he gives me knowing that he messed up that he could have a family like he tells me daily now makes me feel that he is capable for forgiveness.

But no I don't use my body for him to come over. He comes because he wants to be part of his sons life but I told him he either allows my son to meet his side of the family or I will introduce himself just 3 days ago my son met his gradma This is coming between his new relationship because he is more involved and spends weekends with my son.
I may be wrong MTB, but I believe I spent a LONG time trying to make you feel better about this man. How does it feel to know you are screwing with the other girl who doesn't know about you the same way you were fucked over? Does that make it ok? This guy doesn't need to be around.

Oh, after reading this crap...I have zero fucks to give. No more advice. She's essentially screwing over someone that knows nothing about her.

WildRumpus · September 2013

henderson1026 said:
I used the J&J Lavender and Chamomile soap on LO last night. I don't like it She smells like perfume, not yummy baby

Try the apple & honey or vanilla oatmeal. Total yummy baby smell

MommyKristin88 · September 2013

cortneyloo said:
I may have driven all the way to my place of work under the pretense of introducing my kid to coworkers when in reality I was more looking forward to showing off the fact that I've already lost all the baby weight to an individual who would always make annoying comments while I was pg. She would say I better get used to wearing one pieces because the weight "never comes off" and I better "kiss being skinny goodbye." She was weirdly happy that I was gaining weight since she's the jealous type, and I was more than a little amused to walk in there in my pre pregnancy skinny jeans

Haha I thought about doing that, but I didn't feel like showering and doing my hair. Good to know I am not alone.

BlondieBia21 · September 2013

Also @mtb2013-

By staying around and trying to play around with him- all you're doing is teaching your son it it ok to treat women like shit and they'll just keep coming back for more. Like pp said, if you want "revenge", stop playing mind games w him and move on. That'll show him the REAL and strong women he screwed over one too many times.

MinnesotaMomma91 · September 2013

henderson1026 said:

LAMuehlen said:

MtB2013 said:
I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch.
I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf?

Yes I'm an evil B!tch
Those babys daddys are so freakin whiley arent they? Mine likes to tell me how good i look after just having had a baby compared to his other bm. Well no shit i didnt pop out three kids in three years and working on po

He also likes to tell me hes going to put in a transfer to be closer. Bahahaha. Itll happen when pigs fly. But it is amusing the shit guys will do for nookie isnt it

Congratulations on teaching your sons that it is OK to treat women like objects. Please don't be surprised when they grow up to be two-timing assholes like their fathers.

I think i phrased something wrond. Ds bio dad and i will never happen again. He says anything to any woman if he thinks it will get him something.

If he actually did get transfered that woiuld be great for ds but id still limit my contact with him since i love my db and hes my emotional support system.sorry if i offended anyone. It wasnt my intention. I do not use my body for anything and im sorry it was implied

cortneyloo · September 2013

Also I confess I'm holding back from DTD even though everything is fine down there because I'm afraid a) it will hurt like a mother and b) despite all my kegel efforts things will still feel loose down there and it won't be as enjoyable for DH and I'll be able to tell. It's stressful enough worrying I'll embarrassingly squirt him in the face with milk, add in the fact that my lady parts may not get the job done without assistance anymore and the whole act just becomes unappealing. I'm letting him think I'm still sore and bleeding even though that's not the case!

LokiLahve · September 2013

When calculating my pp weight loss I subtract an additional 10 lbs due to my ginormous breasts. Seriously...they add at least that much and I should not have to count it.
I've also named them. The left is Everest bc its bigger and the right is K2, slightly smaller but just as challenging.

afrochick09 · September 2013

Stephw32 said:

When calculating my pp weight loss I subtract an additional 10 lbs due to my ginormous breasts. Seriously...they add at least that much and I should not have to count it. I've also named them. The left is Everest bc its bigger and the right is K2, slightly smaller but just as challenging.

I wish there was a way to weigh just your breast. Jumped another cup size when my milk came in so I like to think thats partly why i still have 20 lbs to go.

CourtJack · September 2013

I finally looked 'down there' yesterday. I fully, completely regret it. I could be in a horror show.

