“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a
thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the
beginning of fairies.” - J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
I have died every day waiting for you. Darling, don't be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years. And all along I believed I would find you, time has brought your heart to me. I have loved you for a thousand years. I'll love you a thousand more.
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a
thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the
beginning of fairies.” - J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
I have died every day waiting for you. Darling, don't be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years. And all along I believed I would find you, time has brought your heart to me. I have loved you for a thousand years. I'll love you a thousand more.
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a
thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the
beginning of fairies.” - J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
I have died every day waiting for you. Darling, don't be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years. And all along I believed I would find you, time has brought your heart to me. I have loved you for a thousand years. I'll love you a thousand more.
Also, OP, I don't know if anyone told you, but um a negative test means not pregnant. DISREGARD THE SEVEN POSITIVES. This ain't Snow White. Ain't nobody got time for seven little HPTs.
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a
thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the
beginning of fairies.” - J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
I have died every day waiting for you. Darling, don't be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years. And all along I believed I would find you, time has brought your heart to me. I have loved you for a thousand years. I'll love you a thousand more.
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a
thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the
beginning of fairies.” - J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
I have died every day waiting for you. Darling, don't be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years. And all along I believed I would find you, time has brought your heart to me. I have loved you for a thousand years. I'll love you a thousand more.
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a
thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the
beginning of fairies.” - J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
I have died every day waiting for you. Darling, don't be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years. And all along I believed I would find you, time has brought your heart to me. I have loved you for a thousand years. I'll love you a thousand more.
Ok I'm coming to the party really late here, but... OP, here's the thing. What you did was kind of like walking into a room full of women who haven't been able to eat chocolate for a while, some of them a reeeeeally long while. And then you come in, don't introduce yourself, sit down, eat a massive fuck off block of chocolate in front of us all, tell us how good it tastes, and expect us to be really happy for you.
Pardon the food analogy, but sometimes you gotta break it down real simple like.
There is no need for the smart arse comments FYI I have been ttc for 2 years now so excuse me for being excited!!! How rude
Congratulations FX for a sticky bub.
To all those who cannot seem to have anything nice to say to the OP its a shame you have to stomp all over someone who is sharing a bit of joy. You will find on most other forums in their TTGP board you can post BFP's questions or unsure HPT questions and even Possible pregnancy questions with symptoms etc.
Some of you come across seem so judgmental and jump on pretty much anyone who has not introduced themselves and spent time getting to know you.
For what its worth if anyone lurked for a while here and read these sorts of posts and responses the OP got they would be sure to make an effort to get to know you all and your TTC journey NOT!
Why would they? Some of you come across as less than friendly.
What a disgusting bunch of sour women. Jealousy - pure and simple.
Take a long hard look at yourselves and you might just find out why you haven't yet got your BFP. Your veins leak venom.
I belong to a TTC group whom are filled with ladies that are TTC after loss. The group is now filled with ladies who have finally got their rainbow babies, and some are still on their TTC journey. We accept everyone... no matter where they are in their journey. I'm thankful that I found that group, and not this one.
You're all a bunch of bullies, and i'm surprised the Mod tolerates this kind of behaviour.
What a disgusting bunch of sour women. Jealousy - pure and simple.
Take a long hard look at yourselves and you might just find out why you haven't yet got your BFP. Your veins leak venom.
I belong to a TTC group whom are filled with ladies that are TTC after loss. The group is now filled with ladies who have finally got their rainbow babies, and some are still on their TTC journey. We accept everyone... no matter where they are in their journey. I'm thankful that I found that group, and not this one.
You're all a bunch of bullies, and i'm surprised the Mod tolerates this kind of behaviour.
That's not cool. Some of the ladies here on this board already have children, or they have been pregnant before. Saying that our veins leak venom and that's why we aren't pregnant is a terrible thing to say. We have an announcement at the top that should give newbs an idea of what to expect, and lurking is recommended. If you hate it here, fine. But you don't have to be here.
Could have gone such a different way if someone had just said "Congrats OP, but I think you're in the wrong forum.. you can find 1st Tri *here*... all the best". To have 20+ jealous women jump on this ladies back was just gut retching.
Not hard to be courteous. It was just a clear indication of the type of characters that roam this group.
What a disgusting bunch of sour women. Jealousy - pure and simple.
Take a long hard look at yourselves and you might just find out why you haven't yet got your BFP. Your veins leak venom.
I belong to a TTC group whom are filled with ladies that are TTC after loss. The group is now filled with ladies who have finally got their rainbow babies, and some are still on their TTC journey. We accept everyone... no matter where they are in their journey. I'm thankful that I found that group, and not this one.
You're all a bunch of bullies, and i'm surprised the Mod tolerates this kind of behaviour.
That's not cool. Some of the ladies here on this board already have children, or they have been pregnant before. Saying that our veins leak venom and that's why we aren't pregnant is a terrible thing to say. We have an announcement at the top that should give newbs an idea of what to expect, and lurking is recommended. If you hate it here, fine. But you don't have to be here.
not nice to be attacked is it?
