Anyone else want ms

WonderWoman1209 · August 2013

Anyone else want morning sickness? I had a miscarriage back in April 2011 and didn't get it, but with my twins pregnancy I did. I guess for me it's peace of mind.

jwf0910 · August 2013

I can understand what you are saying. You just wanted it so you can feel better mentally. Sounds crazy but makes total sense!!

amhah09 · August 2013

You can have some of mine!!!

Kyllarae · August 2013

A couple days ago I was wishing for the same thing because mine suddenly stopped for over a week and I was getting really worried and it came back yesterday and now I'm happily miserable again:)

emnoahmom · August 2013

I kind of do. This is my first time without any and it makes me feel like something isn't right. I haven't had my first appointment, and although I feel tired a lot, I also feel like some ms might solidify the whole 'I'm pregnant' feeling.

KNSATX · August 2013

Not one bit. I'm rather happy with the reminders from my docs that things are going well, and more than happy not to be pukey!

porterlove525 · August 2013

I would love to not have ms. Plenty of women have healthy babies and don't ever feel nauseous or get sick. My sisters and mother and several of my friends were never sick.

Sadly, with my second baby I was sick as a dog and had all the symptoms in the world and that baby didn't have a chance of living because it had an extra chromosome, which we didn't learn until I was 10w and had a mmc. I still had ms and symptoms for 3 weeks after losing that baby.

So trust me, be relieved if you are not sick. Symptoms or lack thereof are not a solid indicator as to a viable pregnancy.

Rogue237 · August 2013

I'd share if I could

I know what you mean though - before you get a doc's appt in, you just have no clue whats going on in there. I can't wait for my first appt next week!

Enami · August 2013

No, I would gladly go through pregnancy with zero symptoms and have zero worry. But I am not a worry type person. I hate having m/s.

pineconey · August 2013

You can have my morning sickness AND my constant mucous drainage. I'll throw in the exhaustion and insomnia too.

Andrewsgal · August 2013

This is ridiculous no I would rather not be puking all the time just to prove to myself I am pregnant.

justright47 · August 2013

I get what you're saying OP I'm a FTM and I feel pretty great, hard to believe there's a baby in there when I have minimal symptoms at 6 wks. Still 2 wks away from my 1st appt :-/

thomas930 · August 2013

Nope and you can have mine, I miss eating food. Also I had horrible ms with my loss 4 months ago so symptoms or no symptoms are not reassuring to me.

patunia7321 · August 2013

No way! I'm doing just fine with moderate nausea but I'd be happy to lose that, too. I really want to be one of those bright smiling non-puking pregnant ladies.

J&NL · August 2013

I could do without, honestly.

Medic99 · August 2013

I have had 2 losses and I know what you are saying. I have been pregnant 5 times and the only times I haven't had ms was with my losses. So for those being snarky you can shove it. Unless you have been through a loss you don't get it and there is no need to be an a$$ about it. And yesI am anxiously awaiting ms.

JulianneJacks · August 2013

Medic99 said:
I have had 2 losses and I know what you are saying. I have been pregnant 5 times and the only times I haven't had ms was with my losses. So for those being snarky you can shove it. Unless you have been through a loss you don't get it and there is no need to be an a$$ about it. And yesI am anxiously awaiting ms.

I understand your feeling but for the record when my friend was originally pregnant with twins she has terrible ms. She lost one of the twins and her ms immediately went away. MS doesn't mean that everything is ok and it's not a sign that something is wrong either.

I hope that you have a healthy pregnancy regardless of whether you get ms.

Medic99 · August 2013

Well of course it doesn't but it is reassuring for those of us who have dealt with it.

Mrs550 · August 2013

Im 9 weeks pregnant with triplets and the only time I ever feel sick is when the shower gets too steamy (but I learned to keep the bathroom door open thanks to you ladies ). Like Pp have said, I know I'm pregnant so I'm glad that I don't have the MS. It makes this experience so much more enjoyable.

Teresa1896 · August 2013

I never had ms in any pregnancy, just a bit of queasiness here and there. I've seen friends absolutely miserable with it, so nope, I'm fine without it.

Andrewsgal · August 2013

Medic99 said:

I have had 2 losses and I know what you are saying. I have been pregnant 5 times and the only times I haven't had ms was with my losses. So for those being snarky you can shove it. Unless you have been through a loss you don't get it and there is no need to be an a$$ about it. And yesI am anxiously awaiting ms.

well if we are playing the loss Olympics I have had three and I stand behind the fact that wanting to be sick is ridiculous.

Teresa1896 · August 2013

Andrewsgal said:

Medic99 said:

I have had 2 losses and I know what you are saying. I have been pregnant 5 times and the only times I haven't had ms was with my losses. So for those being snarky you can shove it. Unless you have been through a loss you don't get it and there is no need to be an a$$ about it. And yesI am anxiously awaiting ms.

well if we are playing the loss Olympics I have had three and I stand behind the fact that wanting to be sick is ridiculous.

Maybe ridiculous to you, but I'm sure many agree with OP.

thomas930 · August 2013

Well...here take mine like I said!

I don't want any of it! (and yes I've had a loss...4 months ago)

I find it ridiculous that people complain about not having symptoms. Especially when you can continue to have them even after a complete miscarriage or D&C (like in my case)

Andrewsgal · August 2013

Teresa1896 said:

Medic99 said:

I have had 2 losses and I know what you are saying. I have been pregnant 5 times and the only times I haven't had ms was with my losses. So for those being snarky you can shove it. Unless you have been through a loss you don't get it and there is no need to be an a$$ about it. And yesI am anxiously awaiting ms.

well if we are playing the loss Olympics I have had three and I stand behind the fact that wanting to be sick is ridiculous.
Maybe ridiculous to you, but I'm sure many agree with OP.

