UO-McJudgin' day

pennysuedog · January 2013

I judge people who don't shovel and clear off their driveways. Lazy!

colliebabe · January 2013

pennysuedog:
I judge people who don't shovel and clear off their driveways. Lazy!

Add to this people who don't properly clean off their car and then drive with a ton of snow all over it still. It's probably not unpopular, but who are these people that do that?

Nita2603 · January 2013

I judge people who cannot be quiet. Silence is a good thing. There is no need for humming, whistling or pointless chatter. Also, spending every waking moment pursuing loud chores and activities, doesn't make your neighbors love you.

Nita2603 · January 2013

I also judge SiL and her mother. My ILs had to stay home cause FiL got sick. They gave their hockey tickets to BIL. Well, his wife and her mother went. They both didnt feel like watching the baby. WTF!?

mrsgabus · January 2013

I judge myself for judging the people who judge me!

on a serious note, I judge people who cant walk less than a mile to a store instead they get in there car and drive. (busy day, on the way to work,crap weather are not included)

RoxRing · January 2013

I judge people that complain to others all of the time. Especially about the weather. Would that make this comment contradictory...I'm complaining about complainers?

RoxRing · January 2013

pennysuedog:
I judge people who don't shovel and clear off their driveways. Lazy!

This would be my DH then. He's convinced me that we don't need it to be cleared off because we both have 4WD.

LatteLady5 · January 2013

mrsgabus:
I judge myself for judging the people who judge me!
on a serious note, I judge people who cant walk less than a mile to a store instead they get in there car and drive. (busy day, on the way to work,crap weather are not included)

I never walk to the store. I'm not carrying all those bags home! No way.

Mrs. Mo · January 2013

I judge people that drive on the @sses of other cars during bad weather.

I was driving home in a snowstorm last week and a car just would not get off my @ss. I know if I had to stop short for any reason that they would definitely have slammed into me. Had I been driving DH's car & not had DD in the car, I may have been tempted to do so ! (DH really wants/needs a new car)

missyishere · January 2013

I will try to not make this tl;dr

I judge my ex SD. My mother and him married when I was a toddler, and they divorced when I was 17. He played a pretty major roll in my life, and I called him dad for many of those years.

I have a number of issues with the way he parented, and him and my mother had a very nasty divorce. I of course stood by my mother in the whole situation, but they both had major blame for immature behavior through the whole thing.

Since having Nora, I have texted him a couple of times. I invited him to Nora's first birthday, along with his immediate family. They were there through my life, and they are still blood relatives to my brother and sister. I never heard from him for Nora's party, not a huge deal. I then texted him asking him if he would like to meet her. No response. I then texted him him not too long ago letting him know, despite our distance recently, I would like him to meet my child. He has never acknowleged my communication. His niece lives only 2 blocks away, and I know he's visited her and her child. It makes me feel kind of shiity he doesn't want to meet my sweet Nora.

RoxRing · January 2013

I also judge people who when they are moody make sure everyone know they are in a mood by the way they interact with people in the office. No, I'm not going to ask you why you're acting Sh!tty. I don't care enough.

Fianschneid · January 2013

missyleaferg:
I will try to not make this tl;dr
I judge my ex SD. My mother and him married when I was a toddler, and they divorced when I was 17. He played a pretty major roll in my life, and I called him dad for many of those years.
I have a number of issues with the way he parented, and him and my mother had a very nasty divorce. I of course stood by my mother in the whole situation, but they both had major blame for immature behavior through the whole thing.
Since having Nora, I have texted him a couple of times. I invited him to Nora's first birthday, along with his immediate family. They were there through my life, and they are still blood relatives to my brother and sister. I never heard from him for Nora's party, not a huge deal. I then texted him asking him if he would like to meet her. No response. I then texted him him not too long ago letting him know, despite our distance recently, I would like him to meet my child. He has never acknowleged my communication. His niece lives only 2 blocks away, and I know he's visited her and her child. It makes me feel kind of shiity he doesn't want to meet my sweet Nora.

