Im 40w+2 days tomorrow is my dr appt an I guess we r going to talk about inducing but I really don't want to induce....My husband is telling me to induce bc his mom is in town til next Monday...Am I being selfish that I want her to come on her own???? I feel like his just more concerned about his mom that I need to have the baby soon bc she's leaving....They are both putting pressure on me to walk a lot & asking me throughout the day nothing yet? I still do all my chores cooking, cleaning and laundry last Friday was my last day of work...All I want to do is sleep now bc I get exhausted and want to rest to prepare for baby....They keep telling me go for a walk ughhh just had to vent out for a bit
Re: Decisions, Decisions????
Also agree that YOU are not being selfish. Your DH is being selfish, and your MIL is too if she is also pressuring you about this.
Jamie
MIL should have waited to schedule her visit for after baby comes if that's really the only reason she's there. You do what you feel is right - not what your DH and MIL want. When your doctor brings it up, let him know (very firmly) that you don't want an induction unless it's medically necessary. If your DH and MIL have a problem with that, oh well.
ETA: Over exerting yourself (which it sounds like you might be doing) could actually stall things. So, tell them to cook their own damn food. Sorry, OP. Please stand up for yourself. The way they're treating you right now isn't cool.
Yup that's what exactly I told him that his being selfish and just wants to do this for his mom...Which he should be on my side and explain to his mom when ever baby is ready she will arrive thanks once again