TTC After a Loss

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Re: Apology

  • MrsS143 said:

    Thankfully, not all the ladies get involved in the child-like banter. Btw @mattsgirl2004 I can't believe you have a pic of your son! Isntt that against the rules?? Where's the warning? My eyes are burningggggggggggg

    @mattsgirl2004 is a valued member of this community. Don't you dare try to bring her down. The White Knighting in this thread is really what's making my eyes burn. Why are you even here?

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  • MrsS143 said:
    Yes i have 70+ discussions there under my maiden name- again, women much more pleasant and much less pre-pubescent.
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    Go away



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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • MrsS143 said:
    @sunsandbliss Ohhh! What exactly is the cut-off age? When is it not hurtful anymore according to you people?
    Why so hypersensitive on this topic? The blog provides clear guidance on kid photos But methinks you probably were here before under a different screen name, insenstively posted a baby photo, got flamed for it, and now you're all butthurt and back under another name to complain about how mean we are. 

    You hate us but you can't stay away, right? 

    edited for clarity
    I think she just admitted to this basically.

    married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
    BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
    mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13

    BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14 

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    All AL always welcome in my threads!

  • MrsS143 said:
    @sunsandbliss Ohhh! What exactly is the cut-off age? When is it not hurtful anymore according to you people?
    Why so hypersensitive on this topic? The blog provides clear guidance on kid photos But methinks you probably were here before under a different screen name, insenstively posted a baby photo, got flamed for it, and now you're all butthurt and back under another name to complain about how mean we are. 

    You hate us but you can't stay away, right? 

    edited for clarity
    I think she just admitted to this basically.
    Clearly has nothing better to do.



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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • MrsS143 said:
    Yes i have 70+ discussions there under my maiden name- again, women much more pleasant and much less pre-pubescent.
    So you had to change your name because you sucked? I knew it. 
  • MrsS143 said:
    Like I said, I like to hear of pregnancies- gives me hope. @marierj you should try Pgal because the women are much more pleasant. I spend most of my time there even though I'm not pregnant yet.
    You had better hope that those women have not seen this thread or you will find a chilly welcome. You want fucking rainbows and unicorns? Find babygaga.
    This. Do you honestly think the PGAL ladies will be so welcoming to you now? Most of them are grads of this board and are protective of us, so good luck with that!
    Oh.. They know now...
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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • Seriously?? I'm pretty new here too, but HOLY BWALLS! You give us newbies a bad name.
    I didn't need this today, as I'm sure all these other amazing didn't either.

    Me (40) DH (45); Started dating 2-24-12, Married 5-13-13

    BFP 3-16-13..EDD 11-17-13.. MMC 4-16-13 Confirmed/D&C 4-23-13...
    BFP #4 6-22-14 EDD 3-6-15 FX for our LO

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  • Why do we have to use obscenities to get our point across? Do we lack basic vocabulary? @serenla yes, clearly you do..
  • Thankfully, not all the ladies get involved in the child-like banter. Btw @mattsgirl2004 I can't believe you have a pic of your son! Isntt that against the rules?? Where's the warning? My eyes are burningggggggggggg
    @mattsgirl2004 is a valued member of this community. Don't you dare try to bring her down. The White Knighting in this thread is really what's making my eyes burn. Why are you even here?
    Aww, thanks Poppy! Don't worry. I don't allow cunts like her to bring me down.
    Sing it!



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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • LesliW said:
    Seriously?? I'm pretty new here too, but HOLY BWALLS! You give us newbies a bad name. I didn't need this today, as I'm sure all these other amazing didn't either.
    ((hugs))

    married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
    BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
    mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13

    BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14 

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    All AL always welcome in my threads!

  • SerenlaSerenla member
    edited August 2013
    burp



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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • MrsS143 said:
    Why do we have to use obscenities to get our point across? Do we lack basic vocabulary? @serenla yes, clearly you do..
    Kutabare, anatagabakkande. Ama
    Maybe, but at least I can pick one of the languages I speak to swear at you in.
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    I can keep doing this all day. GO AWAY.



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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • MrsS143 said:
    @Serenla, I honestly wish you much baby luck. It seems like you could really use something good in your life. Sending you nothing but good baby karma. Honestly.
    Go Away!
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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • Like I said- nothing but good baby karma..
  • Pink021 said:
    Seems this name appeared right after the whole Mcquader1 mess. . .
    You're probably right.



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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • Why do we have to use obscenities to get our point across? Do we lack basic vocabulary? @serenla yes, clearly you do..
    It's not that we lack basic vocabulary, it's just that people like you bring the worst out in people like me. Plus, it's kind of fun sometimes to have a legit reason to use certain words. You know words such as fuck, bitch, piece of shit, cunt, etc. We are all adults here and can use adult language if we choose to do so. If you don't like it, you're more then welcome to fucking leave. :)
    *titty bump*




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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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    married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
    BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
    mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13

    BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14 

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    All AL always welcome in my threads!


  • MrsS143 said:
    @Marierj as you've come to find out, you will not receive a warm welcome from most of these women unless you follow their blog to the tee.. Don't take it personally- I've experienced their rudeness firsthand. I'm sorry for your loss and hope you have a positive. For me, after having gone through a loss, I love to hear of new pregnancies. It gives me hope. Wishing you the best.
    How exactly did you experience our rudeness? The only time you posted here was to say you were not going to post here because you did not think we were supportive. 

    You do understand the reason PgAL does not have a problem with BFPs is because 100% of the people on PgAL are pregnant.



