The fact you think you are doing your kid any favors by not working and staying with this loser is nuts.
Not to mention, not working and having your own income in this situation might be the dumbest thing you could do. This loser could up and leave you at any minute hell, it already sounds like he has checked out.
You aren't even being responsible, just selfish.
Wow, that was completely uncalled for. If you're in a bad mood you don't need to take it out Candace. She's not being selfish, she's stuck between a rock and a hard place and trying to figure out what's best for her LO.
Married the love of my life 7/11/09 - Our first baby, Peyton Mark, was born sleeping 10/25/11 at 33 weeks - Our second baby, BFP 2/4/12, welcome to the world Raylan! Holy Moly, BPF 2/4/14, please be safe and sound little one!
The fact you think you are doing your kid any favors by not working and staying with this loser is nuts.
Not to mention, not working and having your own income in this situation might be the dumbest thing you could do. This loser could up and leave you at any minute hell, it already sounds like he has checked out.
The fact you think you are doing your kid any favors by not working and staying with this loser is nuts.
Not to mention, not working and having your own income in this situation might be the dumbest thing you could do. This loser could up and leave you at any minute hell, it already sounds like he has checked out.
You aren't even being responsible, just selfish.
Wow! Go you for being such a self righteous biotch to a perfect stranger! If you think for one second that I quit my job without having any of my own money saved and put away, you are nuts. If he decides to leave, more power to him, the house is in my name. Anything else oh mighty one?
I did not mean to make you feel bad, I just wanted to make sure you were aware of how that daycare bit might come across. As I said I know I am being a sensitive sally because I can't stay home like I want to and I do sometimes feel bad about that.
Candace,I did not mean to make you feel bad, I just wanted to make sure you were aware of how that daycare bit might come across. As I said I know I am being a sensitive sally because I can't stay home like I want to and I do sometimes feel bad about that.nbsp;
Oh hun its totally ok! I completely understand how it could have seemed that way! I have been a bit of a sensitive sally myself lately.
The fact you think you are doing your kid any favors by not working and staying with this loser is nuts.
Not to mention, not working and having your own income in this situation might be the dumbest thing you could do. This loser could up and leave you at any minute hell, it already sounds like he has checked out.
The fact you think you are doing your kid any favors by not working and staying with this loser is nuts.
Not to mention, not working and having your own income in this situation might be the dumbest thing you could do. This loser could up and leave you at any minute hell, it already sounds like he has checked out.
You aren't even being responsible, just selfish.
well, aren't you a peach.
Candace, my DH and I are currently in therapy because we are falling apart (I already left once). You need to do what YOU feel is best. I don't know much about your story with your DH, but I do know that it's much easier for people to tell you what to do when they are not in your shoes.
Hugs. I promise you, it gets better one way or another.
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Wow, that was completely uncalled for. If you're in a bad mood you don't need to take it out Candace. She's not being selfish, she's stuck between a rock and a hard place and trying to figure out what's best for her LO.
Married the love of my life 7/11/09 - Our first baby, Peyton Mark, was born sleeping 10/25/11 at 33 weeks - Our second baby, BFP 2/4/12, welcome to the world Raylan! Holy Moly, BPF 2/4/14, please be safe and sound little one!
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Wow! Go you for being such a self righteous biotch to a perfect stranger! If you think for one second that I quit my job without having any of my own money saved and put away, you are nuts. If he decides to leave, more power to him, the house is in my name. Anything else oh mighty one?
Candace,
I did not mean to make you feel bad, I just wanted to make sure you were aware of how that daycare bit might come across. As I said I know I am being a sensitive sally because I can't stay home like I want to and I do sometimes feel bad about that.
Oh hun its totally ok! I completely understand how it could have seemed that way! I have been a bit of a sensitive sally myself lately.
Wow. That was kind of rude...
well, aren't you a peach.
Candace, my DH and I are currently in therapy because we are falling apart (I already left once). You need to do what YOU feel is best. I don't know much about your story with your DH, but I do know that it's much easier for people to tell you what to do when they are not in your shoes.
Hugs. I promise you, it gets better one way or another.
Married my best friend 09.18.11
TTC since 12.10.11, BFP #1 02.10.12
Baby E born 10/18/12. 8.5lbs and 21in of pure perfection!
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