February 2014 Moms

Sad goodbye

ayette86ayette86 member
edited July 2013 in February 2014 Moms
Lost my baby last night.  Being hopeful and trying to stay positive. I went to the ER because of bleeding and cramping , they did an u/s and there was no fetal heartbeat.  I was 11w2d with my first pregnancy.  I feel a little numb to everything right now.  I know it's not the end of the world but it sure does feel like it.  The thing that gets me worked up and crying is the thought of tell my parents.  They are so excited to be grandparents and now this, I regret even telling them when I did, because now I have to break their hearts.  Thanks for listen.
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  • kb3llkb3ll member
    So sorry for your loss T&P!
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  • So sorry. Sending you T&Ps.
  • So sorry :( sending t&p's your way.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. It is never easy. Take care of yourself the best you can and I hope for the best for you and your family.
  • I am so sorry.
  • I'm so very sorry. I'm sure you parents will be there to support you.

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  • I am so sorry. Your family will be there for you, lean on eachother in this tough time.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Don't be hard on yourself about telling your parents. They will be a great support to you during this time in yalls lives.

    I had told our parents before our first miscarriage, and the day I found out, I really didn't want to talk about it. I texted them and my sisters and said, "there was no heartbeat. Im fine. Don't feel like talking". Once I got over the initial shock of it all, I was really glad I had told them, and had their support. I think their feelings would have been more hurt if I never told them, and then later was like "well I actually have been pregnant before...".

    Big hugs!!! Sending many thoughts your way.

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  • I'm sorry for your loss.
     
  • ((Hugs)) I am so sorry for your loss

                                   

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  • So very sorry for your loss. Many T&P your way.
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  • Hugs and I agree w PP, you will be thankful for their support and they will be glad they can be there for you during this time.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss! Sending prayers your way!!
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • So very sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss!! T&Ps to you and your family
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss! Thinking of you and your family. :(

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  • Your in my thoughts & prayers. I know our parents will be very saddened, but they will more concerned for you. And happy that you told them so they can support you as you grieve. No parent wants their child to go through that loss alone.
  • Oh no I am so very sorry for your loss. (((Hugs)))
  • I'm so sorry. I'm sure your parents will understand. Don't worry about it and take care of yourself.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss ::hugs::
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  • My dear, you shared joy with your parents and that was the right thing to do. Now, as your parents, they can help be supportive in your sorrow. It's better to have the joyful moments and not just share when the bad things happened. Someone else told me that and I hope it helps, but if it doesn't, my heart goes out to you.
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  • So very sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss!! Praying for you!
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so, so sorry for your loss.

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  • Pacheco825Pacheco825 member
    edited July 2013
    So sorry!!! Praying for you guys! Edit:autocorrect
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  • So very sorry for your loss. Big hugs
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  • So very sorry for your loss - sending you and your family T and P. I think telling your parents was still a good idea and something I struggled with too - but while they were excited (just like you) they can understand your sorrow and help be a support for you. Take care <3
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  • Very sorry for your loss.  I'm sure they'll understand if you need some time, but they'll be there to support you when you're ready.

  • I am so sorry for your loss. I hope your parents will be able to give you the support you need. 
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