Jeffsjayme

gisa886 · January 2013

For fuckiing real?

https://blog.thebump.com/2013/01/17/when-trying-to-conceive-feels-like-a-battle-you-just-cant-win/

TrudyCampbell · January 2013

Jeffsjayme, I'm sure you remember me from April 2012. Your blog post is absolutely infuriating. I am in shock that the bump would publish something so ridiculous. I just hope the amazing ladies on IF and TTTC never see it because you are so incredibly insensitive to those who are actually struggling with infertility.

I also find it disgusting that you say you need to watch movies on netflix, etc to distract yourself from your "infertility" struggles. You have a 9 month old infant! Go play with him! There are SO MANY deserving women who would give anything to have a baby and all you can focus on is having another one. And this has been going on since your son was 2 months old when you wanted to plan around a free vacation, I remember your posts.

You need a f**king wakeup call. I have a feeling this thread might give you one.

AshleyDG83 · January 2013

TrudyCampbell:
Jeffsjayme, I'm sure you remember me from April 2012. Your blog post is absolutely infuriating. I am in shock that the bump would publish something so ridiculous. I just hope the amazing ladies on IF and TTTC never see it because you are so incredibly insensitive to those who are actually struggling with infertility.
I also find it disgusting that you say you need to watch movies on netflix, etc to distract yourself from your "infertility" struggles. You have a 9 month old infant! Go play with him! There are SO MANY deserving women who would give anything to have a baby and all you can focus on is having another one. And this has been going on since your son was 2 months old when you wanted to plan around a free vacation, I remember your posts.
You need a f**king wakeup call. I have a feeling this thread might give you one.

Yes Well said, Trudy.

kkfeb04 · January 2013

Need a refresher:

https://media.community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/1/67058040/ShowThread.aspx

How the fluck can the bump allow YOU to blog for them. Comparing your "struggle" with IF. You are a POS!

jkfranklin · January 2013

Yes, your body is failing you! It produced a healthy baby less than a year ago! That is a big fat fail for sure. Cvntwaffle!

ETA: sensored!

Mamasaurus · January 2013

TrudyCampbell:
Jeffsjayme, I'm sure you remember me from April 2012. Your blog post is absolutely infuriating. I am in shock that the bump would publish something so ridiculous. I just hope the amazing ladies on IF and TTTC never see it because you are so incredibly insensitive to those who are actually struggling with infertility.
I also find it disgusting that you say you need to watch movies on netflix, etc to distract yourself from your "infertility" struggles. You have a 9 month old infant! Go play with him! There are SO MANY deserving women who would give anything to have a baby and all you can focus on is having another one. And this has been going on since your son was 2 months old when you wanted to plan around a free vacation, I remember your posts.
You need a f**king wakeup call. I have a feeling this thread might give you one.

Amen to that, Trudy.

JJ, I bet it hurts your neck to have your head so far up your @ss. Let the people with actual fertility problems do the woe-is-me blog posts, mmmkay?

eav2c · January 2013

You are a real class act, Jayme. While I don't think highly of TB these days I still cannot believe that they would publish anything that you have to say. You are one of the most selfish and entitled people that I have run across. You had a baby NINE MONTHS AGO, FFS. NINE FRIGGEN MONTHS AGO. You managed to get pregnant easily and have a healthy child too. Yet your body is failing you. Gah! You are so out of touch with reality that it is sickening. Why not enjoy what you've got? Why not just be happy in this moment? You are a POS. I can only hope that those struggling with IF don't read your warped thoughts.

TrudyCampbell · January 2013

gonzol:
kkfeb04:
Need a refresher:https://media.community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/1/67058040/ShowThread.aspxHow the fluck can the bump allow YOU to blog for them. Comparing your "struggle" with IF. You are a POS!nbsp;
Would you, or someone else, mind making this clicky?

https://media.community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/1/67058040/ShowThread.aspx

kkfeb04 · January 2013

Thanks Trudy!

nlscroggins · January 2013

oh. my. god. I'm speechless...

CMSullivan326 · January 2013

Wow. Just.....wow.

Emerald27 · January 2013

Wow. I can't believe she wrote that! I'm not ovulating yet post baby, and I certainly don't feel "betrayed". I see the natural suppression of my fertility by breastfeeding as a sign that either my body is not ready for another baby or DS is not ready for a sibling. When I ovulate again, we'll begin TTC.

Seriously, I am so sorry for anyone with true IF struggles who reads her whiney post.

Shortie24 · January 2013

Wow

jeffsjayme · January 2013

Where in the world did this come from?

I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again - see tickers. And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be - who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?

This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.

