Thankfully, not all the ladies get involved in the child-like banter. Btw @mattsgirl2004 I can't believe you have a pic of your son! Isntt that against the rules?? Where's the warning? My eyes are burningggggggggggg
@mattsgirl2004 is a valued member of this community. Don't you dare try to bring her down. The White Knighting in this thread is really what's making my eyes burn. Why are you even here?
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be ourR AI NBOWtake home baby BOY
@sunsandbliss
Ohhh! What exactly is the cut-off age? When is it not hurtful anymore according to you people?
Why so hypersensitive on this topic? The blog provides clear guidance on kid photos But methinks you probably were here before under a different screen name, insenstively posted a baby photo, got flamed for it, and now you're all butthurt and back under another name to complain about how mean we are.
You hate us but you can't stay away, right?
edited for clarity
I think she just admitted to this basically.
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012 BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13 mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
@sunsandbliss
Ohhh! What exactly is the cut-off age? When is it not hurtful anymore according to you people?
Why so hypersensitive on this topic? The blog provides clear guidance on kid photos But methinks you probably were here before under a different screen name, insenstively posted a baby photo, got flamed for it, and now you're all butthurt and back under another name to complain about how mean we are.
You hate us but you can't stay away, right?
edited for clarity
I think she just admitted to this basically.
Clearly has nothing better to do.
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
Like I said, I like to hear of pregnancies- gives me hope. @marierj you should try Pgal because the women are much more pleasant. I spend most of my time there even though I'm not pregnant yet.
You had better hope that those women have not seen this thread or you will find a chilly welcome. You want fucking rainbows and unicorns? Find babygaga.
This. Do you honestly think the PGAL ladies will be so welcoming to you now? Most of them are grads of this board and are protective of us, so good luck with that!
Oh.. They know now...
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
Seriously?? I'm pretty new here too, but HOLY BWALLS! You give us newbies a bad name. I didn't need this today, as I'm sure all these other amazing didn't either.
Me (40) DH (45); Started dating 2-24-12, Married 5-13-13
BFP 3-16-13..EDD 11-17-13.. MMC 4-16-13 Confirmed/D&C 4-23-13... BFP #4 6-22-14 EDD 3-6-15 FX for our LO
Thankfully, not all the ladies get involved in the child-like banter. Btw @mattsgirl2004 I can't believe you have a pic of your son! Isntt that against the rules?? Where's the warning? My eyes are burningggggggggggg
@mattsgirl2004 is a valued member of this community. Don't you dare try to bring her down. The White Knighting in this thread is really what's making my eyes burn. Why are you even here?
Aww, thanks Poppy!
Don't worry. I don't allow cunts like her to bring me down.
Sing it!
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
Seriously?? I'm pretty new here too, but HOLY BWALLS! You give us newbies a bad name.
I didn't need this today, as I'm sure all these other amazing didn't either.
((hugs))
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012 BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13 mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
@Serenla,
I honestly wish you much baby luck. It seems like you could really use something good in your life. Sending you nothing but good baby karma. Honestly.
Go Away!
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
Why do we have to use obscenities to get our point across? Do we lack basic vocabulary?
@serenla yes, clearly you do..
It's not that we lack basic vocabulary, it's just that people like you bring the worst out in people like me. Plus, it's kind of fun sometimes to have a legit reason to use certain words. You know words such as fuck, bitch, piece of shit, cunt, etc.
We are all adults here and can use adult language if we choose to do so. If you don't like it, you're more then welcome to fucking leave.
*titty bump*
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012 BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13 mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
@Marierj as you've come to find out, you will not receive a warm welcome from most of these women unless you follow their blog to the tee.. Don't take it personally- I've experienced their rudeness firsthand. I'm sorry for your loss and hope you have a positive. For me, after having gone through a loss, I love to hear of new pregnancies. It gives me hope. Wishing you the best.
How exactly did you experience our rudeness? The only time you posted here was to say you were not going to post here because you did not think we were supportive.
You do understand the reason PgAL does not have a problem with BFPs is because 100% of the people on PgAL are pregnant.
@mattsgirl2004 well it's really offensive and shows a general lack of maturity. Good baby luck to you too.
Really? Because it REEKS maturity for you to continue to stir up trouble where you are not welcome. Why don't you grow up and walk away now?
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012 BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13 mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
@buggirl72
I totally get it- it's just the delivery. When I posted the last time I spent the day reading the most profane rant. I was shocked that people who were supposed to be supporting each other at a time of loss could be so cruel. There's a way to say things..
