FFFC

wjv · August 2013

maymomNY said:

My FFFC is that I've been on the hunt for the creepy siggy......
Mine is that I think I'm the creepy siggy. I spent 20 minutes trying to change it last night and still can't. My feelings won't be hurt if it's me. I teach high school, so I have a thick skin!
You're not. I'm so sorry I ever said that! The good news is I don't think that person is even around right now.

Liar!! haha! Just tell us! No actually I like the hunt

wjv · August 2013

Elizabeth2585 said:

I have never heard the song Blurred Lines... I've never seen the Miley twerk.. I've only read about it and seen pictures . I'm so passive aggressive.. the other day I was pissed at my H so I purposely left and folded all his shirts inside out. I totally thought I was sticking it to him good... Edit to fix typo

This made me laugh! All the work it probably took you to do this! Hahaha!

SaguaroBlossmom · August 2013

infinitemomnt said:

Elizabeth2585 said:
I have never heard the song Blurred Lines... I've never seen the Miley twerk.. I've only read about it and seen pictures .

I'm so passive aggressive.. the other day I was pissed at my H so I purposely left and folded all his shirts inside out. I totally thought I was sticking it to him good...

Edit to fix typo
Hahaha. I'm so passive aggressive too. I was mad at my mil so I didn't post any pictures of T on FB for two weeks so she couldn't see him. Humph that'll show her...

Haha hilarious! Now that's a good idea!

mommatotwo2 · August 2013

JoShan1719 said:

My confessions:

1. Emma is usually only in onesies and IDGAF what people think because it's Florida and it's hot. Occassionally I'll add a skirt, but I need easy access to the diaper.

2. We don't do flu shots. I don't want to get the shot to prevent a flu, get sick from the shot, then do it again next year. FWIW BF and I both had the flu last week and Emma didn't catch anything.

Oh man...I don't mean to start a debate here, but it's totally impossible to get the flu from a flu shot. Also- did you and BF have the stomach flu or the respiratory flu? Respiratory flu is the one that you get the shot for. My child will definitely be immunized for flu- it's just not worth the risk for me.

mommatotwo2 · August 2013

mommatotwo2 said:

JoShan1719 said:

My confessions:

1. Emma is usually only in onesies and IDGAF what people think because it's Florida and it's hot. Occassionally I'll add a skirt, but I need easy access to the diaper.

2. We don't do flu shots. I don't want to get the shot to prevent a flu, get sick from the shot, then do it again next year. FWIW BF and I both had the flu last week and Emma didn't catch anything.

Oh man...I don't mean to start a debate here, but it's totally impossible to get the flu from a flu shot. Also- did you and BF have the stomach flu or the respiratory flu? Respiratory flu is the one that you get the shot for. My child will definitely be immunized for flu- it's just not worth the risk for me.

I might've broken the rules for FFFC by saying that...don't kick me out

LaxMOM44 · August 2013

So I have an awesome FFFC. H had only ever given me one O. In fact I can count on my one hand the number I have had in my whole life. But he thinks he's a champ. I went a few months without faking it and he got so distraught and I tried to coach him and it almost broke us apart so I started faking again. I don't even care anymore. But I do get irrationally upset when we don't have sex not because I want to but because I worry about why he doesn't want to. We're all kinds of messed up eh?

pnutg · August 2013

laxminavkar said:
So I have an awesome FFFC. H had only ever given me one O. In fact I can count on my one hand the number I have had in my whole life. But he thinks he's a champ. I went a few months without faking it and he got so distraught and I tried to coach him and it almost broke us apart so I started faking again. I don't even care anymore. But I do get irrationally upset when we don't have sex not because I want to but because I worry about why he doesn't want to. We're all kinds of messed up eh?

I give you props for your honesty. That's a tough one. If you guys haven't been married long it might just take more practice. I didn't have one every time in the beginning.

helenkayj · August 2013

I gave DH pity sex last night. I didn't want to have sex but he's been such an awesome husband I felt like he deserved it. We did it doggy style and I was able to fake my interest.

I'm also jealous of those of you not having sex. I hate it recently.

jedimindtrick · August 2013

2013sarabelleATX said:
My FFC:

I became so frustrated yesterday that I smashed a ceramic bowl into a million pieces. I don't usually have a temper, but I was so tired, and LO refused to nap more than 25 minutes at a time. I went to go do the dishes while LO chilled in her swing in another room, and I just picked up a bowl and smashed it on the floor. It felt good to release my frustrations, but I felt really stupid when H came home early and witnessed me sweeping up bowl pieces.

JoShan1719 said:

mommatotwo2 said:

JoShan1719 said:

My confessions:

1. Emma is usually only in onesies and IDGAF what people think because it's Florida and it's hot. Occassionally I'll add a skirt, but I need easy access to the diaper.