Telling someone that we aren't their uterus and therefore can't tell them if they are pregnant is entirely different than you attacking women who have infertility issues. That's hitting below the belt and makes YOU the one with venom in your veins.
DH (29)
& Me (26) - Married 9/22/2012
TTC since 9/2012
Dx - Annovulatory; PCOS-IR
8/2013 - First consult with RE
9/2013 - HSG, SHG both clear; SA normal
Oct 2013 - Jan 2014 - Clomid + Trigger + IUI #1-3 = BFN's
Feb 2014 - Femara + Trigger + IUI #4 = BFP!!!!! Beta #1 - 3/2/14 (15dpo) - 123 Beta #2 - 3/4/14 (17dpo) - 378 1st ultrasound - 3/21/14 - 1 little ninja, heartbeat - 120bpm Due November 7, 2014
Oh please, you girls can dish it out and run for Mummy when someone stands up to you! Typical bully behaviour.
I hope you will sit back and take a long hard look at yourselves. I think you know well and good that you went beyond "telling" someone that you can't tell if they are pregnant - you attacked her with no remorse.
Good luck on your TTC journey, I hope its filled with a positive story soon.
Could have gone such a different way if someone had just said "Congrats OP, but I think you're in the wrong forum.. you can find 1st Tri *here*... all the best". To have 20+ jealous women jump on this ladies back was just gut retching.
Not hard to be courteous. It was just a clear indication of the type of characters that roam this group.
I totally agree with everything you have said it is disgusting they way these women have treated that poor ladies they should be ashamed of themselves, was congrats too hard to say???
Re: Omg I think I'm pregnant
(Mainly because if I pissed on nine pee tests, my husband would leave my ass. GURL.)
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies.”
- J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
married on the sweetest day 10.20.12
Chicken - 07.08.06 | Bubsy - 02.24.09 | Sunshine - 07.16.14
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies.”
- J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
married on the sweetest day 10.20.12
Chicken - 07.08.06 | Bubsy - 02.24.09 | Sunshine - 07.16.14
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies.”
- J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
married on the sweetest day 10.20.12
Chicken - 07.08.06 | Bubsy - 02.24.09 | Sunshine - 07.16.14
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies.”
- J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
married on the sweetest day 10.20.12
Chicken - 07.08.06 | Bubsy - 02.24.09 | Sunshine - 07.16.14
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies.”
- J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
married on the sweetest day 10.20.12
Chicken - 07.08.06 | Bubsy - 02.24.09 | Sunshine - 07.16.14
Married: August 2012
DD: 9/22/2014
Married: August 2012
DD: 9/22/2014
*round of applause*
Where on earth does everyone dig up these amazingly appropriate gifs??
Baby #1 due June 5th, 2014
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
Dying.
“When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies.”
- J.M. Barrie Peter Pan
married on the sweetest day 10.20.12
Chicken - 07.08.06 | Bubsy - 02.24.09 | Sunshine - 07.16.14
OP, here's the thing. What you did was kind of like walking into a room full of women who haven't been able to eat chocolate for a while, some of them a reeeeeally long while. And then you come in, don't introduce yourself, sit down, eat a massive fuck off block of chocolate in front of us all, tell us how good it tastes, and expect us to be really happy for you.
Pardon the food analogy, but sometimes you gotta break it down real simple like.
And also I'm going to eat some chocolate now.
Baby #1 due June 5th, 2014
It’s not that I don’t like you, it’s that I don’t know you. Stranger Danger.
Congratulations FX for a sticky bub.
To all those who cannot seem to have anything nice to say to the OP its a shame you have to stomp all over someone who is sharing a bit of joy. You will find on most other forums in their TTGP board you can post BFP's questions or unsure HPT questions and even Possible pregnancy questions with symptoms etc.
Some of you come across seem so judgmental and jump on pretty much anyone who has not introduced themselves and spent time getting to know you.
For what its worth if anyone lurked for a while here and read these sorts of posts and responses the OP got they would be sure to make an effort to get to know you all and your TTC journey NOT!
Why would they? Some of you come across as less than friendly.
Telling someone that we aren't their uterus and therefore can't tell them if they are pregnant is entirely different than you attacking women who have infertility issues. That's hitting below the belt and makes YOU the one with venom in your veins.
DH (29) & Me (26) - Married 9/22/2012
TTC since 9/2012
Dx - Annovulatory; PCOS-IR
8/2013 - First consult with RE
9/2013 - HSG, SHG both clear; SA normal
Oct 2013 - Jan 2014 - Clomid + Trigger + IUI #1-3 = BFN's
Feb 2014 - Femara + Trigger + IUI #4 = BFP!!!!!
Beta #1 - 3/2/14 (15dpo) - 123
Beta #2 - 3/4/14 (17dpo) - 378
1st ultrasound - 3/21/14 - 1 little ninja, heartbeat - 120bpm
Due November 7, 2014
**ALL** Welcome
Because your thread was actually posted in our forum and a number of other forums by women who were so horrified by what they saw.