I'm sorry to hear he isn't responding. That can be really hurtful. I know you are learning how not to step-parent from him.

mrsgabus · January 2013

LatteLady5:
mrsgabus:
I judge myself for judging the people who judge me! 
on a serious note, I judge people who cant walk less than a mile to a store instead they get in there car and drive.  (busy day, on the way to work,crap weather are not included) 
I never walk to the store. I'm not carrying all those bags home! No way. 

Lol im not talking about grocery shopping. Im talking about a coffee from sheetz across the street or the outlet mall down the street.

BeesMomma00 · January 2013

My Brother's *** of a live-in girlfriend went on a Facebook rant recently about people wearing Pajamas outside the house. I agree that it's not the right thing to do at say... Target. But then she went off on a woman who was at a hospital neurology appointment with her child.

I tried explaining to her that we shouldn't judge THAT woman since we really have no idea what the circumstances were that got her there. Perhaps there was an emergency with her daughter that caused her to leave the house in what she had on? I don't know. Can we judge people in PJs taking their kids to school, sure. Can we judge people in a hospital with their child for being in PJs. No.

Ironic how my Judgement post is about how we should always jump to judge people.

Chunstad · January 2013

missyleaferg:
I will try to not make this tl;dr
I judge my ex SD. My mother and him married when I was a toddler, and they divorced when I was 17. He played a pretty major roll in my life, and I called him dad for many of those years.
I have a number of issues with the way he parented, and him and my mother had a very nasty divorce. I of course stood by my mother in the whole situation, but they both had major blame for immature behavior through the whole thing.
Since having Nora, I have texted him a couple of times. I invited him to Nora's first birthday, along with his immediate family. They were there through my life, and they are still blood relatives to my brother and sister. I never heard from him for Nora's party, not a huge deal. I then texted him asking him if he would like to meet her. No response. I then texted him him not too long ago letting him know, despite our distance recently, I would like him to meet my child. He has never acknowleged my communication. His niece lives only 2 blocks away, and I know he's visited her and her child. It makes me feel kind of shiity he doesn't want to meet my sweet Nora.

I'm so sorry. When I was reading this, though, it made me think. Are you sure that he texts? My Dad doesn't have texting on his phone, neither do DH's parents.

missyishere · January 2013

Chunstad:
missyleaferg:
I will try to not make this tl;dr
I judge my ex SD. My mother and him married when I was a toddler, and they divorced when I was 17. He played a pretty major roll in my life, and I called him dad for many of those years.
I have a number of issues with the way he parented, and him and my mother had a very nasty divorce. I of course stood by my mother in the whole situation, but they both had major blame for immature behavior through the whole thing.
Since having Nora, I have texted him a couple of times. I invited him to Nora's first birthday, along with his immediate family. They were there through my life, and they are still blood relatives to my brother and sister. I never heard from him for Nora's party, not a huge deal. I then texted him asking him if he would like to meet her. No response. I then texted him him not too long ago letting him know, despite our distance recently, I would like him to meet my child. He has never acknowleged my communication. His niece lives only 2 blocks away, and I know he's visited her and her child. It makes me feel kind of shiity he doesn't want to meet my sweet Nora.
I'm so sorry. When I was reading this, though, it made me think. Are you sure that he texts? My Dad doesn't have texting on his phone, neither do DH's parents.

He does. We've only communicated in the past few years via text besides me wedding. He's had the same number for the last 10 years, so I know I have the correct number too.

mrsgabus · January 2013

missyleaferg:
Chunstad:
missyleaferg:
I will try to not make this tl;dr
I judge my ex SD. My mother and him married when I was a toddler, and they divorced when I was 17. He played a pretty major roll in my life, and I called him dad for many of those years.
I have a number of issues with the way he parented, and him and my mother had a very nasty divorce. I of course stood by my mother in the whole situation, but they both had major blame for immature behavior through the whole thing.
Since having Nora, I have texted him a couple of times. I invited him to Nora's first birthday, along with his immediate family. They were there through my life, and they are still blood relatives to my brother and sister. I never heard from him for Nora's party, not a huge deal. I then texted him asking him if he would like to meet her. No response. I then texted him him not too long ago letting him know, despite our distance recently, I would like him to meet my child. He has never acknowleged my communication. His niece lives only 2 blocks away, and I know he's visited her and her child. It makes me feel kind of shiity he doesn't want to meet my sweet Nora.
I'm so sorry. When I was reading this, though, it made me think. Are you sure that he texts? My Dad doesn't have texting on his phone, neither do DH's parents.
He does. We've only communicated in the past few years via text besides me wedding. He's had the same number for the last 10 years, so I know I have the correct number too.

