I'm back, only pregnant for a week

rach10782 · February 2013

I got a BFP on Sunday (2/17) and started bleeding this last Sunday. Even though it was a very early loss I am very sad. When I got pregnant with my first I was so nervous about having a baby I don't think I ever really soaked up the excitement one should while being pregnant. The second I saw the second line this time the excitement immediately kicked in. I hate to sound so whiny but I am having a very hard time bucking up and moving on.

Edit - I know the second ticker is still in my siggy but I can't get it out

krdesi · February 2013

Sorry for your loss. Don't belittle what you're feeling...it is not a happy situation. I hope you get your next sticky baby soon! Feel better.

2Dash · February 2013

Early loss or not there are a lot of hopes, dreams and excitement that come with a pregnancy. Sorry for your loss and that you are feeling down.

jschwind22 · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss, but welcome back. TB siggy updating sucks and sometimes you have to save it a few (or many) times to get it to update.

lobosabby · February 2013

I'm very sorry. Just remember that what you're going through is normal and there is no "time table" for feeling better. I hope that you can find peace through all of this.

RustyGirl3 · February 2013

So very sorry for your loss.

You aren't being whiny...you are allowed to feel what you are feeling.

swirl25 · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. Even though I haven't been in your shoes, take as much time as you need to grieve. Don't ever feel like you have to justify that to anyone. Best of luck to you.

bornmommy · February 2013

Sorry for your loss. You don't sound whinny. Its okay not to "buck up" right away. Its important to mourn your loss. The feelings you are having are completely normal. ((hugs))

aessary03 · February 2013

I'm very sorry for your loss

artistlife · February 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Take some time for yourself.

insertclevername · February 2013

I am very sorry for your loss.

adunkin · February 2013

I'm sorry you have to rejoin us under these circumstances, but welcome back nonetheless!

iErica · February 2013

::hugs:: I am so sorry. Having a loss can be devastating, no matter when it happens. Don't play down sadness and feelings, it's normal to be upset and sad. I'm sorry you have to be back here.

rbtrumpet · February 2013

So sorry for your loss. T&Ps for you.

Enchanted616 · February 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. No need to "buck up and move on," take some time and be gentle with yourself. ::bug hugs::

kali55 · February 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. And you don't sound whiny, this is a terrible thing you are going through and you need time to grieve. (((hugs)))

wendy2613 · February 2013

So sorry for your loss. You are allowed to feel however you feel about this. Everyone handles these situations differently. I'm sure it's impossible not to feel sad. Hope you get your sticky baby soon and feel better!

TeamK07 · February 2013

I am so sorry. It doesn't matter if you know you are pregnant for an hour or months when you have a m/c it hurts no matter what. Take time to be sad, mad, and all the other emotions you are having. It is okay. As time goes by you will start thinking about it less, but you'll never forget.

abbief584 · February 2013

Sorry for your loss

madasm0530 · February 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. take care of yourself during this difficult time.

YellowBag · February 2013

I am so sorry for your loss.

jaytee16 · February 2013

I am so very sorry for you loss. ::hugs::

TrueBlue12 · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss.

lrosy13 · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss.

tbird_1211 · February 2013

Sorry for your loss. As a lot of the ladies have said, don't downplay your feelings. You are justified to be sad.

Welcome back and I hope your stay is short.

kamirault7 · February 2013

So sorry to hear of your loss and that you find yourself back here {hugs}

LeggyJeggy · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Emily 2714 · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss.

dland0201 · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss.

mabjcb19 · February 2013

So sorry for your loss. Take the time to grieve and vent girl. Hugs.

wearebirds · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. Don't dismiss your feelings because it was an early loss. The moment you see that positive you start thinking about the rest of that child's life. It's sad when it doesn't happen, and it hurts. Let yourself feel.

allygirl520 · February 2013

I had almost the exact situation. Got a positive on Sunday night.. but Tuesday I lost it. I know how you feel, and it's okay to feel that way. My doc told me to wait 2 cycles before trying again. I'm not sure I can wait that long. Here's hoping you get another positive soon!

runningpenguin · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

nyg2042 · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss.

AmyC925 · February 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss.

melissa721 · February 2013

I'm very sorry for your loss.

I'm on mobile and can't see your siggy but if the ticker is still there, I know that can be painful to see, so try this trick: edit your siggy using Firefox rather than IE or Safari. It usually works instantly.

GL to you whenever you wish to try again.

HenHen25 · February 2013

Im so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself - I still feel crappy about my losses and they were months ago. Its not something you can just move on from. If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to PM me.

curlylocks3 · February 2013

I am sorry for your loss. Do not worry about sounding whiny- a miscarriage is not something you just "buck up" and get over. Take time to grieve and take care of yourself.