2. We don't do flu shots. I don't want to get the shot to prevent a flu, get sick from the shot, then do it again next year. FWIW BF and I both had the flu last week and Emma didn't catch anything.
Oh man...I don't mean to start a debate here, but it's totally impossible to get the flu from a flu shot. Also- did you and BF have the stomach flu or the respiratory flu? Respiratory flu is the one that you get the shot for. My child will definitely be immunized for flu- it's just not worth the risk for me.

Everyone I know who got the flu shot ended up sick the next week. They were all told they might have "flu-like symptoms." We had respiratory stuff, luckily. You won't be kicked out for asking questions lol, the unwritten rule about FFFC is that you'll probably still get flamed.

I would like to point out how tame this board has gotten now that the pregnancy hormones are gone. It used to get pretty fiesty (feisty? They both look wrong to me right now) up in here, but not so much anymore. I get my snark fill over on Parenting :-)

Edit: spelling

Stomach flu is not actually "a flu." There's only one influenza. And it shouldn't be around too much at this time of year.

It really is scientifically, medically impossible to get the flu from the shot. It's a dead virus. And this is coming from someone who doesn't like vaccinations much and never had a flu shot until pregnant at the urging of my OB. But if the virus is dead, you can't get sick. The flu-like symptoms they talk about should be only for a day or two. If someone got really sick after the shot then they just had the bad luck to run into a virus around the same time.

jedimindtrick · August 2013

Oh and we haven't done it either. But DH isn't pushing for it either. I think partly because baby was in our room until two nights ago and that's weird for him. Plus we've both been exhausted. I kinda get upset, I want him to be wanting it, but at the same time I'm a bit afraid because it hurt like a bitch the few times we did it while pregnant.

botanicalbliss · August 2013

JoShan1719 said:

mommatotwo2 said:

JoShan1719 said:

My confessions:

1. Emma is usually only in onesies and IDGAF what people think because it's Florida and it's hot. Occassionally I'll add a skirt, but I need easy access to the diaper.

2. We don't do flu shots. I don't want to get the shot to prevent a flu, get sick from the shot, then do it again next year. FWIW BF and I both had the flu last week and Emma didn't catch anything.
Oh man...I don't mean to start a debate here, but it's totally impossible to get the flu from a flu shot. Also- did you and BF have the stomach flu or the respiratory flu? Respiratory flu is the one that you get the shot for. My child will definitely be immunized for flu- it's just not worth the risk for me.

Everyone I know who got the flu shot ended up sick the next week. They were all told they might have "flu-like symptoms." We had respiratory stuff, luckily. You won't be kicked out for asking questions lol, the unwritten rule about FFFC is that you'll probably still get flamed.

I would like to point out how tame this board has gotten now that the pregnancy hormones are gone. It used to get pretty fiesty (feisty? They both look wrong to me right now) up in here, but not so much anymore. I get my snark fill over on Parenting :-)

Edit: spelling

1. It has nothing to do with hormones. Many of the regs bailed to FB annnd a lot of the crazies disappeared

2. You cannot get the flu from the flu shot.

SaguaroBlossmom · August 2013

snowgirl427 · August 2013

beaubecca said:
@allydncr I think a blog would be hilarious and cute and something fun to show her when she's older.

My last confession for today - DH is away for the weekend, LO just went down for the night and what am I doing? Watching Alvin and the Chipmunks and loving it!

Good for you lol!

1and1is3 · August 2013

beaubecca said:
@allydncr I think a blog would be hilarious and cute and something fun to show her when she's older.

My last confession for today - DH is away for the weekend, LO just went down for the night and what am I doing? Watching Alvin and the Chipmunks and loving it!

That is such a cute movie

wjv · August 2013

laxminavkar said:

So I have an awesome FFFC. H had only ever given me one O. In fact I can count on my one hand the number I have had in my whole life. But he thinks he's a champ. I went a few months without faking it and he got so distraught and I tried to coach him and it almost broke us apart so I started faking again. I don't even care anymore. But I do get irrationally upset when we don't have sex not because I want to but because I worry about why he doesn't want to. We're all kinds of messed up eh?

Whoa! Holy crap! Really? Even during foreplay??

jayro10 · August 2013

laxminavkar said:
So I have an awesome FFFC. H had only ever given me one O. In fact I can count on my one hand the number I have had in my whole life. But he thinks he's a champ. I went a few months without faking it and he got so distraught and I tried to coach him and it almost broke us apart so I started faking again. I don't even care anymore. But I do get irrationally upset when we don't have sex not because I want to but because I worry about why he doesn't want to. We're all kinds of messed up eh?