ETA: For the record, I didn't name the blog post - thebump did.

eav2c · January 2013

jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?
I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again - see tickers. And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be - who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?
This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.
ETA: For the record, I didn't name the blog post - thebump did.

Hmm... you must not have read what you wrote then.

TrudyCampbell · January 2013

jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?
I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again - see tickers. And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be - who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?
This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.

I'm mostly confused as to why you feel that your body is betraying you? It is completely normal for post partum cycles to be a little wonky for quite some time. I don't think a body that just birthed your child 9 months ago (and allowed you to get pregnant on your very first cycle of trying) is betraying you. I think that terminology is extremely offensive to those who really are having problems with their bodies.

Emerald27 · January 2013

jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again see tickers. nbsp;And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.nbsp;

No anger from me, just shock. You've read the posts from women who have been trying for a long time. Your blog post strikes me as insensitive.

The insensitivity doesn't come from any claim of yours to be "infertile", but your language about feeling betrayed by your body. Too strong and too soon, completely insensitive.

gisa886 · January 2013

Maybe it is the fact that you are comparing your body that of a person who has real struggles conceiving. Are you really so dense that you can't see that?

TrudyCampbell · January 2013

Emerald27:
jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again see tickers. nbsp;And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.nbsp;
No anger from me, just shock. You've read the posts from women who have been trying for a long time. Your blog post strikes me as insensitive. The insensitivity doesn't come from any claim of yours to be "infertile", but your language about feeling betrayed by your body. Too strong and too soon, completely insensitive.

Yes

CMSullivan326 · January 2013

jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again see tickers. And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.ETA: For the record, I didn't name the blog post thebump did.

The thing is, your post is so whiney and whoa.is.me that it's sickening. You just had a baby 9 months ago so you're not exactly the ideal person to write a blog post about how upsetting it is not to be pregnant....

That sh!t I just read was like a slap in the face to the women that really have been struggling and really do have trouble getting pregnant.

nlscroggins · January 2013

jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again see tickers. nbsp;And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.nbsp;ETA: For the record, I didn't name the blog post thebump did.nbsp;

my issue is that you are having to find things to do to get your mind off TTC when you HAVE A PERFECTLY PERFECT BABY to love and snuggle and be entertained by. it sounds like you're just forgetting about your child that you just had because you're so worried about having another already.

eta: I'm sorry for being shouty. bad day going on here and I am taken by all the insensitivity in that blog post.

Mamasaurus · January 2013

jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?
I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again - see tickers. And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be - who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?
This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.
ETA: For the record, I didn't name the blog post - thebump did.

It came from us reading all the p!ssing and moaning in that blog post. You may be complaining about "lack of fertility" rather than "infertility," but if I called you a whiny female dog instead of a whiny b*tch, you'd probably still be offended.

eav2c · January 2013

nlscroggins:
jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again see tickers. nbsp;And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.nbsp;ETA: For the record, I didn't name the blog post thebump did.nbsp;
my issue is that you are having to fun things to do to get your mind off TTC when you HAVE A PERFECTLY PERFECT BABY to love and snuggle and be entertained by. it sounds like you're just forgetting about your child that you just had because you're so worried about having another already.

Exactly.

Jayme, open your eyes.

starbound6 · January 2013

jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?
I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again - see tickers. And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be - who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?
This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.
ETA: For the record, I didn't name the blog post - thebump did.

But still, needing to fill your time watching movies to take your mind off it? FFS. The whole thing reeks of such self-absorbtion and misplaced priorities that it's riling everyone up. What's so hard to understand about that?

And as someone who had real infertility issues and lots of money spent conceiving my kids it's highly offensive.

Mamasaurus · January 2013

jeffsjayme:
ETA: For the record, I didn't name the blog post - thebump did.

Blame it on the bump. Or the rain. Whatever.

biblionerd · January 2013

Pffft, Jayme be sensitive to anyone else's feelings but her own?!?! Yeah...

jacka02 · January 2013

It's just incredibly insensitive to people who are going through IF complications. You are blessed with a nine month old. Think about that.

kkfeb04 · January 2013

jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?
I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again - see tickers. And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be - who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?
This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger.
ETA: For the record, I didn't name the blog post - thebump did.

Because you are a twatwaffle that has compared yourself to IF. Shall I bring those other April 2012 posts up? I shall:

08-05-2012 at 9:03 PM

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I just wish you hadn't posted at all, considering the controversy on abortion that we had a couple of weeks ago and that there are women who would love to be pregnant, but aren't. To read a post about someone who might pregnant, but will look into termination as a possiblity is kind of like salt in an open wound. I just wish nothing had been said. None of us would've ever known.