This may sound pushy but I say give it an all out effort. Call him and be blunt with him. Tell him that you feel he was always such a big part of you life and that you want him to be part of your childrens life as well.

If he is not willing to then its time to move on and remember the good past times as how it was.

Nita2603 · January 2013

Woodsie:
Nita2603:
I also judge SiL and her mother. My ILs had to stay home cause FiL got sick. They gave their hockey tickets to BIL. Well, his wife and her mother went. They both didnt feel like watching the baby. WTF!?

I don't think I am reading this right. SIL and her mom went to a hockey game.. What's wrong with that? I need time away from baby now and then too. In sure I'm missing something.

Generally, there is nothing wrong with that. But the tickets were giving to BIL by his parents. To go to the game. Because he works around the clock, loves hockey and because he needs a break. SiL has the kid with her grandma on Mo and Thur, with her SiL and brother Tue and Fr and her mother every Sat aft to Sun after lunch. She doesn't work. She doesn't exactly keep house and doesn't walk the dogs. BIL does that.
So, generally, I know it's fine for a mom to take a break every now and then. God knows i could use one. But she barely ever has her kid in her care. So a break from what?!

Plus, frankly, they were a gift for BIL. Who was not allowed to go. She doesn't even like hockey.

And also, personally, I would have thought that grandma would have sent them out on a date and stayed with the kiddo.

cantalopes24 · January 2013

Packerfan79:
Missy, why don't you call him vs texting? Sometimes if someone is emotional they do better responding to a call vs a text. Then maybe you can have a heart to heart about issues you have.

Yeah I mean he may be thinking that since you're texting him it's NBD to you.

blu-eyedwife · January 2013

mrsgabus:
Lol im not talking about grocery shopping. Im talking about a coffee from sheetz across the street or the outlet mall down the street.

SHEETZ! I haven't been to Sheetz since Jr. High!

I judged the hell out of a lady I saw on my run on Tuesday. She was in all her workout gear and would jog, then walk, then jog. She was ahead of me. As I ran past her, I saw why she was doing the jog/walk - it was so she could smoke her cigarette on the walk breaks. Seriously? You're out doing something good and healthy and you can't even go without a cigarette for the time it takes you to complete some exercise?

LatteLady5 · January 2013

mrsgabus:
LatteLady5:
mrsgabus:
I judge myself for judging the people who judge me!
on a serious note, I judge people who cant walk less than a mile to a store instead they get in there car and drive. (busy day, on the way to work,crap weather are not included)
I never walk to the store. I'm not carrying all those bags home! No way.
Lol im not talking about grocery shopping. Im talking about a coffee from sheetz across the street or the outlet mall down the street.

LOL Well I suppose living an hour from the nearest Starbucks prevents me from walking :P Unless I'm going out of town there's nothing cool to walk to around here. I walk a lot in the seasons other than winter with N and will be walking much more once we move and get our Aussie pup

LatteLady5 · January 2013

mrsgabus:
This may sound pushy but I say give it an all out effort. Call him and be blunt with him. Tell him that you feel he was always such a big part of you life and that you want him to be part of your childrens life as well.
If he is not willing to then its time to move on and remember the good past times as how it was.

Trimming the quote tree a bit.

I agree with this. Just make it perfectly clear to him that you would love to have him meet your daughter and be a part of your life and make him give you an answer. It will suck if he really doesn't want to meet Nora but at least you'll know what's up and can move on if needed. I am sorry you have to deal with this though. It amazes me how immature and insensitive so many adults can be.

LatteLady5 · January 2013

crystalbaby:
I have FFC because I'll probably forget it tomorrow. I was at the park with V and there were several people cussing. My first thought was, "Geez. There are kids around here. Watch your language." Then I thought that if I ever slipped up around V I could blame it on her overhearing that word at the park.

Okay piggy backing off of this.

I judge people who cuss in front of their kids consistently. I'm not talking about a slip up here and there. There are so many people around here who are always swearing in front of their children and then act all surprised and get pissed at their kids when they curse. Seriously?!? If you are always swearing in front of your kids expect to have kids that swear.

