Hi there! My husband and I our expecting our second little one Oct. 7 2013. I am high risk due to an Anti-thrombin III deficiency and have been on Lovenox since about 16 weeks. We have had a crazy past week to say the least. On Friday of last week my husband took my to the er with terrible period cramping. I was examined briefly, told I was not having contractions, and that the baby was doing great. They told me I had a bad UTI and the bladder spasms were causing my pain. Yesterday I had an appointment with MFM (my high risk OB) and they did a regular ultrasound then the tech decided to do a vaginal ultrasound bc my cramping still had not stopped. After this she left the room came back with the Doc and I was immediately admitted. My cervix is 12 MM long and they have given me 2 shots of steroids thus far on top of constant Magnesium (which was finally stopped tonight. I am so scarred bc I know that our baby girl needs to stay inside to fully grow and develop, and I don't really know how to feel. The doctor basically said that I can go into labor at anytime and there is nothing they can do to stop it bc giving me hormones would be to risky and putting a stitch in isn't even an option bc there really is nothing left. They want me on bed rest once they release me, but has anyone ever gone through this? How realistic is it for me to think I can go at least 2 more months? I don't want to feel like I am not doing my job as a mother to protect my unborn child and I feel like if she came this soon I would blame myself. If ANYONE has any experience with anything like this I would so appreciate some input... Thank you in advance.
Re: 27 weeks pregnant and cervix is only 12 mm long.
I have not gone through this but just wanted to send T&Ps your way. I'd post this on the high risk board for sure if you already haven't.
And you are doing your job as a mother by getting taken care of and by being concerned about it.
I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm also 27 weeks (almost 28) and at my last check my cervix is 10mm. I had a PTL scare at 23 weeks (cervix was 18 and funneling) and was in the hospital for a couple of days and then released to strict bed rest. I was on a medication to stop contractions (Indocin, which I only took for a few days) and I'm still on progesterone supps until 36 wks; which I'd suggest you inquire about to your MFM.
I honestly never thought I'd make it this far, but I believe strict bed rest and the meds have made a tremendous difference. What's also to my advantage is I'm not dilated and my cervix is still high.
I would suggest taking it VERY easy, strict bed rest if at all possible. I don't have a child to look after, but I can understand how it may be difficult for your family. It's too late for a cerclage so limit the time you're on your feet to take pressure off the cervix. Lie on your side (preferably left side), drink a good amount of water and have your husband help with the house work. Find out from your doctor how they plan on monitoring you.
Bed rest is difficult, but I believe it's for the best and it helps. I've read wonderful stories of ladies who've had similar experiences as you and I that went on to deliver term babies. So it is possible.
I would also suggest posting this on the High Risk board. There are some amazing ladies there and you'll find great support.
Good luck!
My mom had a similar experience with me and my brother in both of her pregnancies. Back in the 80's, when she was pregnant with me, she was RH negative and I was RH positive. SHe also had a shortened cervix and was placed on bed rest for months. Her body was literally trying to expell me since about 5 months. I was born at 34 weeks, totally healthy. This also happened with my brother less then a year later (we are 11 months apart). He was also born at 34 weeks and totally healthy. Just listen to your doctor, listen to your body and let your friends, family and bumpies pray for you and your little one.
Me (32) DH (33)
Surprise BFP 2-7-2013
I'm sorry I don't have any experience with this but I wanted to send you some thoughts and prayers!
Sounds like the best thing is going to be lost of bed rest.
Will be thinking about you and your LO.