look, you guys are the ones who got all bent cause i was posting this in the wrong place, and that i said baby dust. well, i like that phrase. you guys just wouldnt let it go. now you guys are telling me to leave. well, thats just never gonna happen. you say your bored, and yet you continue commenting. if your bored. move on to a different post. i havent posted about my 2WW since before all this crap happened. i thought this would be a fun outlet. and now you guys are making it miserable. but im not gonna go anywhere. so if you want to keep wasting your own time and getting more and more annoyed, please, be my guest. but if you want this to stop. your gonna have to move on.
I guess you win then? I'm moving on because you aren't going to listen to anyone else. You have an idea in your mind about acceptable behavior, and I guess we will have to agree to disagree.
and the fact that you have to correct my grammer. its the freaking internet. who cares if i say your or you're or ya'll, or whatever. who cares!! but good, im glad your moving on and getting over it.
Seriously, how old are you? You'd think a grown woman would at least know the difference between "you're" and "your". Or are you doing that to annoy everyone as well?
Me:31 DH:29
Married: 6/19/10 Started TTC: 5/11
BFP #1: 9/12/11 EDD: 5/21/12 Alana Brooke was born 5/15/12 at 39w1d
BFP #2: 8/31/13 EDD: 5/9/14 Isabella Grace was born 5/10/14 at 40w1d
why cant you guys just get over it. why cant you guys just welcome people. People tried to welcome you and give you pointers about how to fit into the board. They basically said, "hey I know you are upset or whatever and you are venting about the 2WW-- but this is how we do things here." You turned around and spat in their face. You basically told them that you were going to do things your way and if they didn't like it they could sit n' spin. Again, you took someone trying to welcome you and give you an opportunity to adjust to the social norms of the board as some sort of attack on you. It wasn't. Then you've slowly begun your decent into madness.
so what if i posted on the wrong board. it happened, move on. i love it here, cause when i just read other peoples posts, there are always a lot of positive responses, and peoples experiences: Yes, for people who observe the etiquette and culture of the board. You seem bound and determined to do the opposite of that. You really do. You get the positive when you GIVE the positive and not just some obnoxious blathering about baby dust. Real, honest to goodness support. Not just bratty foot stomping. All you have given is annoyance, petulance and stubborness. I haven't seen anything but whining, and complaining from you. Really.
thats what i thought would happen when i posted this, but everyone (minus the first few) have just been harping on me that im insultive and rude, and that i dont belong here. well, too bad, cause im TTGP along with everyone else on here. im not gonna go away because you have told me that you dont like me. just get over it.
I mean, if you really want to stick around where people don't like you then that's cool. I am a TTGP Graduate, so its not like if you get your BFP that it will magically make the reputation you've gained here disappear. Folks from all over TB are probably reading this and making a mental note to watch out for you. Really, you've done yourself absolutely no favors and continue to do yourself no favors. People find you offensive, rude and insensitive. You are doing nothing, absolutely nothing, to change their minds about the way you behave. No apology. No trying to change your approach. Just pig-headed bulldozing.
Here's a hint: How is your way working? That's right. Its not. Its really really not working. So, maybe, just maybe change your approach and you will get a better response?
OK I'm only asking because I'm honestly confused...You want everyone ELSE to let it go, but you won't? What do you have to "let go?"
You have to understand. I dared to try to reassure her about obsessing about symptoms, including sharing my own stories of insane obsessing, then suggested ways she could fit in better on the board. And THEN, I dared to suggest she find a board that is more her style when she declared she would continue to post obsessive threads despite my advice.
These are all capital, nay, flaggable offenses!!!
Me & DH: 24 Married: 5/11
Started TTC: 12/12 Testing Started: 5/14
Dx: Irregular Ovulation, possible PCOS
Treatment starting July '14: Letrozole + Trigger + TI
Surprise natural BFP right before starting meds!!!!!- EDD 3/7/15
yeah, i know the difference between your and you're, its just i dont care about the difference when im posting on the internet. and no, the fact that people were telling me to go away, that was rude. yeah, i should have posted in the right board first, but i didnt so get over it. and how am i supposed to give support when everyone tells me to go away, and that im annoying and rude. and A LOT of people post baby dust at the end of their post. and i am gonna stick around on this site. i like reading posts by others and reading others experiences and reactions, and sharing news on new pregancies. i wanted to know what other peoples experiences were with the 2WW, yeah i went to the wrong place, so what, you guys still could have shared your experiences. but you guys just told me i was in the wrong place. and what was i supposed to do differently?? i asked a question hoping to get peoples experiences back and have a nice conversation about 2WW and stuff... but nope. i really dont care anymore. you guys dont seem to care about what i have to say either, so why do you guys keep posting. but really, how am i suppose to give when you guys just want me gone??
thats great... why do you care?? what do you have to gain by constanly posting on this. you guys have obviously made your own little clique and anyone trying to post something on here is an immidiate outcast. why cant you guys just give up and move on to a different post??!! OMG!!