My parents swore like sailors in front of us and then got all holier than thou when my brothers started talking like hooligans. My dad's best friend had two boys who were both kicked out of school every.single.day for months for constant swearing. "I don't know why the bleep they don't bleeping get it!" he'd say. Ummm yeah sorry dude, this is your fault.

FWIW I don't swear so I don't have to worry about slipping up but I get that it happens and that's not what I'm talking (err judging) about. I'm not judging your confession Crystal. I would never want to offend you. After all, you know where I live Indifferent

Also, I judge ever single parent who smokes in the play area at our local park. It pisses me off and I don't think it should be allowed. There are plenty of benches and areas AWAY from where kids are playing to light up.

Shannon526 · January 2013

Cate1234:

My UO is that I have zero interest in the Superbowl and I think all the hype about the commercials is ridiculous. I try to avoid watching commercials whenever I can so it makes no sense to me to get excited about these commercials.

I'm still bitter about the Pats loss, so you can bet I will not be watching on Sunday. Although I do think it's pretty cool that the two head coaches are brothers. Not enough reason to watch the game though haha

LatteLady5 · January 2013

Packerfan79:
My UO is that commiting to doing AE posts aren't really my thing and I don't find most of them funny. I know a lot of people do, and that's cool, but its just one more username and password to remember.

I don't particularly care about the Superbowl. I don't even know what teams are playing Embarrassed We get together with the same friends every year to watch it though and it's always really fun. I'm looking forward to that!

jwls84 · January 2013

I judge people who treat people differently based on the age someone looks. I always get treated like a kid because I look young, it drives me crazy! I am going to be 30 next year, but because I look younger they assume I have less experience and knowledge! I was at a training yesterday and everyone was so rude, they kept saying things like "oh you wouldn't know the answer to this since you haven't been in the field long enough!" Or "this policy was changed before you were born, in 1996 might I add, so how would you know" they literally ignored my opinion because on the fact they thought I was young. And then they did out I have a kid and they side eye the crap out of me! Really!!! I was infuriated!

Fianschneid · January 2013

blu-eyedwife:
mrsgabus:
Lol im not talking about grocery shopping. Im talking about a coffee from sheetz across the street or the outlet mall down the street.
SHEETZ! I haven't been to Sheetz since Jr. High!
I judged the hell out of a lady I saw on my run on Tuesday. She was in all her workout gear and would jog, then walk, then jog. She was ahead of me. As I ran past her, I saw why she was doing the jog/walk - it was so she could smoke her cigarette on the walk breaks. Seriously? You're out doing something good and healthy and you can't even go without a cigarette for the time it takes you to complete some exercise?

I couldn't help but laugh. You're doing it wrong, lady.

Jazzym12 · January 2013

I judge people who post passive aggressive post on here. Just man up...

mrsgabus · January 2013

jwls84:
I judge people who treat people differently based on the age someone looks. I always get treated like a kid because I look young, it drives me crazy! I am going to be 30 next year, but because I look younger they assume I have less experience and knowledge! I was at a training yesterday and everyone was so rude, they kept saying things like "oh you wouldn't know the answer to this since you haven't been in the field long enough!" Or "this policy was changed before you were born, in 1996 might I add, so how would you know" they literally ignored my opinion because on the fact they thought I was young. And then they did out I have a kid and they side eye the crap out of me! Really!!! I was infuriated!

I know the feeling. Im still pretty young...26 in feb.. but i have had numorous calls from possible employers asking for my birth year. Most ask if my parents are ok with me working or if i am allowed to drive, what time my school gets out lol

I do think that i am aging but it seems not enough.

jwls84 · January 2013

mrsgabus:
jwls84:
I judge people who treat people differently based on the age someone looks. I always get treated like a kid because I look young, it drives me crazy! I am going to be 30 next year, but because I look younger they assume I have less experience and knowledge! I was at a training yesterday and everyone was so rude, they kept saying things like "oh you wouldn't know the answer to this since you haven't been in the field long enough!" Or "this policy was changed before you were born, in 1996 might I add, so how would you know" they literally ignored my opinion because on the fact they thought I was young. And then they did out I have a kid and they side eye the crap out of me! Really!!! I was infuriated!

