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• MinnesotaMomma91 member

  September 2013

  I never experienced rhe dreaded sniss while pregnant. Since giving birth ive peed my pants more times then id like to admit while running to the bathroom.
  
  Also i ate one meal yesterday other wise all i was doing was ingesting caffiene.

  
  

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• WashingtonQueen member

  September 2013

  I have contemplated not sending the older boys to school just because I don't want to get out of bed. Then I realize that means I'd be stuck with all the kids all day and I promptly pull my ass out of bed.

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• Ktbug613 member

  September 2013

  know that moment everyone talks about when they first lay eyes on their new baby and how special it is?......i didn't have that. I feel like it took me a bit to actually bond with her. my husband experienced it but i didn't. worst part my mom captured it on camera. my husband is looking at her on my chest so lovingly and i look like im terrified of her

  

  

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• MrsBiggs2Be

  September 2013

  I'm sure ill miss this stage when it's done but God I can't wait until DD starts sleeping at night better.

  
  

  
  

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• BlondieBia21 member

  September 2013

  The past 2 nights around 930-10:00, I have pretended that I'm extremely tired from waking up for every feeding/change during the night. Fi has been doing the last feeding/change before the motn ones while I go to sleep past 2 nights because of it. I'm really not that tired, I just enjoy getting 3 hrs of straight sleep. I've convinced him how much those hours help me get up in the night.

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• MtB2013 member

  September 2013

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch.
  I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf?
  
  Yes I'm an evil B!tch

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• betsyin2010 member

  September 2013

  I enjoy flaking off cradle cap. It does keep baby awake during feedings but I flaked it off my sons forehead and a flake got in his eye.

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• LEMSA member

  September 2013

  I don't like being a mom between the hours of midnight and 9 am. If u could just hand the night over to anyone I would. Husband hardly does any of the night stuff and i am a zombie.

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• MinnesotaMomma91 member

  September 2013

  MtB2013 said:

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch.
  I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf?
  
  Yes I'm an evil B!tch

  Those babys daddys are so freakin whiley arent they? Mine likes to tell me how good i look after just having had a baby compared to his other bm. Well no shit i didnt pop out three kids in three years and working on po
  
  He also likes to tell me hes going to put in a transfer to be closer. Bahahaha. Itll happen when pigs fly. But it is amusing the shit guys will do for nookie isnt it

  
  

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• MtB2013 member

  September 2013

  LAMuehlen said:

  MtB2013 said:

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch.
  I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf?
  
  Yes I'm an evil B!tch

  Those babys daddys are so freakin whiley arent they? Mine likes to tell me how good i look after just having had a baby compared to his other bm. Well no shit i didnt pop out three kids in three years and working on po
  
  He also likes to tell me hes going to put in a transfer to be closer. Bahahaha. Itll happen when pigs fly. But it is amusing the shit guys will do for nookie isnt it

  Haha yup!
  
  

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• nnikki10 member

  September 2013

  DH goes and picks up SS today for the weekend. I wish we he wasn't and we had the weekend to ourselves.

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• pb&jojo member

  September 2013

  Ktbug613 said:

  know that moment everyone talks about when they first lay eyes on their new baby and how special it is?......i didn't have that. I feel like it took me a bit to actually bond with her. my husband experienced it but i didn't. worst part my mom captured it on camera. my husband is looking at her on my chest so lovingly and i look like im terrified of her

  
  My moment wasn't caught on camera, but I experienced the same thing. I feel like having a c section took away that feeling....I always loved my daughter, but it gets stronger everyday.....the first week or so I was more scared of her than anything!

  

  
  
  

       
                        
                         
  
           

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• kwhite27 member

  September 2013

  My DH has still been cleaning the litter box and I have let it happen. Not sure if he has caught on yet that me being pregnant was the only reason he needed to do it.

  

             

                        

                               

    

   

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• amarissa85 member

  September 2013

  LAMuehlen said:

  MtB2013 said:

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch.
  I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf?
  
  Yes I'm an evil B!tch

  Those babys daddys are so freakin whiley arent they? Mine likes to tell me how good i look after just having had a baby compared to his other bm. Well no shit i didnt pop out three kids in three years and working on po
  
  He also likes to tell me hes going to put in a transfer to be closer. Bahahaha. Itll happen when pigs fly. But it is amusing the shit guys will do for nookie isnt it

  Wow. Just wow.
  
  

  

  
  

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• ktbear9512 member

  September 2013

  I hate taking showers. There, I said it!

  

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• girlmama83 member

  September 2013

  Ktbug613 said:

  know that moment everyone talks about when they first lay eyes on their new baby and how special it is?......i didn't have that. I feel like it took me a bit to actually bond with her. my husband experienced it but i didn't. worst part my mom captured it on camera. my husband is looking at her on my chest so lovingly and i look like im terrified of her

  I started crying uncontrollably as soon as she came out. There may have been some tears of joy, but it was mainly me being instantly overwhelmed with fear.
  

