Hi all,
I'm not sure if this is the best place to ask, but I'm giving it a shot. I have a 3 week old lo with my boyfriend, whom I started dating shortly before becoming pregnant. Ever since the baby our relationship has been very rocky. Arguments, no affection, etc. At times I wonder why we are together, and sometimes I honestly think we are both trying to stick it out because of the baby.
Was anyone else in my position when your lo was born? Did you stick it out or just leave? I know newborns suck the life out of you, but I just can't tell whether or not it is normal to feel like a relationship is over as a result of a baby.
Hope I am making sense. I'm a little sleep deprived seeing as I am the only one that gets up with the baby at night or cares for her during the day...ok end rant...
TIA
Re: To leave or to stay?
Don't be with him just because of the baby. LO eventually will understand, and it's not healthy for LO grow up in an environment seeing the parents argue all the time. Do what you will like to do to make you happy.
xx
*Do what you feel like to do to make you happy.
I am in a very similar situation. BF and I were dating 9 months when I found out I was pregnant. We were already living together for about 6 months. Complete shock.
For me, it isn't that things are terrible. They just... Aren't enough. I don't ge