do you want me to unflag all your stuff and put little hearts next to it. i guess i did flag too soon, i did go back over and re-read stuff. and i guess you were trying to help me.
i just dont see why you would say i was in the wrong place for posting something about trying to get pregnant in the "trying to get pregnant" board... that just seemed dumb to me.
and trying to help me by telling me to go to a different website?? not really helpful. i dont like the other websties, ive tried them already, i love the bump, and that is why i said im not gonna go anywhere. and how the heck am i supposed to introduce myself and get to know ya'll if you dont want me to post about myself... doesnt really make sense to me...
and i really do like the baby dust siggy. its your fault if you dont like it. i dont like some of your guys dumb siggy's but i dont complain about them. i post it because i really enjoy it!!
and the reason i wanted feedback on my symptoms, not because i wanted you guys to tell me im pregnant, is because i wanted to know about your guys's two week wait stories. if you guys had anything similar. i havent POAS yet is because i am on 12 dpo, so in a few more days i will and then i'll probably come back on here and say if it is a + or a -. i hope it is a +. i didnt want this to turn into "you dont know anything, go somewhere else" thread. and i didnt know there was a 2WW thread, or believe me, i would have gone on it!!
well when i think of baby dust, i think of stuff more like pixie dust, sparkling, magical, pink and blue.
baby dust to all!!
Well you're alone in that on this board. You're really sick if you enjoy throwing a picture of ground up babies in our faces with every post. Lovely human being you are.
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12:
Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161 Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
and the reason i wanted feedback on my symptoms, not because i wanted you guys to tell me im pregnant, is because i wanted to know about your guys's two week wait stories. if you guys had anything similar. i havent POAS yet is because i am on 12 dpo, so in a few more days i will and then i'll probably come back on here and say if it is a + or a -. i hope it is a +. i didnt want this to turn into "you dont know anything, go somewhere else" thread. and i didnt know there was a 2WW thread, or believe me, i would have gone on it!!
and the reason i wanted feedback on my symptoms, not because i wanted you guys to tell me im pregnant, is because i wanted to know about your guys's two week wait stories. if you guys had anything similar. i havent POAS yet is because i am on 12 dpo, so in a few more days i will and then i'll probably come back on here and say if it is a + or a -. i hope it is a +. i didnt want this to turn into "you dont know anything, go somewhere else" thread. and i didnt know there was a 2WW thread, or believe me, i would have gone on it!!
baby dust to all!!
People gave you feedback and told you about the two week wait thread then you flipped out...
And you're just putting baby dust at the end of everything to be annoying.
Omg @Kbougan: I will break it down for you: you are trying to be a member of TTGP, right? Meaning, you want to share and get to know people right? Friendship 101 teaches you generally do your best not to be annoying to the group you are trying to join.
You are succeeding at annoying the very place you say you want to make friends. Stop throwing a tantrum long enough to understand people are trying to help you. If you just want to blow off steam then do so in a blog, but if you really want to build a network of people to commiserate about TTC with then this is not the way to do it.
No one is out to get you or bring you down. They are trying to tell you how the board works. You don't get to waltz into a group that has its own dynamics and tell them what to do. You just don't. It's rude.
Calm down and realize that you don't get to do whatever you want with no repercussions.
PS- no one is remotely jealous or bitter. That is really lame to say that.
and the reason i wanted feedback on my symptoms, not because i wanted you guys to tell me im pregnant, is because i wanted to know about your guys's two week wait stories. if you guys had anything similar. i havent POAS yet is because i am on 12 dpo, so in a few more days i will and then i'll probably come back on here and say if it is a + or a -. i hope it is a +. i didnt want this to turn into "you dont know anything, go somewhere else" thread. and i didnt know there was a 2WW thread, or believe me, i would have gone on it!!
baby dust to all!!
Well, then we agree on one thing, because I really would love for you to move on to First Tri ASAP.
Baby Farts!
FYI: This is what me being snarky and unhelpful is like, unlike last night when I was genuinely trying to help. I have officially run out of helpful comments for you.
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and the reason i wanted feedback on my symptoms, not because i wanted you guys to tell me im pregnant, is because i wanted to know about your guys's two week wait stories. if you guys had anything similar. i havent POAS yet is because i am on 12 dpo, so in a few more days i will and then i'll probably come back on here and say if it is a + or a -. i hope it is a +. i didnt want this to turn into "you dont know anything, go somewhere else" thread. and i didnt know there was a 2WW thread, or believe me, i would have gone on it!!
baby dust to all!!