WheeLinTheSky3 · September 2013

MtB2013 said:

I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch. I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf? Yes I'm an evil B!tch

Because every kid wants a childhood where they can look back and say "Im so glad my mom put my dad through hell for my sake"

cortneyloo · September 2013

@Stephw32, I love you and your analogy. That is all haha

MagPie 1986 · September 2013

Rooster&Memphis said:

LAMuehlen said:

I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch. I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf? Yes I'm an evil B!tch
Those babys daddys are so freakin whiley arent they? Mine likes to tell me how good i look after just having had a baby compared to his other bm. Well no shit i didnt pop out three kids in three years and working on po He also likes to tell me hes going to put in a transfer to be closer. Bahahaha. Itll happen when pigs fly. But it is amusing the shit guys will do for nookie isnt it

What?

Seriously.

MagPie 1986 · September 2013

MtB2013 said:

Misunderstood I don't use my body for him to come see his I dress nicely just for him to regret what he did to me. I don't put up when he visits i I go out to do grocery shopping, or run errands. Just the look he gives me knowing that he messed up that he could have a family like he tells me daily now makes me feel that he is capable for forgiveness. But no I don't use my body for him to come over. He comes because he wants to be part of his sons life but I told him he either allows my son to meet his side of the family or I will introduce himself just 3 days ago my son met his gradma This is coming between his new relationship because he is more involved and spends weekends with my son.

back-pedaling much???

Edkitten · September 2013

I had a dream that DH cheated on me and woke up mad at him. I am pretty sure I had the dream because I told him we would DTD last night and bailed. My bad...

Edkitten · September 2013

Damn. I wish my DH was still on litter duty

bendicott7 · September 2013

MommyKristin88 said:

I may have driven all the way to my place of work under the pretense of introducing my kid to coworkers when in reality I was more looking forward to showing off the fact that I've already lost all the baby weight to an individual who would always make annoying comments while I was pg. She would say I better get used to wearing one pieces because the weight "never comes off" and I better "kiss being skinny goodbye." She was weirdly happy that I was gaining weight since she's the jealous type, and I was more than a little amused to walk in there in my pre pregnancy skinny jeans
Haha I thought about doing that, but I didn't feel like showering and doing my hair. Good to know I am not alone.

I am seriously considering going into work next Tuesday. I have yet to try on my pre-pregnancy jeans though. However, I had to have a c-section and have been able to do nothing as far as working out yet beyond walking and I am super happy with how I look due to that fact.

Edkitten · September 2013

CourtJack said:
I finally looked 'down there' yesterday. I fully, completely regret it. I could be in a horror show.

I looked too and was horrified. i told my husband it looked like shredded deli meat, so he took a look and said it looked fine. I think he is lying because he wants to do it

cortneyloo · September 2013

Oh dear now I have another confession. I just ate an entire can of those Pillsbury cinnamon rolls by myself. We're talking over 1000 calories just for breakfast. It's okay though because I'm breastfeeding and can eat more, right? RIGHT?!?

kkay1982 · September 2013

Stephw32 said:
When calculating my pp weight loss I subtract an additional 10 lbs due to my ginormous breasts. Seriously...they add at least that much and I should not have to count it.
I've also named them. The left is Everest bc its bigger and the right is K2, slightly smaller but just as challenging.

I totally agree. I am 5lbs off my pre pregnancy weight so I have decided I actually weigh less now because my breasts weigh at least that much.

carrotcake06 · September 2013

My H has been cleaning the kitty box since I got pregnant w our oldest in 2009. Score.

Soleil3 · September 2013

I put my hair in a pony last night and had my husband chop of over 6 inches. It feels wonderful.

afrochick09 · September 2013

Soleil3 said:

I put my hair in a pony last night and had my husband chop of over 6 inches. It feels wonderful.

I have been dying to do this but terrified it'll look like a hack job! That and the days I decide i'm finally chopping it my hair decides to look cute.

Soleil3 · September 2013

breezalina82 said:

Soleil3 said:

I put my hair in a pony last night and had my husband chop of over 6 inches. It feels wonderful.

I have been dying to do this but terrified it'll look like a hack job! That and the days I decide i'm finally chopping it my hair decides to look cute.

Hack job is in these days

right up there with ombré/ too lazy to get hair recolored/ major roots.

Tbh i havent even looked at it yet. Ill fix it this weekend. Maybe...

TurtleMomma · September 2013

Soleil3 said:
I put my hair in a pony last night and had my husband chop of over 6 inches. It feels wonderful.

Awesome! I've done that before and it DOES feel amazing. I bet your head feels so much lighter!

Soleil3 · September 2013

I decided Im going more blonde this weekend. i think I may be having some sort of crisis lol.

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