Minor Update & Good-bye (sadness warning)

Re: Minor Update & Good-bye (sadness warning)

• jy725 member

  July 2013

  Vanessa, I am beyond touched reading this post from you with tears in my eyes. I'm so sorry. I can't find the words.

              

  

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• BootsOrHearts member

  July 2013

  I'm so sorry VC. I have been where you are and I can tell you - there's no easy way to get through a late loss like this. Spending time with your husband alone will help and yes, drink as much wine as you feel you need, it goes well with that questionable cheese! Take care of yourself and let your family and friends help you.
  
  I'm sure your baby will understand whatever decision you make. Your baby knows that you love him and are doing what's best.
  
  You've been such an amazing part of this board, we'll all miss you so much.
  
  After my loss, I spent a lot of time on the Loss board and those ladies are amazing, when you're ready, check them out.
  
  ((VC and baby boy))
  

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• okate0213 member

  July 2013

  Very sorry to hear of our news, I hope you are able to move foreword and it sounds like you have some great plans ahead. Take care, you will be missed. We would love to hear updates and I hope you can one day check in with December '13 to say hi.

  

                             

      DS1 9.24.2010      DS2 4.18.2012        DS3 12.15.2013

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• Mac2588 member

  July 2013

  There are no words for the heart break and sadness that you and your family are going through. Wishing you strength in the coming days.

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• andawaywego1000 member

  July 2013

  I am so sorry you are facing this heartbreak.  I wish the pain would just disappear as quickly as it seems to be happening. 
  
  Again, I wish you love and peace and comfort as you continue along this journey.
  
  
  

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• courtneydawn82 member

  July 2013

  I know I don't post on here a lot, but I lurk daily and I have to say, you have been such a great source of support, knowledge and laughs for all of us.  I'm heartbroken to hear that you and your H are going through this...it doesn't seem fair and I don't think any of us can understand what you are feeling.  Just know that we are all thinking of you guys and sending prayers for you, your H and your sweet baby as you search for answers and peace.  I'm so so sorry.  

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• TXmamatobe member

  July 2013

  I know there is nothing I can say to make this any better whatsoever but I really admire your bravery and honesty and wish you the best in the future.  You are such an intelligent, funny and caring person and I know you will get through this.  Enjoy all the fun things you have planned as much as possible and look forward to what the future holds.  You will be missed on December ’13!! 

  
  

  
  

  

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• MamaHanna member

  July 2013

  There are no words for what I feel for you and your family! I am seriously about to be sick I am so saddend and stuned. I will keep my prayers up that they are worng with the DW dignosis. Have as much fun as you can in Italy and drink a glass of wine for all of us here. You will be truely missed and never forgotten!

            

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• Mills0309 member

  July 2013

  I shared this awful news with my DH yesterday and he has been textig me all day wondering if you have updated. No words can ever express how sorry I am for you. You and your husband will be in our thoughts and prayers.

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• Stephanie2167 member

  July 2013

  I am so so sorry. ((((hugs)))))

  

  
  

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• thesportsgal member

  July 2013

  I am reading this, crying for you and your family and hoping for some sort peace in the future for you. Take care of yourself and know you will be missed.

  
  

  

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• KFED103 member

  July 2013

  I'm so sorry Vanessa. You and your angel LO will always be in our hearts.

  
  

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• bunnybean member

  July 2013

  I'm so incredibly sorry. Wishing you all the very best.

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• GTown08 member

  July 2013

  Oh VC, I am so sorry to hear this.  You will be missed around here, but know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.  And yes, take advantage of whatever little upside there is in all the bad - mainly, the ability to drink yourself silly again.  And like others have said, we're here for you, if you need anything. 
  

  

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• adawn1981 member

  July 2013

  Oh Vanessa, my heart is broken for you.  I have no words other than I hope you find peace.  I am truly sorry.

  

  
  

      

   

   

   

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• k1008 member

  July 2013

  I have no words to express the sadness I feel for you. I'm so sorry for your situation. I hope you and your husband are able to heal together and enjoy your trip to Italy. We will miss you here on Dec 13.

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• limeblue44 member

  July 2013

  VC, I am so sorry that you have to go through this. My heart aches for you, DH and your families. Please know that we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult week and over the next months. We will miss you. 