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  • @mattsgirl2004 well it's really offensive and shows a general lack of maturity. Good baby luck to you too.

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    lol had to add...
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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • MrsS143 said:
    @mattsgirl2004 well it's really offensive and shows a general lack of maturity. Good baby luck to you too.
    Really? Because it REEKS maturity for you to continue to stir up trouble where you are not welcome.  Why don't you grow up and walk away now?

    married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
    BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
    mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13

    BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14 

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    All AL always welcome in my threads!

  • @buggirl72 I totally get it- it's just the delivery. When I posted the last time I spent the day reading the most profane rant. I was shocked that people who were supposed to be supporting each other at a time of loss could be so cruel. There's a way to say things..
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  • @mattsgirl2004 Like you, I am experiencing a loss. Can you please stop cursing at me? I'm asking you nicely.
  • @mattsgirl2004 well it's really offensive and shows a general lack of maturity. Good baby luck to you too.
    I'm not being immature, I'm just having fun your stupid ass. :) If you're so offended, by all means get the fuck out.
    She doesn't like to be told to GTFO. Let me try it in the 4chan way...
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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • MrsS143 said:
    Like I said- nothing but good baby karma..
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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • @heymrspotter I'm by no means hiding behind a screen name. I changed my screen name bc I didn't want to use my maiden name.
  • @mattsgirl2004 Like you, I am experiencing a loss. Can you please stop cursing at me? I'm asking you nicely.
    I'm sorry for your loss, I truley am. However, you started white knighting this thread having nothing good to say about us here and then expect us to play nice? If you can't handle the tone of this board, then please go else where.
    Wasting your keystrokes love.



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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • snegde said:
    Well, although I taught this was the right forum for questions concerning those who TTC (try to conceive) after a loss.  I do apology if anyone got offended by my question.  I understand what a loss is and I just been through one too.  However, I still believe that the forum "TTC after a loss" should be a place where every women that has been through a loss and plan of trying again, should get support during the steps through conception including questions on DPO, etc...  Whereas, https://forums.thebump.com/categories/loss there are a specific "Loss" board for those going through hard time.

    Anyway, my mistake. 
    OP do you get it now? Hurtful people like MrsS are what we have to deal with every day. Look at her post history. The good news is she makes you look like the Easter bunny.
    Yeah wicked said it best, she is a cuntburger.



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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • @meladoriestar I get that.. When you're having a heated discussion about something you're passionate about. But these girls are being profane only to intimidate. And on a board based on grief... There's no reason for that.
  • MrsS143 said:
    @meladoriestar I get that.. When you're having a heated discussion about something you're passionate about. But these girls are being profane only to intimidate. And on a board based on grief... There's no reason for that.
    *sigh*
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    go away

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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


    image   Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • MrsS143 said:
    @meladoriestar I get that.. When you're having a heated discussion about something you're passionate about. But these girls are being profane only to intimidate. And on a board based on grief... There's no reason for that.
    hmmmm.  When I used the words, I was pretty angry(which clearly you were not worth)... I don't really think profanity will intimidate someone through a computer.

    married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
    BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
    mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13

    BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14 

    imageimage image

    All AL always welcome in my threads!

  • @serenla OMG that Snape gif is amazing!
    I try :)



    mean_girls_35345Image and video hosting by TinyPic         PAL Sep challenge George Takei image
    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • @sunsandbliss you shouldn't really be getting angry through the computer either. That's pretty silly.
  • SerenlaSerenla member
    edited August 2013
    MrsS143 said:
    @buggirl72 she did apologize. It just seems that on any given day when I do come on here the same group of girls are essentially bullying a new person for an innocent mistake- namely @wickedsugar and @serenla who clearly have nothing better to do. They're always the first ones to jump on an unsuspecting victim.
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    I eat unsuspecting victims!

    ETA, I do have to point out that the few posts where I have come out swinging are this one and the one with MCQueefer....hmmmmm



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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • MrsS143 said:
    @serenla, I hope you have a life outside of your computer. Friends? A job? You dont seem like you have much else going on.
    That was unnecessary.

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    TTC #1 since June 2012
    Current Status:  IVF with ICSI and PGS
    Genetic, RPL, SA and Fertility testing = Normal/Good
        HSG = All Clear
    BFP #1 12.30.2012  ||  Blighted Ovum 02.05.2013  ||  D&C 02.11.2013
    BFP #2 09.10.2013  ||  c/p 09.12.2013

    BFP #3 12.1.2013  ||  mm/c  01.15.14  ||  D&C 01.21.14  chromosome abnormality
    May 2014:  Residual HCG and retained tissue found
    05.13.2014:  Hysteroscopy D&C to find and remove retained tissue
    June 2014:  Tissue sample results indicate a partial molar pregnancy
    May - Aug 2014:   TTA for monitoring and testing
    08.21.2014:  Hysteroscopy to remove minor scar tissue - the result of 3 D&Cs
    Sept/Oct: IUI #1  Femara + Bravelle + Ovidrel = BFN
    Oct/Nov: IUI #2  Femara + Ovidrel = BFN
    Nov/Dec: IUI #3  Femara + Bravelle + Ovidrel = BFN

    My Ovulation Chart  || *~*~All AL Welcome~*~* ||  DIY Blog

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  • MrsS143 said:
    @serenla, I hope you have a life outside of your computer. Friends? A job? You dont seem like you have much else going on.
    Nope, I am lazy, alone, and live off of welfare. 
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    mean_girls_35345Image and video hosting by TinyPic         PAL Sep challenge George Takei image
    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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