I literally started posting 2 days ago so no, I am not part of a clique. I do however know what friendly behavior is. I also never felt like an outsider when I've posted.
and im not telling anyone how they should feel. im saying what ive recieved. i thought it would be a fun board post, but you guys are so caddy, it really doesnt matter anymore. i dont care. if im preggnant, yippee, if not then we will try again. i dont care. you guys are the ones that keep this post going. you say you want it to end and for me to move on, well this is my post. im gonna keep commenting on it as much as i want. so, if you guys dont want to, then you guys can move on.
and the fact that you have to correct my grammer. its the freaking internet. who cares if i say your or you're or ya'll, or whatever. who cares!! but good, im glad your moving on and getting over it.
Grammar is very important when it comes to expressing yourself. It helps convey your point and makes you sound intelligent.
I'd like to say that grammar is especially important on an Internet forum where written speech is the form of communication.
and im not telling anyone how they should feel. im saying what ive recieved. i thought it would be a fun board post, but you guys are so caddy, it really doesnt matter anymore. i dont care. if im preggnant, yippee, if not then we will try again. i dont care. you guys are the ones that keep this post going. you say you want it to end and for me to move on, well this is my post. im gonna keep commenting on it as much as i want. so, if you guys dont want to, then you guys can move on.
Just out of curiosity where are all of the ladies you claim to get along with so well on here? Because it looks to me like none of your "friends" are touching this thread with a 10 foot pole.
Just out of curiosity where are all of the ladies you claim to get along with so well on here? Because it looks to me like none of your "friends" are touching this thread with a 10 foot pole.
I was wondering the same thing.
Me:31 DH:29
Married: 6/19/10 Started TTC: 5/11
BFP #1: 9/12/11 EDD: 5/21/12 Alana Brooke was born 5/15/12 at 39w1d
BFP #2: 8/31/13 EDD: 5/9/14 Isabella Grace was born 5/10/14 at 40w1d
i never said they were on here. if i wanted to talk to my friends about this i would go to their house. but you know what, i dont want to talk to my friends about this, cause they would always ask me if im pregnant later. i want to tell them that im pregnant when the timing is right. seriously. just go away. all of you. leave me the freak alone, you have proven that i am not welcome here. am i gonna go?? no. am i gonna keep posting?? yes. are you gonna leave me alone?? thats up to you. you want this to be over with?? then move on!! your freaking out about something that doesnt even concern you. when i posted this i was hoping for fun responses. you have made this hell. so just get over it and MOVE ON!!
1. We are not your friends...so do you think WE want to hear about it? No. Again...Time and a place for your post. That is all that is being conveyed.
2. You came here looking for....advice? Not even sure why, but why would a group this big need to leave for one poster?
3. THIS IS NOT A FUN RESPONSE THREAD. A fun response thread involves "Would you rather see your parents doing it or join in?" like was posted yesterday.
i NEVER said you were my friends. and i NEVER said for you to leave THE BUMP, i said for you to leave THIS post. and i came on here, because the bump is where you can share stories and get advice when its too early to tell family and friends... (or so it advertises)... and if you guys would have shared your experiences with the 2WW and stuff, then it would have been fun and interesting. and not disturbing... why do you guys insist on keep commenting?? you keep saying that this is a horrible post and not fun, and boring, and stuff, well... then why do you keep commenting on it?? your the ones that is making this keep going and going and going...
i NEVER said you were my friends. and i NEVER said for you to leave THE BUMP, i said for you to leave THIS post. and i came on here, because the bump is where you can share stories and get advice when its too early to tell family and friends... (or so it advertises)... and if you guys would have shared your experiences with the 2WW and stuff, then it would have been fun and interesting. and not disturbing... why do you guys insist on keep commenting?? you keep saying that this is a horrible post and not fun, and boring, and stuff, well... then why do you keep commenting on it?? your the ones that is making this keep going and going and going...
Guuuurl. You need to calm the hell down. Fo'realz. Quit responding if you're tired of this going and going and going...
well, see the thing is, this was my post to begin with, so im gonna leave it when i want to . and the others that keep this post going need to quit responding. i just respond when someone else does.
im old enough to start a family. Im old enough to know that everyone on here is ridiculous, and im not gonna let idiots have the last word on my post. i can and will keep going. its up to you people if you want to waste your time and energy on this. this is entertaining to me. and the fact that is annoying everyone... yeah... i started this post by trying to have fun, but then it turned sour, and now im getting a rise out of people. so, until ya'll stop posting, im not gonna stop either.
Re: 2 week wait!!
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https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/8203138/sticky-baby-dust-please
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/3741810/free-baby-dust-here
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/866358/i-need-some-baby-dust
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/5581877/baby-dust-please
lots of freaking baby dust
I'd like to say that grammar is especially important on an Internet forum where written speech is the form of communication.
That's just my two cents
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Quit responding if you're tired of this going and going and going...
DS #1 born 05/25/2012
BFP#2: 06/12/2013 ---- loss
DS #2 born 4/08/2014
BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
* formally bornmommy
DS #1 born 05/25/2012
BFP#2: 06/12/2013 ---- loss
DS #2 born 4/08/2014
BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
* formally bornmommy