I'm pretty much the same. Never talked about it with anyone, ever. But I've always, always had a very low drive and the big O has never come easy for me. Honestly, I can't remember the last time it happened. Maaaaaybe when we were TTC? I've always thought I have some sort of condition or something because of my low drive and difficulty O-ing. Sadface.

TundraGirl · August 2013

b&e888 said:
I have never tracked my LO's sleep, feedings, and diapers past the first week.

I squeeze my boobs to know which side I fed from last.

I'm the exact opposite. My little guy started out in the NICU and we had to chart for the doctors. I still keep track of everything using an app. Not sure when I'll stop ... maybe when he's driving, or in college.

drhibbard · August 2013

nonniedee said:

I taught my hubs a few tricks- but I was no virgin ;-)
even if men had sex professionally they'd still need a little direction.

:x

eroplane · August 2013

drhibbard said:

NJAZgirl said:

b&e888 said:
I have never tracked my LO's sleep, feedings, and diapers past the first week.

I squeeze my boobs to know which side I fed from last.
I could have written this! I don't keep track of shit and do the squeeze test too.

Same here. I've never kept track. I keep an elastic on my wrist that I switch after feedings... About half the time. So I'm constantly squeezing my boobs.

That's a good idea!! Ill have to try it.

MrsM1111 · August 2013

Way late to the game.

Abbie is always fully dressed with a matching headband. We don't leave the house without a headband ever. I spent $20 on two headbands the ther day. Pretty redic, but they were cute and I plan on turning all the flowers and bows into clips when she outgrows the bands...

Big Os are only accomplished with my help. I love my husband and enjoy the act, but my battery operated friend is my preference sometimes. We've been together for so long at this point if I even tried to give direction for some acts that should be more enjoyable I feel I would hurt his feelings...

I'm a boobie squeezer too.

My FFFC - I know Abbie is ready to be moved into her crib (being used as a hamper because husband STILL hasn't purchased her dresser) but its so easy having her right next to me in the bassinet. I am dreading having to actually get out if bed to go to her and not be able to nurse her laying down in her room. Probably not the worst confession, but it feels selfish.

Oh and when I'm not feeling up to actually typing a post on here I just like things. It's lazy but I feel like I'm still "participating" in threads... When I'm not feeling up to it, it's usually because I stayed up too late when I should have gone o sleep as soon as she did but junk tv is much more interesting than sleep...

TheyCalledHerKate · August 2013

botanicalbliss said:

beaubecca said:

Based on yesterdays UOs my FFC is that I want my kid to wear super cute clothes all the time.
a) He has to match.
b) He must have bottoms on in addition to a onesie
c) I don't really care so much if the clothes are tedious to get on/off
d) They must fit him properly - too big of clothes annoys me just as much as too small
e) I love the higher end stuff from Baby Gap, Jack and Jill, Gymboree, Ralph Lauren, etc. but I can't afford them. So I secretly hope people get them for me as gifts! So far no one has. Sad face. I also like the regular stuff from Carters and Target but I like to have both.
f) I really hope he grows up to care about his appearance more than DH. I think its cute when boys want to wear button down shirts and put gel in their hair.

All that said, I would never put something on him that looked super uncomfortable. And I feel like an idiot feeling this way but I can't help it!

I guess my FFC is that I don't care about any of this. As long as my kid is in a clean onesie, we're good. They grow so fast, I don't see the point in buying multiple piece outfits from higher end places. Waste. Of. Money.
I buy most of her clothes at baby Gap for 30-40 percent off (I wait for the sales that happen pretty frequently). I don't like most other baby clothes (I do think target has cute stuff) so to me, it's worth it to buy the cute stuff even if it costs a little more. I hate all of the baby stuff with monkeys and all kinds of animals and other things all over it (Carter's is a huge offender but I so have some cute things from there).

LaxMOM44 · August 2013

jayro10 said:

laxminavkar said:
So I have an awesome FFFC. H had only ever given me one O. In fact I can count on my one hand the number I have had in my whole life. But he thinks he's a champ. I went a few months without faking it and he got so distraught and I tried to coach him and it almost broke us apart so I started faking again. I don't even care anymore. But I do get irrationally upset when we don't have sex not because I want to but because I worry about why he doesn't want to. We're all kinds of messed up eh?
I'm pretty much the same. Never talked about it with anyone, ever. But I've always, always had a very low drive and the big O has never come easy for me. Honestly, I can't remember the last time it happened. Maaaaaybe when we were TTC? I've always thought I have some sort of condition or something because of my low drive and difficulty O-ing. Sadface.

I know it doesn't help....but this is me exactly. I like could care less about sex and I don't have the attention span to get myself off. I get so bored and get easily distracted. Further more the times it has happened....all four of them lol, weren't even that mind blowing.

I honestly woul rather have a hot bath with a bowl of ice cream. Ahhhhh that's pure pleasure to me. Stupid no lactose diet.

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