08-05-2012 at 9:12 PM

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Come on guys - I didn't say she was wrong for getting an abortion. I just said it would have been more sensitive to not say anything.

I left your spelling mistakes because I find it funny that YOU blog for the bump.

I can continue if you like.

kkfeb04 · January 2013

Let me continue from this very board on this post:

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/71326967.aspx

01-17-2013 at 8:15 AM

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If I got pregnant now, I'd be in in October. Better start sexing it up.

We put it off for our first year of marriage (kind of regret that), then started right after that.

Stay out of the baby shops and prepping the house - you never know how long it will take and that could bring you more sadness, then joy.

Can't go into baby shops? What about your poor baby? What happens if he needs things? Did you just want a girl instead of a boy and that's why you wanted to by pregnant by 9 weeks pp? I seriously hope for your son's sake that you realize to enjoy him while he's little.

MikeHoncho · January 2013

Mamasaurus:
jeffsjayme:
Where in the world did this come from?
I've been very clear that I have a 9 month old and that I'm trying to get pregnant again - see tickers.  And I never called my self infertile, just that I wasn't pregnant when I wanted to be - who can't relate to that when you've been trying for a few months?
This really has nothing to do with you guys at all and I'm not sure why all the anger. 
ETA: For the record, I didn't name the blog post - thebump did. 
 
It came from us reading all the p!ssing and moaning in that blog post. You may be complaining about "lack of fertility" rather than "infertility," but if I called you a whiny female dog instead of a whiny b*tch, you'd probably still be offended.

Slow claps for mama. Love you b!tch

erniebufflo · January 2013

Everyone is riled up from your original BMB because we remember how wildly insensitive and irrational you were acting about TTC when our babies were what, only 3 months old? And then, when a poster who had already had a risky pregnancy had a scare that was literally life-threatening and came looking for support because she might have to terminate to not leave her two kids (that she tried very hard to conceive) motherless, you acted like it was somehow a personal slight to even discuss it because you so desperately wanted to be pregnant and are apparently a deeply self-absorbed person. And now, to see this site giving you a platform where you act like a martyr because your body isn't ready to carry another baby after the one you CONCEIVED ON THE FIRST CYCLE, well, it's offensive.

obviously it's always a little painful when you can't have what you want on the first try. But you are like the Veruca Salt of pregnancy, except if she already HAD a golden goose and was whining about wanting another. I fear that one day, the kid you already have will read your words and wonder why, instead of enjoying his first year, you were already hurrying along to the next kid. Please keep him in mind.

MrsM507 · January 2013

erniebufflo:
Everyone is riled up from your original BMB because we remember how wildly insensitive and irrational you were acting about TTC when our babies were what, only 3 months old? And then, when a poster who had already had a risky pregnancy had a scare that was literally life-threatening and came looking for support because she might have to terminate to not leave her two kids (that she tried very hard to conceive) motherless, you acted like it was somehow a personal slight to even discuss it because you so desperately wanted to be pregnant and are apparently a deeply self-absorbed person. And now, to see this site giving you a platform where you act like a martyr because your body isn't ready to carry another baby after the one you CONCEIVED ON THE FIRST CYCLE, well, it's offensive.
obviously it's always a little painful when you can't have what you want on the first try. But you are like the Veruca Salt of pregnancy, except if she already HAD a golden goose and was whining about wanting another. I fear that one day, the kid you already have will read your words and wonder why, instead of enjoying his first year, you were already hurrying along to the next kid. Please keep him in mind.

This fills in some spaces for me. Wow.

AshleyDG83 · January 2013

erniebufflo:
Everyone is riled up from your original BMB because we remember how wildly insensitive and irrational you were acting about TTC when our babies were what, only 3 months old? And then, when a poster who had already had a risky pregnancy had a scare that was literally life-threatening and came looking for support because she might have to terminate to not leave her two kids (that she tried very hard to conceive) motherless, you acted like it was somehow a personal slight to even discuss it because you so desperately wanted to be pregnant and are apparently a deeply self-absorbed person. And now, to see this site giving you a platform where you act like a martyr because your body isn't ready to carry another baby after the one you CONCEIVED ON THE FIRST CYCLE, well, it's offensive.
obviously it's always a little painful when you can't have what you want on the first try. But you are like the Veruca Salt of pregnancy, except if she already HAD a golden goose and was whining about wanting another. I fear that one day, the kid you already have will read your words and wonder why, instead of enjoying his first year, you were already hurrying along to the next kid. Please keep him in mind.

