Saw this betch at a hot air balloon festival last night...she's pregnant, smoking a ciggy, and drinking a coors light. my eyes nearly popped out of their sockets! Some people should just not be allowed to have children.
edited to remove this woman's face. sorry mobile bumping from bed--thought i had posted the cropped version earlier.
Re: This.happened
I completely agree... Not cool!!! I'd be so pissed if I found out someone posted pics of me on a public Internet forum.
CP: 01/2011 | MMC: 01/2012 | MMC: 10/2012 | DS: 11/2013 | MMC: 11/2014 | DD: 01/2016
BFP: 06/2018 - EDD: 02/09/2019
We should all watch our backs. Never know when the Judgement Police is going to come a'calling.
These things make me angry.
Note to self: no matter how mad, be careful of posting pix? Lesson learned.
I mean I understand what you are saying, I just don't think we need the picture to illustrate it. Please consider removing the picture.
Emma Kate - born 10.16.03 @ 29 weeks, weighed 1lb 13oz and 13.5" long.
TTC #3
As a side note, a lot of women on here (and everywhere else) drink a glass of wine from time to time, there's nothing different about drinking a beer. Alcohol is alcohol.
She's not sporting a crack pipe. Being pregnant is hard enough and we're all hard enough on ourselves. You don't know her, you don't know her situation.
People who live in glass houses and all that stuff...
But this lady definitely was.
Started back on BC May, 2010; Had last shot on Aug. 2010
TTC starting in November, 2010; Irregular cycles- went to Dr
U/S showed cysts on both ovaries; Diag. Lap on March 1st, 2011
Lap showed that my right fal. tube is centered, instead of to the right
Left fal. tube is disjointed
uterus is tilted and the size of a softball, not a pear.
BFP on 8-30-11, 9-2-11, and 9-4-11.
EDD is May 14, 2012.
Babygirl born on April 16, 2012.
If I'm wrong, then I'm wrong. It's just what I see when I look at the picture.
I think we can all agree she shouldn't be smoking and drinking (more than 1) if pregnant. We would all still be judging her for that if it were just a story with no picture.
The difference of opinion is whether or not OP should have posted her picture. With all of the different websites and forms of social media, people post pictures of everything. As a PP said, the people of Walmart is an example of that. If you think it's wrong, you probably don't look or pay attention to those pictures. Some people find it entertaining and some find it offensive.
Anyways, I'm done trying to explain myself and my opinions. I hate having animosity between myself and others IRL and on the bump and I apologize if you don't agree with me and decided to take a "bump break" because of it.
ETA: I mostly mobile bump so sorry for any formatting or grammatical errors.
I never saw this thread about the bartender refusing service, so i don't know how ugly it got, but it is actually completely legal to refuse to serve alcohol to a pregnant person, at least in MN, because you could technically argue you are also serving a minor. Not saying that is right to assume someone is pregnant and not sure I would refuse them A drink, but more than one I probably would. Establishments would probably prefer that you don't refuse service just to avoid drama or not lose customers.
Okay THAT is funny! I can't believe people are taking bump breaks over this convo...don't go!
I LOL'ed when I read the balloon festival comment. I'm sad people are leaving too.
ETA: spelling
Me: 31 | DH: 33
DS1: 12.23.13 | DS2: 05.06.16
BFP: 06.30.19 | EDD: 3.9.20
TTC3: 11.18
BFP: 02.05.19
CP: 03.07.19
*really traumatic recovery*