If you look at pictures of sexy women does it mean your wife's body isn't good enough?
Do you fantasize about them?
If it really hurt your wife/partner would you have a problem stopping?
My husband goes on a car forum and I recently discovered there's a thread where all the guys post basically nude photos of women...it's hundreds of pages long and he's commented and liked a bunch of the posts. It hurts that I'm on miscarriage forums while he's on naked women forums. He always says he's so attracted to me, but in my eyes this proves otherwise.