Perfectly said, Ernie.

gisa886 · January 2013

erniebufflo:
obviously it's always a little painful when you can't have what you want on the first try. But you are like the Veruca Salt of pregnancy, except if she already HAD a golden goose and was whining about wanting another. I fear that one day, the kid you already have will read your words and wonder why, instead of enjoying his first year, you were already hurrying along to the next kid. Please keep him in mind.

Yes Enjoy them while they are little because it only happens once. By moping about wishing to be pregnant you are just wishing away the time that your baby is a baby. Get it together woman.

CMSullivan326 · January 2013

MrsM507:
erniebufflo:
Everyone is riled up from your original BMB because we remember how wildly insensitive and irrational you were acting about TTC when our babies were hiwhat, only 3 months old? And then, when a poster who had already had a risky pregnancy had a scare that was literally life-threatening and came looking for support because she might have to terminate to not leave her two kids (that she tried very hard to conceive) motherless, you acted like it was somehow a personal slight to even discuss it because you so desperately wanted to be pregnant and are apparently a deeply self-absorbed person. And now, to see this site giving you a platform where you act like a martyr because your body isn't ready to carry another baby after the one you CONCEIVED ON THE FIRST CYCLE, well, it's offensive.
obviously it's always a little painful when you can't have what you want on the first try. But you are like the Veruca Salt of pregnancy, except if she already HAD a golden goose and was whining about wanting another. I fear that one day, the kid you already have will read your words and wonder why, instead of enjoying his first year, you were already hurrying along to the next kid. Please keep him in mind. 

This fills in some spaces for me. Wow.

Yep. Totally backs up my opinion of her, a self.righteous twatnugget.

glowpoint · January 2013

erniebufflo:
Everyone is riled up from your original BMB because we remember how wildly insensitive and irrational you were acting about TTC when our babies were what, only 3 months old? And then, when a poster who had already had a risky pregnancy had a scare that was literally life-threatening and came looking for support because she might have to terminate to not leave her two kids (that she tried very hard to conceive) motherless, you acted like it was somehow a personal slight to even discuss it because you so desperately wanted to be pregnant and are apparently a deeply self-absorbed person. And now, to see this site giving you a platform where you act like a martyr because your body isn't ready to carry another baby after the one you CONCEIVED ON THE FIRST CYCLE, well, it's offensive.
obviously it's always a little painful when you can't have what you want on the first try. But you are like the Veruca Salt of pregnancy, except if she already HAD a golden goose and was whining about wanting another. I fear that one day, the kid you already have will read your words and wonder why, instead of enjoying his first year, you were already hurrying along to the next kid. Please keep him in mind.

So well said!

jesselayne8 · January 2013

Am I the only one who noticed she is taking clomid?? Who the f*ck gave you that? I responsible doctor I am sure.

MrsM507 · January 2013

tigger99:
Wow just wow. I just... Wow. Can't wait to see what she will have to say if it takes much longer.
I feel like MY body is betraying me after 20 months and IF and MFI issues. Talk to me when you get there okay?

No kidding. I feel guilty when I get down about 18 months/13 cycles... because I know there are so many people who are going through the same and much worse. It's all about perspective - if all you see if yourself, it's impossible to comprehend that there are, in fact, people who are actually struggling. It's sad.

TrudyCampbell · January 2013

Sorry- still upset about this.

You say in your post "It?s like my body has forgotten what it?s like to ovulate at a regularly expected time."

As someone with PCOS, my body has literally NEVER ovulated at a regularly expected time and probably never will. Having trouble getting pregnant with #2 is a very real and likely scenario for me because I needed medical intervention to conceive my first.

Lady, you need to count your blessings. It is such a gift that you conceived your son (who is still an INFANT) on your first cycle. You have no idea what it's like to be stressed out about not being pregnant yet. Be thankful for that and STFU about your current "struggles". I hope there is as apology blog post to follow up this one. I've already contacted The Bump to let them know how your article is being received.

And hopefully this thread has provided some of the distraction that you seek.

TrudyCampbell · January 2013

jesselayne8:
Am I the only one who noticed she is taking clomid?? Who the f*ck gave you that? I responsible doctor I am sure.

Umm WOW. That is scary. Jeffsjayme, clomid is a serious drug and should not be given out like candy which is how so many doctors give it. Please take it very seriously. There is a lifetime limit to how many cycles you can take a drug like that and I cannot believe you have managed to get a prescription.

sueann911 · January 2013

krptcmschfmkr128:
jesselayne8:
Am I the only one who noticed she is taking clomid?? Who the f*ck gave you that? I responsible doctor I am sure.
 
 

What? Where are you seeing this? I side eyed her shiit up until now but is she seriously taking Clomid?

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