I have a condition called vaginismus. Bascially, I'm scared of penetration, and my vagina clenches itself shut whenever someone tries to get in there. It took a lot of time and trust-building with my husband before I was even able to be intimate at all. Obviously, I have worked through it somewhat or I wouldn't be pregnant!
However, I have been to the OB/GYN three times before becoming pregnant (including the time I was diagnosed with this condition), and they were never able to get anything done with me. A Q-tip alone made me whimper in pain because I was so tight and so scared.
I was reading about what to expect from a prenatal appointment here on the Bump, and it said they'll probably want to get a sample of cervical cells. I don't know if I can do this! I'm terrified! Is this sample necessary?
I've been told that vaginismus doesn't affect childbirth because the baby is going out, not in, but I am prepared to accept the fact that I might need a C-Section (nothing wrong with this, just not what I'd prefer). I absolutely want what's best for my baby, but I am so, so scared to go to the doctor
Re: Possibly TMI: I have vaginismus, I'm terrified of my prenatal appointment
Just sharing my experience. Also all of my ultrasounds were abdominal, even at 9 weeks
There is also the early transvaginal ultrasound if you want it, but you can refuse if this seems like too much. You just have to wait until an abdominal one becomes available/clear.
Cervical checks happen during active labor (to see if you are ready to push). However you can decline them before then.
Good luck!
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@PrimRoseMama .. I like this idea if its possible of your husband helping some at the OB appt since you do have that level of trust with him. I don't know to what extent he would be able to assist, but every little bit should help.
Therapy also sounds like a good option at this point.
Wishing you the best of luck!