  
  
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• MommyKristin88 member

  September 2013

  LAMuehlen said:

  MtB2013 said:

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch.
  I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf?
  
  Yes I'm an evil B!tch

  Those babys daddys are so freakin whiley arent they? Mine likes to tell me how good i look after just having had a baby compared to his other bm. Well no shit i didnt pop out three kids in three years and working on po
  
  He also likes to tell me hes going to put in a transfer to be closer. Bahahaha. Itll happen when pigs fly. But it is amusing the shit guys will do for nookie isnt it

  Seriously? MtB that is horrible. How does it make you feel to use your body to get assistance with your son? My daughter's father was absent until her 2nd birthday, and I would have never succumbed to using sexual measures to get his assistance. Is that what it takes to raise a child now?

  

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• MrsBiggs2Be

  September 2013

  suchgreatheights324 said:

  I find myself typing responses a lot, but not posting them. I worry that I'll be known as the board bitch if I do.

  Ooo I wanna know! Lol
  
  

  
  

  
  

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• girlmama83 member

  September 2013

  I let LO comfort suck this morning just because I knew she would fall back to sleep and then I could sleep too.

  
  
  Mama to 2 girls - H&I

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• MommyAmes2 member

  September 2013 edited September 2013

  bump burp

           

        

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• RoosterMemphis member

  September 2013

  LAMuehlen said:

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch. I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf? Yes I'm an evil B!tch

  Those babys daddys are so freakin whiley arent they? Mine likes to tell me how good i look after just having had a baby compared to his other bm. Well no shit i didnt pop out three kids in three years and working on po He also likes to tell me hes going to put in a transfer to be closer. Bahahaha. Itll happen when pigs fly. But it is amusing the shit guys will do for nookie isnt it

  
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• MommyAmes2 member

  September 2013

  MtB2013 said:

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch. I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf? Yes I'm an evil B!tch

  
  I have no words for this.... Well, a few come to mind, but they may get me flagged.

           

        

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• MitsB707 member

  September 2013

  kwhite27 said:

  My DH has still been cleaning the litter box and I have let it happen. Not sure if he has caught on yet that me being pregnant was the only reason he needed to do it.

  My dh hasn't noticed either, and I have no plans on mentioning it, lol

  
  

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• Soleil3 member

  September 2013

  MtB2013 said:

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch. I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf? Yes I'm an evil B!tch

  There is an innocent involved now, its time to grow the fuck up. 

   
  
  

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• WildRumpus member

  September 2013

  MtB2013 said:

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch.
  I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf?
  
  Yes I'm an evil B!tch

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• MommyAmes2 member

  September 2013

  Every time I see breast milk abbreviated "BM," I think "bowel movement." 

           

        

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• amarissa85 member

  September 2013

  Soleil3 said:

  
  

  MtB2013 said:

  
  

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch.
  I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf?
  
  Yes I'm an evil B!tch

  
  

  There is an innocent involved now, its time to grow the fuck up. 
  
  So this. And there is another woman involved FFS whether she knows or not. Karma is the bitch you make her.
  

  

  
  

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• afrochick09 member

  September 2013

  I let LO comfort suck this morning just because I knew she would fall back to sleep and then I could sleep too.

  Guilty of this. It takes a lot to get LO to bed otherwise. 

  
  

  

  
  

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• afrochick09 member

  September 2013

  I really am not looking forward to the 6 week check up and being poked at down below. Makes me  shudder. And yet i'm looking forward to dtd so i'm not sure why an OB check makes me cringe. 

  
  

  

  
  

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• henderson1026 member

  September 2013

  LAMuehlen said:

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch. I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf? Yes I'm an evil B!tch

  Those babys daddys are so freakin whiley arent they? Mine likes to tell me how good i look after just having had a baby compared to his other bm. Well no shit i didnt pop out three kids in three years and working on po He also likes to tell me hes going to put in a transfer to be closer. Bahahaha. Itll happen when pigs fly. But it is amusing the shit guys will do for nookie isnt it

  Congratulations on teaching your sons that it is OK to treat women like objects.  Please don't be surprised when they grow up to be two-timing assholes like their fathers.
  

  
  
  
  

  
  
  
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• MtB2013 member

  September 2013 edited September 2013

  Misunderstood I don't use my body for him to come see his I dress nicely just for him to regret what he did to me. I don't put up when he visits i I go out to do grocery shopping, or run errands. Just the look he gives me knowing that he messed up that he could have a family like he tells me daily now makes me feel that he is capable for forgiveness.
  
  But no I don't use my body for him to come over. He comes because he wants to be part of his sons life but I told him he either allows my son to meet his side of the family or I will introduce himself just 3 days ago my son met his gradma This is coming between his new relationship because he is more involved and spends weekends with my son.