Well, then we agree on one thing, because I really would love for you to move on to First Tri ASAP.
Baby Farts!
FYI: This is what me being snarky and unhelpful is like, unlike last night when I was genuinely trying to help. I have officially run out of helpful comments for you.
*STANDING OVATION*
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12:
Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161 Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
FYI: This is what me being snarky and unhelpful is like, unlike last night when I was genuinely trying to help. I have officially run out of helpful comments for you.
I literally laughed out loud on this one!! hahahaha. :P look, i already said i was sorry for getting bent in the first place. and that i posted in the wrong place. im not however, sorry for putting baby dust at the end of everytihing. its not like im trying to say here are some ground up babies, i think of it as magical special wishing dust that will promote babies!! wow...
FYI: This is what me being snarky and unhelpful is like, unlike last night when I was genuinely trying to help. I have officially run out of helpful comments for you.
I literally laughed out loud on this one!! hahahaha. :P look, i already said i was sorry for getting bent in the first place. and that i posted in the wrong place. im not however, sorry for putting baby dust at the end of everytihing. its not like im trying to say here are some ground up babies, i think of it as magical special wishing dust that will promote babies!! wow...
this is what i think of when i say baby dust.
baby dust to all!!
You're so extremely offensive, you just have no idea. I've actually experienced a loss, if you actually bothered to pay attention to anyone else's siggys that are there for reasons other than to annoy others you'd know this, and the thought of ground up baby which you laugh at and so glibly throw around as 'baby dust' is physically nauseating to me. I'm so effing done with you it's not even funny.
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12:
Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161 Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
this is exactly what im saying when people get offended. im not trying to offend anyone, and it is your fault if you take offense. im sorry for your loss. but ive explained already when i say baby dust is not ground up babies, that is your fault for thinking that. ive explained what i think when i say it. and its not like that.
this is exactly what im saying when people get offended. im not trying to offend anyone, and it is your fault if you take offense. im sorry for your loss. but ive explained already when i say baby dust is not ground up babies, that is your fault for thinking that. ive explained what i think when i say it. and its not like that.
baby dust to all!!
You need to move on. You are offensive and it needs to stop.
how am i being offensive?? i've already appologized for being upset earlier, ive explained what i think when is say baby dust... ive explained what i thought about this website and the community, ive apologized for posting in the wrong place... what else do you want me to do?? im not gonna leave the bump, but i dont understand how im being offensive??!! its your fault for taking offense at things that are not trying to be offensive.
look i cant make anyone take offense, that is your choice by being offended. its as simple as that. im sorry if you get offended by what i say or do. but that is your choice by being offended... and if you get upset by the phrase, "baby dust", why?? why would you get mad about that. it just doesnt make sense. i like the phrase, its not my fault if you dont like it. that is your choice.
Just stop like why must you continue?! People have made it clear you offend them... Let this thread go. Chalk it up to a learning experience. You now know how this board works. So deal with it. Move on to ttw board.
how am i being offensive?? i've already appologized for being upset earlier, ive explained what i think when is say baby dust... ive explained what i thought about this website and the community, ive apologized for posting in the wrong place... what else do you want me to do?? im not gonna leave the bump, but i dont understand how im being offensive??!! its your fault for taking offense at things that are not trying to be offensive.
baby dust to all!!
1) People have said that the baby dust thing is annoying and now offensive. Yet, here you are continuing to spout it at the end of every post. Stop doing that. You've been asked nicely and now not so nicely.
2.) No one needs clarification as to what you think baby dust is. The fact that you kept going with that reflects your inability to interact with others and observe social cues. No one cares. Stop trying to explain it.
3.) If you don't understand how you are being offensive, and aggravating the very people you claim you want to be your friends then there is no hope for you.
I really think you've worn out your welcome here. It would not be wise to continue posting here.
this is exactly what im saying when people get offended. im not trying to offend anyone, and it is your fault if you take offense. im sorry for your loss. but ive explained already when i say baby dust is not ground up babies, that is your fault for thinking that. ive explained what i think when i say it. and its not like that.
baby dust to all!!