I know the feeling. Im still pretty young...26 in feb.. but i have had numorous calls from possible employers asking for my birth year. Most ask if my parents are ok with me working or if i am allowed to drive, what time my school gets out lol

I do think that i am aging but it seems not enough.

I guess we should be flattered we look so awesomely young, but it gets old fast.
I can't believe they ask if your parents give you permission! What do you say?

mrsgabus · January 2013

jwls84:
mrsgabus:
jwls84:
I judge people who treat people differently based on the age someone looks. I always get treated like a kid because I look young, it drives me crazy! I am going to be 30 next year, but because I look younger they assume I have less experience and knowledge! I was at a training yesterday and everyone was so rude, they kept saying things like "oh you wouldn't know the answer to this since you haven't been in the field long enough!" Or "this policy was changed before you were born, in 1996 might I add, so how would you know" they literally ignored my opinion because on the fact they thought I was young. And then they did out I have a kid and they side eye the crap out of me! Really!!! I was infuriated!

I know the feeling. Im still pretty young...26 in feb.. but i have had numorous calls from possible employers asking for my birth year. Most ask if my parents are ok with me working or if i am allowed to drive, what time my school gets out lol

I do think that i am aging but it seems not enough.

I guess we should be flattered we look so awesomely young, but it gets old fast.
I can't believe they ask if your parents give you permission! What do you say?

Usually that my parents haven't had to give me permission in years. Most apoligize afterwards but it ruins the comfort zone.

Mrs. Mo · January 2013

jwls84:
I judge people who treat people differently based on the age someone looks. I always get treated like a kid because I look young, it drives me crazy! I am going to be 30 next year, but because I look younger they assume I have less experience and knowledge! I was at a training yesterday and everyone was so rude, they kept saying things like "oh you wouldn't know the answer to this since you haven't been in the field long enough!" Or "this policy was changed before you were born, in 1996 might I add, so how would you know" they literally ignored my opinion because on the fact they thought I was young. And then they did out I have a kid and they side eye the crap out of me! Really!!! I was infuriated!

I hear ya. When I was 24, I was mistaken to be the same age as my youngest brother....who was 8 years YOUNGER than me ! At work, I definitely get treated differently because I look so darn young.

cantalopes24 · January 2013

LatteLady5:
crystalbaby:
I have FFC because I'll probably forget it tomorrow. I was at the park with V and there were several people cussing. My first thought was, "Geez. There are kids around here. Watch your language." Then I thought that if I ever slipped up around V I could blame it on her overhearing that word at the park.
Okay piggy backing off of this.
I judge people who cuss in front of their kids consistently. I'm not talking about a slip up here and there. There are so many people around here who are always swearing in front of their children and then act all surprised and get pissed at their kids when they curse. Seriously?!? If you are always swearing in front of your kids expect to have kids that swear.
My parents swore like sailors in front of us and then got all holier than thou when my brothers started talking like hooligans. My dad's best friend had two boys who were both kicked out of school every.single.day for months for constant swearing. "I don't know why the bleep they don't bleeping get it!" he'd say. Ummm yeah sorry dude, this is your fault.
FWIW I don't swear so I don't have to worry about slipping up but I get that it happens and that's not what I'm talking (err judging) about. I'm not judging your confession Crystal. I would never want to offend you. After all, you know where I live
Also, I judge ever single parent who smokes in the play area at our local park. It pisses me off and I don't think it should be allowed. There are plenty of benches and areas AWAY from where kids are playing to light up.

Yeah I totally cuss in front of my kids. And I'm nowhere near as bad as the kids in the neighborhood so even if he didn't hear it from me he'd hear it all from them. E knows that cuss words are for adults and doesn't cuss. I have overheard him correcting some kids down the street for dropping the F bomb and making derogatory comments about a neighbor girl. None of these kids are over the age of 10 and not all of their parents curse.