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• BebeMakesThree member

  July 2013

  So sorry to hear you are going through this. I hope the best for you and your future & that you find peace.

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• jax63081 member

  July 2013

  My heart is breaking for you right now.  I am more of a lurker than a poster but I know that you will be greatly missed on this board.  I wish you and your family luck in the future and they will be in my thoughts.
  

  
  
  

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• MelAnnDi member

  July 2013

  I'm so so sorry to hear this. I wish there was something that could be done to ease your and DHs pain.

  
  

  
  
  
  
  

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• lp0 member

  July 2013

  VC I am so deeply sorry you are going through this. There are no words I can offer to take away the pain but know that we all love you and will miss you terribly. I pray that in the time away alone with your DH you both find comfort in each others strength and love.

  
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• jax63081 member

  July 2013

  My heart is breaking for you right now.  I am more of a lurker but I know that you will be greatly missed around here.  You and your family will be in my thoughts and I wish you luck in the future.
  

  
  
  

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• sameoldash member

  July 2013

  i am so heartbroken for you, Vanessa. i have been and will continue to pray for you and your H and your sweet, little boy. ugh. i wish i could hug you right now. 

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• katebusse member

  July 2013

  I'm so very sorry that you and your husband have to endure this pain. I pray that you're able to begin the healing process once you're removed from real life for a while. God bless you in your travels, and may you be blessed with the family that you deserve.

   

   

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• katieh704 member

  July 2013

  I am so sorry you are going through this. It broke my heart reading that and I hope you guys will be able to heal together and find peace. Thoughts and prayers for you and your h

  

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• Tigger & pooh member

  July 2013

  I don't know if you will get through all these, but if you see this I truly and unfortunately understand the pain you are going through.  I literally screamed at God for doing this to our Ella and begged for a miracle.  If there is anything I can do to be of support or just someone to vent to please know I available to listen.  I will be thinking of you daily and praying for peace for your whole family. 

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• RanFan28 member

  July 2013

  My heart is breaking for you. I believe, very fully, in heaven and that your baby boy will be there. Take care of yourself, body, mind and spirit, and heal in your own time and in your own way. I'm so, so sorry.

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• mestills member

  July 2013

  Vanessa, we will miss you so much on this board.  I don't really know what to say but this is just awful, awful news.  Glad you are planning on taking a trip and I hope you enjoy your time.  You have been in my thoughts all day and will continue to be.  

  
  

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• Marchmellow2 member

  July 2013

  Oh my gosh! I'm so so sorry!

  
  

  

  
  

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• MelbaCat member

  July 2013

  I am so so so sorry! so many thoughts and prayers for you and your DH. 

  

  

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• katebusse member

  July 2013

  I'm so very sorry to hear about the unfair and unimaginable pain that you and your husband are enduring. I hope that through your travels abroad you'll be able to begin the healing process. God bless you in your travels, and may many blessings follow you on your road to beginning the family that you deserve.

   

   

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• JackieN524 member

  July 2013

  My heart is truly breaking for you and your family. You will be greatly missed and not forgotten. I will continue to send positive thoughts and prayers your way.

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• brandidarling8 member

  July 2013

  There are no words to describe how sorry i am but i am praying for a miracle for you and your family sending warm thoughts and hugs

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• tealowl member

  July 2013

  VC, I am so sorry. I wish I could hug you in real life. I don't even have words. I am just so sorry.

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• readyornot12345 member

  July 2013

  I am so very sorry and beyond heart broken for you. Prayers and blessings for healing.

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• mightymousy member

  July 2013

  Oh V I'm crying on my phone as I type this. I'm so so sorry you're going through this. It's not fair that any of us have to go through a loss, let alone this many. I know there's nothing I can say that will make it any better, I know those emotions never truly go away, they only soften over time. I hope you have a wonderful time traveling and drink a lot of wine *HUGS* we're always here for you.

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• zou bisou member

  July 2013

  My prayers for strength and comfort go with you.  You and your little one will not be forgotten.
  

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• bty19 member

  July 2013

  There are no words.
  
  I wish you and your husband all the best and I hope that together you will find peace.

  
  
  
  
  

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• Bdoeshair06 member

  July 2013

  There are no words..no one should ever have to experience what you and your husband are going through. I am so so sorry. My thoughts are with you two as you try to heal.

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