@mattsgirl2004
Like you, I am experiencing a loss. Can you please stop cursing at me? I'm asking you nicely.
I'm sorry for your loss, I truley am. However, you started white knighting this thread having nothing good to say about us here and then expect us to play nice?
If you can't handle the tone of this board, then please go else where.
Wasting your keystrokes love.
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
@buggirl72
I totally get it- it's just the delivery. When I posted the last time I spent the day reading the most profane rant. I was shocked that people who were supposed to be supporting each other at a time of loss could be so cruel. There's a way to say things..
That same day had multiple posts that were incredibly supportive. You are choosing to support someone that was never a member of this community, posted a BFP, and then refused to apologize.
We protect our board from people that make inappropriate posts. If you do not like that we fight to keep this place safe, quit lurking here and quit white knighting. Find a board that better suits you to post on.
Well, although I taught this was the right forum for questions concerning those who TTC (try to conceive) after a loss. I do apology if anyone got offended by my question. I understand what a loss is and I just been through one too. However, I still believe that the forum "TTC after a loss" should be a place where every women that has been through a loss and plan of trying again, should get support during the steps through conception including questions on DPO, etc... Whereas, https://forums.thebump.com/categories/loss there are a specific "Loss" board for those going through hard time.
Anyway, my mistake.
OP do you get it now? Hurtful people like MrsS are what we have to deal with every day. Look at her post history. The good news is she makes you look like the Easter bunny.
Yeah wicked said it best, she is a cuntburger.
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
@meladoriestar
I get that.. When you're having a heated discussion about something you're passionate about. But these girls are being profane only to intimidate. And on a board based on grief... There's no reason for that.
@meladoriestar
I get that.. When you're having a heated discussion about something you're passionate about. But these girls are being profane only to intimidate. And on a board based on grief... There's no reason for that.
*sigh*
go away
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
@meladoriestar
I get that.. When you're having a heated discussion about something you're passionate about. But these girls are being profane only to intimidate. And on a board based on grief... There's no reason for that.
hmmmm. When I used the words, I was pretty angry(which clearly you were not worth)... I don't really think profanity will intimidate someone through a computer.
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012 BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13 mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
@buggirl72 she did apologize. It just seems that on any given day when I do come on here the same group of girls are essentially bullying a new person for an innocent mistake- namely @wickedsugar and @serenla who clearly have nothing better to do. They're always the first ones to jump on an unsuspecting victim.
I eat unsuspecting victims!
ETA, I do have to point out that the few posts where I have come out swinging are this one and the one with MCQueefer....hmmmmm
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
Re: Apology
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
~All AL always welcome~
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14
All AL always welcome in my threads!
I didn't need this today, as I'm sure all these other amazing didn't either.
Me (40) DH (45); Started dating 2-24-12, Married 5-13-13
BFP 3-16-13..EDD 11-17-13.. MMC 4-16-13 Confirmed/D&C 4-23-13...
BFP #4 6-22-14 EDD 3-6-15 FX for our LO
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14
All AL always welcome in my threads!
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14
All AL always welcome in my threads!
How exactly did you experience our rudeness? The only time you posted here was to say you were not going to post here because you did not think we were supportive.
You do understand the reason PgAL does not have a problem with BFPs is because 100% of the people on PgAL are pregnant.
The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14
All AL always welcome in my threads!
We protect our board from people that make inappropriate posts. If you do not like that we fight to keep this place safe, quit lurking here and quit white knighting. Find a board that better suits you to post on.
The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise
married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13
BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14
All AL always welcome in my threads!
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TTC #1 since June 2012
Current Status: IVF with ICSI and PGS
Genetic, RPL, SA and Fertility testing = Normal/Good HSG = All Clear
BFP #1 12.30.2012 || Blighted Ovum 02.05.2013 || D&C 02.11.2013
BFP #2 09.10.2013 || c/p 09.12.2013
BFP #3 12.1.2013 || mm/c 01.15.14 || D&C 01.21.14 chromosome abnormality
May 2014: Residual HCG and retained tissue found
05.13.2014: Hysteroscopy D&C to find and remove retained tissue
June 2014: Tissue sample results indicate a partial molar pregnancy
May - Aug 2014: TTA for monitoring and testing
08.21.2014: Hysteroscopy to remove minor scar tissue - the result of 3 D&Cs
Sept/Oct: IUI #1 Femara + Bravelle + Ovidrel = BFN
Oct/Nov: IUI #2 Femara + Ovidrel = BFN
Nov/Dec: IUI #3 Femara + Bravelle + Ovidrel = BFN
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