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Re: S/O Child Support

  • caden1206caden1206 member

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    I usually agree with Cole, but I don't here.  We are 50/50.  I pay 67% b/c I make more money
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    imagenattyncbride:
    I usually agree with Cole, but I don't here.  We are 50/50.  I pay 67% b/c I make more money
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  • Ginlyn0Ginlyn0 member

    Cole, I think you are crossing some major lines here with your comments. First making comments about BM's in general and then making comments about "accepts money she didn't earn to pay for her child."

    Seriously, it's obvious that you need some t

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  • fellesferiefellesferie member
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    The difference here is DH and I have the right to decide how we raise our child together, being a SAHM was a JOI

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    Cole, I think you are crossing some major lines here with your comments. First making comments about BM's in general

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    I am speaking to my 50-50 custody in my situation. If you and your ex decided together for you to be a SAHM then

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  • fellesferiefellesferie member

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     I really hope you don't think that I don't think SAHMs don't contribute, because I definitely know that is no
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    Sorry, my phone ate the rest of my response and then took time to fix.

    What I was going to say is that your DHowes you a big thank you. Also, if I was your BM I wouldnt put my daughter in a school closer to you either, bc it doesn't sound li
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  • caden1206caden1206 member


    So she is pretty much spending all her CS on her daughter, because beyond daycare expenses she still has private school expenses that apparently cost thousands of dollars. Again, it isn't her responsibility to provide care during your DH's
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  • cole2144cole2144 member
    Still not getting it. We pay for SD`S is not in daycare, she is a pre-k program that our child support pays for, damn what is so difficult to comprehend here. Afterschool care which is also to be paid from child support but because I take her rather than
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  • caden1206caden1206 member
    And if she wants to use her CS on her daughter's education she can. I am done talking about this with you. The moment you can't talk like an adult I am done. Good luck with your struggles. You have a very long road ahead of you.
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    And if she wants to use her CS on her daughter's education she can. I am done talking about this with you. The mo
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