So according to you, it's ok to say disgusting and cruel things and abdicate all responsibility by saying it's the other person's fault they're offended? So no one needs to edit what they say in case they might hurt someone? I could say anything I want about you but it's your fault if you get offended? Good to know. See, the difference between you and the rest of us is we actually care if we hurt someone. You are just enjoying the attention you're getting, and revelling in the pain you're causing others. That's just wrong on so many levels. Generally in life, if everyone around me is saying something I'm doing is hurtful, I stop. But not you. Aren't you a peach!
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12:
Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161 Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
this is why i dont get offended at stupid little things. im sorry for offending all of you. but you cant blame me and tell me to go away. i am a member here because i love it here, normally. i didnt think that it was gonna be like this. just take a deep breath and relax. this time is supposed to be fun and exciting!! i shouldnt have to change something that i like, but you guys just wont move past it...
Oh my god, it's not someone's "fault" that they're offended by something. That's just the way they feel. And the fact that you continue to say things that you already know offend people here is just incredibly rude. You just keep trying to cause more trouble. Move on already.
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Married: 6/19/10 Started TTC: 5/11
BFP #1: 9/12/11 EDD: 5/21/12 Alana Brooke was born 5/15/12 at 39w1d
BFP #2: 8/31/13 EDD: 5/9/14 Isabella Grace was born 5/10/14 at 40w1d
this is why i dont get offended at stupid little things. im sorry for offending all of you. but you cant blame me and tell me to go away. i am a member here because i love it here, normally. i didnt think that it was gonna be like this. just take a deep breath and relax. this time is supposed to be fun and exciting!! i shouldnt have to change something that i like, but you guys just wont move past it...
why cant you guys just get over it. why cant you guys just welcome people. so what if i posted on the wrong board. it happened, move on. i love it here, cause when i just read other peoples posts, there are always a lot of positive responses, and peoples experiences, thats what i thought would happen when i posted this, but everyone (minus the first few) have just been harping on me that im insultive and rude, and that i dont belong here. well, too bad, cause im TTGP along with everyone else on here. im not gonna go away because you have told me that you dont like me. just get over it.
I never said you "cant" post on my threads, i just said if your gonna get bent then you probably dont want to waste your time... thats all.
Board Norms?? please... im just posting what i feel, and its not every fart, and gas bubble. and last time i checked, anyone can sign up for The Bump, its not some special elite group of women who know everything. I dont, and you dont either. and why should i leave because this little group of all the women on here think im annoying. thats dumb. you might think im annoying but others dont, other women and i get along great!! and i understand that this is not a blog and that this is a community, why do you think i posted this here. so i can talk to other women about their two week wait and stuff. not to get steamed because you guys think my writing is annoying, or you dont want to read it. well, if you dont want to read it then dont. its your choice to read it. im not forcing you. and how could i give back to you guys, all you have done is tell me im annoying and that i dont belong here. well too dang bad, cause im not going anywhere.
and the reason i am posting so much, is because i am laughing so hard at the fact that everything i say, you guys take to such offense!! its really amusing, and the fact that when i post so much stuff, you guys just eat it up and have to say something about it!! really, if you dont like what i have to say, you dont have to respond or read my stuff. it is completely YOUR choice in responding or not, im not forcing you to respond, and im not telling you to move one!!
baby dust to all!!
I would be very curious to know these women that you get along so great with. Are you this selfish and disrespectful towards them? Others have asked you to stop because you are being annoying and you just keep going...and going...and going. I highly doubt that would get you far in friends IRL.
no, i dont treat them this way, i treat them the way they deserve. everyone says its a two way street, well, i havent gotten very much respect on here, so, why should i respect you guys for telling me to go away, and that im being annoying and stuff. GET OVER IT. MOVE ON. you guys are the ones that keep this post going and going and going. if you guys just give up on it, you dont have to waste your time. im not making you read this or comment, that is your own choice, and your own free will. but as long as you keep doing it, so will i.
You actually had plenty of respect. The ladies on here were trying to be helpful towards you until you started with your "You-can't-tell-me-what-to-do" attitude. That would annoy anyone. I have elementary students who act more mature than that.
the only time i had that kind of attitude was when women would tell me to go away. that would be rude to anyone. i came here and posted to this site because i thought it would have a fun conversation with some fun ladies, talking about the 2WW, and experiences, and stuff like that. and the first few were like that, and then people stared calling me annoying and telling me to go away. so yeah... my attitude changed, but so did everyone else's.
yeah, well obviously i didnt. and i had already apologized for posting in the wrong place. but that is still no reason for telling me to go away. get over the fact that i posted in the wrong place. who freaking cares.