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• henderson1026 member

  September 2013

  MtB2013 said:

  Misunderstood I don't use my body for him to come see his I dress nicely just for him to regret what he did to me. I don't put up when he visits i I go out to do grocery shopping, or run errands. Just the look he gives me knowing that he messed up that he could have a family like he tells me daily now makes me feel that he is capable for forgiveness. But no I don't use my body for him to come over. He comes because he wants to be part of his sons life but I told him he either allows my son to meet his side of the family or I will introduce himself just 3 days ago my son met his gradma This is coming between his new relationship because he is more involved and spends weekends with my son.

  Guys are really simple - if he wanted to be with you, he would.  He is probably laughing at your attempts to "make him regret".  His interest is in his son, not you.  Get some respect for yourself and try to teach your son better so he doesn't treat women like his father.
  

  
  
  
  

  
  
  
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• Ktbug613 member

  September 2013

  pb&jojo said:

  
  

  Ktbug613 said:

  
  

  know that moment everyone talks about when they first lay eyes on their new baby and how special it is?......i didn't have that. I feel like it took me a bit to actually bond with her. my husband experienced it but i didn't. worst part my mom captured it on camera. my husband is looking at her on my chest so lovingly and i look like im terrified of her

  
  

  
  
  
  My moment wasn't caught on camera, but I experienced the same thing. I feel like having a c section took away that feeling....I always loved my daughter, but it gets stronger everyday.....the first week or so I was more scared of her than anything!
  
  exactly. i felt the same the first week too. i was so overwhelmed with the idea of how much responsibility i had just been handed and if i was really ready it hindered me bonding with her
  

  

  

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• LokiLahve member

  September 2013

  kwhite27 said:

  My DH has still been cleaning the litter box and I have let it happen. Not sure if he has caught on yet that me being pregnant was the only reason he needed to do it.

  Same thing is going on here. Ill enjoy it while it lasts
  

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• amarissa85 member

  September 2013

  MtB2013 said:

  Misunderstood I don't use my body for him to come see his I dress nicely just for him to regret what he did to me. I don't put up when he visits i I go out to do grocery shopping, or run errands. Just the look he gives me knowing that he messed up that he could have a family like he tells me daily now makes me feel that he is capable for forgiveness.
  
  But no I don't use my body for him to come over. He comes because he wants to be part of his sons life but I told him he either allows my son to meet his side of the family or I will introduce himself just 3 days ago my son met his gradma This is coming between his new relationship because he is more involved and spends weekends with my son.

  Do you really think it makes him miss you or to be quite frank, the ass? Why do you think he all the sudden seems remorseful? Could it be that things are not too well at home? The fact is, he chose her when he could have chosen you. He chooses her now by staying with her and by making him "miss" what he had when he has something already, isn't doing anyone any good.
  

  

  
  

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• MtB2013 member

  September 2013

  henderson1026 said:

  
  

  MtB2013 said:

  
  

  Misunderstood I don't use my body for him to come see his I dress nicely just for him to regret what he did to me. I don't put up when he visits i I go out to do grocery shopping, or run errands. Just the look he gives me knowing that he messed up that he could have a family like he tells me daily now makes me feel that he is capable for forgiveness.
  
  But no I don't use my body for him to come over. He comes because he wants to be part of his sons life but I told him he either allows my son to meet his side of the family or I will introduce himself just 3 days ago my son met his gradma This is coming between his new relationship because he is more involved and spends weekends with my son.

  
  

  Guys are really simple - if he wanted to be with you, he would.  He is probably laughing at your attempts to "make him regret".  His interest is in his son, not you.  Get some respect for yourself and try to teach your son better so he doesn't treat women like his father.
  
  I had to hear this I knew I was doing wrong. But I was so angry at him for making an older lady his priority.
  
  Sometimes a slap on the face helps to determine our wrong doings
  

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• pb&jojo member

  September 2013

  MtB2013 said:

  I been putting my sons father through hell one to sobatage his relationship not for me but for my son. It has been working he comes frequently now. Last night he put LO down for the night. He has magical hands LO gave me a 3 hour stretch. I dress nicely or try to look "sexually" for him to want me. The more I refuse the more tempted he gets... I have no reason for this. Maybe I just get a kick of how much he wants me but can't have me because he has a gf? Yes I'm an evil B!tch

  
  How old are you?

  

  
  
  

       
                        
                         
  
           

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• girlmama83 member

  September 2013

  breezalina82 said:

  I really am not looking forward to the 6 week check up and being poked at down below. Makes me  shudder. And yet i'm looking forward to dtd so i'm not sure why an OB check makes me cringe. 

  I had a 2 week checkup yesterday and I took my pain med before going because I was so afraid.
  
  

  
  
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• ELauren88 member

  September 2013

  The mere thought of getting dressed and putting on make up and doing my hair is enough to make me want a nap.

   

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• LokiLahve member

  September 2013

  MommyAmes2 said:

  Every time I see breast milk abbreviated "BM," I think "bowel movement." 

  Haha, yes! There was a post not long ago about sore nipples and someone suggested rubbing BM on them...well I was quite disgusted for a few seconds.

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