Elsa1984 · January 2013

Fianschneid:
blu-eyedwife:
mrsgabus:
Lol im not talking about grocery shopping. Im talking about a coffee from sheetz across the street or the outlet mall down the street.
SHEETZ! I haven't been to Sheetz since Jr. High!
I judged the hell out of a lady I saw on my run on Tuesday. She was in all her workout gear and would jog, then walk, then jog. She was ahead of me. As I ran past her, I saw why she was doing the jog/walk - it was so she could smoke her cigarette on the walk breaks. Seriously? You're out doing something good and healthy and you can't even go without a cigarette for the time it takes you to complete some exercise?
I couldn't help but laugh. You're doing it wrong, lady.

at first I thought you were going to talk poo about the fact that she would run/walk and I thought "maybe she is doing C25K?" But as I read further....I had to LOL at this post!

Elsa1984 · January 2013

I judge everyone on Crafty board for not answering the Tyson's question for her birth picture display. Sheesh......that board is obviously full of stuck up cliques who only answer each others posts and not the posts of random peeps. They probably even have an off board group somewhere.

thetheisens · January 2013

Elsa1984:
I judge everyone on Crafty board for not answering the Tyson's question for her birth picture display. Sheesh......that board is obviously full of stuck up cliques who only answer each others posts and not the posts of random peeps. They probably even have an off board group somewhere.

It made me sad that they didn't even take the time to call me MUD. Maybe I should have used my furrylover AE ....

TuftedTitmouse · January 2013

crystalbaby:

We all know that you're talking about me since I'm the only one on the board that had an AE. So why don't you just say that you don't think I'm funny? Sucks you don't have a sense of humor.

I'm hurt! Crying

pennysuedog · January 2013

thetheisens:
Elsa1984:
I judge everyone on Crafty board for not answering the Tyson's question for her birth picture display. Sheesh......that board is obviously full of stuck up cliques who only answer each others posts and not the posts of random peeps. They probably even have an off board group somewhere.
It made me sad that they didn't even take the time to call me MUD. Maybe I should have used my furrylover AE ....

I answered it!

hunnybunny614 · January 2013

Elsa1984:
blu-eyedwife:
I judged the hell out of a lady I saw on my run on Tuesday. She was in all her workout gear and would jog, then walk, then jog. She was ahead of me. As I ran past her, I saw why she was doing the jog/walk - it was so she could smoke her cigarette on the walk breaks. Seriously? You're out doing something good and healthy and you can't even go without a cigarette for the time it takes you to complete some exercise?
at first I thought you were going to talk poo about the fact that she would run/walk and I thought "maybe she is doing C25K?" But as I read further....I had to LOL at this post!

Yeah I almost got offended Blu (because I am doing the jog/walk), but the fact that she was smoking makes the exercise counter intuitive.

My UO is we are in the beginnings of finding a new home, and I'm pissed about the number of forclosures in our area, most of them look awesome on the outside, but are complete dumps inside.

pennysuedog · January 2013

hunnybunny614:
Elsa1984:
blu-eyedwife:
I judged the hell out of a lady I saw on my run on Tuesday. She was in all her workout gear and would jog, then walk, then jog. She was ahead of me. As I ran past her, I saw why she was doing the jog/walk - it was so she could smoke her cigarette on the walk breaks. Seriously? You're out doing something good and healthy and you can't even go without a cigarette for the time it takes you to complete some exercise?
at first I thought you were going to talk poo about the fact that she would run/walk and I thought "maybe she is doing C25K?" But as I read further....I had to LOL at this post!
Yeah I almost got offended Blu (because I am doing the jog/walk), but the fact that she was smoking makes the exercise counter intuitive.
My UO is we are in the beginnings of finding a new home, and I'm pissed about the number of forclosures in our area, most of them look awesome on the outside, but are complete dumps inside.

When we house hunting we saw one that had mushrooms growing out of the carpet. I kid you not! Short sales are a mess dealing with paperwork, but they are usually in a lot better condition.

thetheisens · January 2013

pennysuedog:
thetheisens:
Elsa1984:
I judge everyone on Crafty board for not answering the Tyson's question for her birth picture display. Sheesh......that board is obviously full of stuck up cliques who only answer each others posts and not the posts of random peeps. They probably even have an off board group somewhere.
It made me sad that they didn't even take the time to call me MUD. Maybe I should have used my furrylover AE ....

I answered it!

I saw! Your suggestion was actually really good, except for the fact it would be displaying nudey birth pics.

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