And the many who agree are ridiculous too. I would give anything to go one whole day without puking my guts out, being able to drink one cup of water instead of a teaspoon at a time, being able to take my kids to the park because when you are puking every 10 minutes that is kind of impossible. I am basically living in a special kind of hell forgive me if I find it absolutely ridiculous that someone would want this.

Mandyw75 · August 2013

I felt nausea (no puking) with my son and I did not with my MMC. It's on and off this time and I do find some comfort in that. But in saying that I have some past experiences that I can go off. It does say on many of the websites that you can google that ms is a good sign so I can understand where you are coming from. Just try not to read too much into it because everyone and every pregnancy is different. And I've heard twins can really stir things up in the body.

Medic99 · August 2013

Obviously you don't really care. Those of us who have had to work to get pregnant and stay pregnant feel differently. Really you feel the need to jump other people because they feel differently? I bet you are just a peach to disguss issues with.

Medic99 · August 2013

I find you ridiculous Andrewsgal to be attacking other women for voicing their opinion. Grow up! Just because you find something ridiculous does not mean it is. Because, who are you? Oh yeah just another snarky pregnant a$$. Thanks for the entertainment.

sugarrush · August 2013

im not sure what I expected with MS, but I really wish I didn't have it. At first I had horrible indigestion and I wanted to cry because I couldn't eat (I liken it to feeling what I *think* lapband surgery would feel like). The food just sat at the top of my stomach and didn't digest for hours leaving me so uncomfortable. And now comes the motion sickness, im struggling to function in my daily activities.

I do, however, see the other sign of the coin to wanting to have MS to feel like im pregnant. But then I snap out of it and realize how miserable ive been and wish for no MS all over again.

Medic99 · August 2013

I am also not oblivious to the fact that ms is not fun nor is it a guarantee that nothing will go wrong. With my last baby I lost 7 lbs in the beginning because I was so sick. I would gladly put up with puking for 20 weeks to get a sticky baby. With MY experience ms has meant a sticky baby for me. It isn't a sign for everyone.

Andrewsgal · August 2013

Medic99 said:
I am also not oblivious to the fact that ms is not fun nor is it a guarantee that nothing will go wrong. With my last baby I lost 7 lbs in the beginning because I was so sick. I would gladly put up with puking for 20 weeks to get a sticky baby. With MY experience ms has meant a sticky baby for me. It isn't a sign for everyone.

So if you know it is not a sign of a healthy baby why would you want it? MS is no joke for a lot of us. It can be dangerous and life altering. Why in the world would any sane person want something that could dangerous for themselves or their baby just so they fell better? Sounds selfish to me. Sorry to not blow sunshine and rainbows up your ass medic.

Medic99 · August 2013

Selfish? Wow.. I said it was not a guarantee but it has been for me. Guess you didn't fully read my last post.

4maddison · August 2013

I hate that it gives me peace of mind. However, I could live without it.

Medic99 · August 2013

We are not asking or hoping for hyperemesis gravidarum just a little morning sickness. Get over it.

Andrewsgal · August 2013

Medic99 said:
We are not asking or hoping for hyperemesis gravidarum just a little morning sickness. Get over it.

Or perhaps you could get over it and enjoy your healthy pregnancy since you are feeing so great!

Medic99 · August 2013

Boy you are just a peach. All high and mighty judgmental andrewsagl. Why worry over what other women think and feel? Are you this way in real life? Or are you just doing this since you are hiding behind a screen name? Get over yourself already. You aren't going to change other people and how they feel. The only person you can change is yourself. Guess your mama forgot to teach you that.

Enami · August 2013

Wishing for m/s to make you feel safer in your pregnancy is foolish. There's no scientific link between pregnancy symptoms and the viability/health of a pregnancy. Placing your faith in symptoms is like believing the Flying Spaghetti Monster will cure you of cancer. Act like women, instead of little teenage girls that are all in tizzy because someone got their period first. I also think most of the "I wish I had symptom x" ladies would be the biggest cry babies and make their husbands do all the work during first tri because they were so sick.

Andrewsgal · August 2013

Medic99 said:
Boy you are just a peach. All high and mighty judgmental andrewsagl. Why worry over what other women think and feel? Are you this way in real life? Or are you just doing this since you are hiding behind a screen name? Get over yourself already. You aren't going to change other people and how they feel. The only person you can change is yourself. Guess your mama forgot to teach you that.

I am not trying to change you, and have no desire to change myself. You are a total hypocrite you ask why I care what others think. Why do you care what I think? Why does me finding you ridiculous bother you so badly? What am I doing? Calling you on your BS? Nope I am pretty good at that in real life too.

CinemaGoddess · August 2013

Are you hangry @andrewsgal? Do you need a sandwich?

Rrrrrachel · August 2013

Ladies, some people are just trolls. When the same person is stirring shit and acting like an ass in multiple threads, it's not you. It's them. The ignore feature is a good thing.

Do not feel the trolls.

Andrewsgal · August 2013

Rrrrrachel said:
Ladies, some people are just trolls. When the same person is stirring shit and acting like an ass in multiple threads, it's not you. It's them. The ignore feature is a good thing.

Do not feel the trolls.

I don't think you know the definition of troll.

CinemaGoddess · August 2013

andrewsgal isn't a troll.

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