This is getting boring. Arguing with you is literally like arguing with a child, but they eventually storm off. Why won't you do the same?? I hope you get what you came here for. If you realize what you did wrong, use that information in the future and participate with some discussions.
because im not a child. and im not gonna leave. so yeah, in the future i will do things differently, but for now, im not gonna let this go. so you might as well move on and get over it.
Re: 2 week wait!!
You were the one that was getting butt hurt about what people are saying.
i just dont see why you would say i was in the wrong place for posting something about trying to get pregnant in the "trying to get pregnant" board... that just seemed dumb to me.
and trying to help me by telling me to go to a different website?? not really helpful. i dont like the other websties, ive tried them already, i love the bump, and that is why i said im not gonna go anywhere. and how the heck am i supposed to introduce myself and get to know ya'll if you dont want me to post about myself... doesnt really make sense to me...
baby dust to all!!
baby dust to all!!
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
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baby dust to all!!
She doesn't like blogs. She just wants to share her feelings and be supported...
Baby dust
baby dust to all!!
Well you're alone in that on this board. You're really sick if you enjoy throwing a picture of ground up babies in our faces with every post. Lovely human being you are.
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
TTCAL BLOG
All ALers welcome!
And you're just putting baby dust at the end of everything to be annoying.
Omg @Kbougan: I will break it down for you: you are trying to be a member of TTGP, right? Meaning, you want to share and get to know people right? Friendship 101 teaches you generally do your best not to be annoying to the group you are trying to join.
You are succeeding at annoying the very place you say you want to make friends. Stop throwing a tantrum long enough to understand people are trying to help you. If you just want to blow off steam then do so in a blog, but if you really want to build a network of people to commiserate about TTC with then this is not the way to do it.
No one is out to get you or bring you down. They are trying to tell you how the board works. You don't get to waltz into a group that has its own dynamics and tell them what to do. You just don't. It's rude.
Calm down and realize that you don't get to do whatever you want with no repercussions.
PS- no one is remotely jealous or bitter. That is really lame to say that.
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
*STANDING OVATION*
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
TTCAL BLOG
All ALers welcome!
I literally laughed out loud on this one!! hahahaha. :P look, i already said i was sorry for getting bent in the first place. and that i posted in the wrong place. im not however, sorry for putting baby dust at the end of everytihing. its not like im trying to say here are some ground up babies, i think of it as magical special wishing dust that will promote babies!! wow...
this is what i think of when i say baby dust.
baby dust to all!!
You're so extremely offensive, you just have no idea. I've actually experienced a loss, if you actually bothered to pay attention to anyone else's siggys that are there for reasons other than to annoy others you'd know this, and the thought of ground up baby which you laugh at and so glibly throw around as 'baby dust' is physically nauseating to me. I'm so effing done with you it's not even funny.
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
TTCAL BLOG
All ALers welcome!
baby dust to all!!
baby dust to all!!
https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2006/10/and-nothing-shall-offend-them?lang=eng
baby dust to all!!
2.) No one needs clarification as to what you think baby dust is. The fact that you kept going with that reflects your inability to interact with others and observe social cues. No one cares. Stop trying to explain it.
3.) If you don't understand how you are being offensive, and aggravating the very people you claim you want to be your friends then there is no hope for you.
I really think you've worn out your welcome here. It would not be wise to continue posting here.
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
So according to you, it's ok to say disgusting and cruel things and abdicate all responsibility by saying it's the other person's fault they're offended? So no one needs to edit what they say in case they might hurt someone? I could say anything I want about you but it's your fault if you get offended? Good to know. See, the difference between you and the rest of us is we actually care if we hurt someone. You are just enjoying the attention you're getting, and revelling in the pain you're causing others. That's just wrong on so many levels. Generally in life, if everyone around me is saying something I'm doing is hurtful, I stop. But not you. Aren't you a peach!
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
TTCAL BLOG
All ALers welcome!
this is why i dont get offended at stupid little things. im sorry for offending all of you. but you cant blame me and tell me to go away. i am a member here because i love it here, normally. i didnt think that it was gonna be like this. just take a deep breath and relax. this time is supposed to be fun and exciting!! i shouldnt have to change something that i like, but you guys just wont move past it...
https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2006/10/and-nothing-shall-offend-them?lang=eng