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TTC After a Loss
SopranoMama
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FB... I should just stop
SopranoMama
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Seriously, I should just stop looking at facebook... it rarely doesn't give me some kind of a gut punch.
This morning was a little bad though. I got another BFN this morning, so I was already feeling a little down. Then another pg announcment. Seriously? And she's 2 weeks ahead of where I 'should have' been.
DH is off helping his parents with some physical labor this morning, and he wouldn't let me go "just in case... I don't want you lifting anything heavy" so I'm sitting at home... alone, feeling defeated. This sucks.
TTC#1 since May 2012
BFP#1 6/2/12 EDD 2/17/13 Natural M/C 6/19/12
BFP#2 10/30/12 EDD 7/12/13 CP 11/2/12
BFP#3 11/29/12 EDD 8/10/13 CP 12/2/12
BFP#4 12/26/12 EDD 9/7/13
1/18/13 HB 140! GROW BABY GROW!
Welcome to the world Little Girl! Born on her due date! September 8, 2013, 7lb 11.8oz, 19.5" long.
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Re: FB... I should just stop
Facebook is the worst. I took myself off over a month ago and it has been so freeing. I totally understand that gut punch feeling. There is life after facebook!
BFP#2 09/11/12 beta1=72 @13dpo beta2=160 @14dpo beta3=over 6000 @24dpo U/S @7w2dd hb=146bpm U/S @8w5d hb=159bpm U/S @12w hb=164bpm
EDD 05/20/13
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((hugs))
What horrible timing :-( Any way you can get to where your husband is and help out? Sometimes physical activity can help with distraction and makes you feel better in the long run.
I hate the reminders of what could have been - so hard. Hang in there and more ((hugs)).
Dx: balanced translocation and LPD
TTC since Oct 2011
BPF 02/19/12, EDD 10/31/12, natural m/c 02/28/12 (4w6d)
IVF (BCPs starting 10/30/12, ER 11/18/12, 5dt of 1 beautiful, healthy embryo 11/23/12)
BFP 12/02/12, u/s @ 6w,5d showed 2 HBs! Identical twins!!
Bed rest from 21w-35w due to short cervix, hospital bed rest from 23w-32w due to PTL
Our rainbows were born 07/19/13 (36w, 5d)
Also, because this just gets my goat. Here's a paraphrase from my newsfeed today:
"During a lesson today, one of my students asked me if I was sure I was pregnant. I told her I was, and she said, 'You're the skinniest pregnant lady I've ever met.'"
Well isn't that just fracking spectacular. You're skinny AND pregnant. Must be great to be you. Meanwhile, I had a kid touch my empty belly fat and ask if I was pregnant.
Sometimes it just feels like the universe is playing cruel tricks on us. Or at least sticking out its foot and tripping us once in a while.
Sorry you're feeling down about FB. I know how you feel. Must...close...window....
TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
So lost.
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Surprise BFP 5/15/12, EDD 1/29/13, mm/c @ 8wks, discovered at 11wks, D&C 7/11/12
AF finally arrived on Christmas after 167 days of waiting.
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BFP #1 6/14/12 EDD 2/23/13, mm/c at 8w2d, D&C 8/1/12
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Yeah, facebook sucks. I thought I was the only one who felt this way!! I am certain that there were just as many announcements before my loss, but it seems like now a switch has been flipped in my head and I just can't not notice them. I only go on about once every two weeks and the only reason why is because I don't want people to start asking why I am never on facebook anymore.
Don't worry, our time will come. Until then, just lay low or go in and turn your feed to only be your very closest friends and family . (((Hugs)))
4 rounds of clomid, 2 with IUI = BFN
Ugh! I'm so, SO sorry. I totally get how you're feeling...I just recently deactivated my FB for that exact reason. Too many BFP and birth announcements. With my first EDD coming up soon and my most recent loss still very fresh, I'm just way too fragile to handle any of that. It's okay to shut er down or take a break. In fact, it's helped greatly!
(((HUGS))) to you!
M/C 7/8/12
Perfect baby boy born 7/8/13
BFP 8/20/14 EDD 4/27/15 It's a GIRL!!
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#1 BFP 7/29/12 EDD 4/12/13 MC 9/5/12
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Ugh! This drives me insane too!
Sorry you've had a rough morning. HUGS
BFP #2: 6/29/12, EDD: 3/8/13, Natural M/C: 7/16/12 @ 6 weeks 2 days
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BFP #4: 9/3/14, EDD: 5/16/15, Missed M/C: 10/6/14 @ 8 weeks 2 days, D&C: 10/8/14
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