October 2012 Moms

NBR: Does your spouse/SO know your salary?

NBR: Does your spouse/SO know your salary? just wondering
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Re: NBR: Does your spouse/SO know your salary?

  • Of course. If I wasnt comfortable enough with DH to share that info I wouldn't have married him. 
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  • Um, yes. How else would we file our income tax???
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  • He knows approximately what I make, but probably not exact numbers. We have separate accounts and it's not been an issue.
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  • Yes! We work and provide for the same family so there is no reason to keep things separate or hidden.
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  • imageMrs.G123:
    Um, yes. How else would we file our income tax???


    This. But even prior to marriage, we knew.
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  • imageMrs.G123:
    Um, yes. How else would we file our income tax???

    This.  He actually handles all our finances so I actually am the one who does not know exactly how much he makes!

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  • Since I don't make anything, yes. When I worked I would tell him but he never remembered. I handle the finances so as long as bills are paid he doesn't care.
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  • imageMrs.G123:
    Um, yes. How else would we file our income tax???


    Not all married couples file jointly. If they file separately I don't think they'd have to know each others info.
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  • Yes. He knows my hourly wage, as well as what my yearly salary ends up being. He makes way more than me, so he probably doesn't care, lol. However, I deal with all the finances and I file our taxes.
  • Yup.  He actually remembers more accurately than I do--I can never remember how much I make!

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  • I like to tease and say in our family I'm the CFO and my hubby is the President. I am actively interviewing  and he is giving me pointers on salary for first time just wondering how common it is to know this info.

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  • ha ha..my husband knows more than I do..He does all of our finances and is very on top of things but he's the one who checks my paychecks every week and keeps track of everything.




  • imagedaronsmommy:
    He knows approximately what I make, but probably not exact numbers. We have separate accounts and it's not been an issue.

     

    THIS! 

  • When I was working I told him what I made but he never remembered. I handle the money it's just not his thing.
  • Yep.  DH is in charge of all things financial.  
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  • Yes...
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  • Yes, and how much I spend, retirement accts etc. and I know his info so we can budget. We are transitioning to me staying at home and trying to buy a house so money has been a frequent topic of conversation. Also started a college fund.
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  • Well, I'm a stay home mom... so that's a big zero there.... but when I did work he knew. I do the finances here, but we've always shared that info, even when we were just dating but "serious".
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  • Yes, he knows.  He handles our finances.  Interesting post.

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  • imagerakle99:
    Of course. If I wasnt comfortable enough with DH to share that info I wouldn't have married him.nbsp;

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  • He doesn't even know how much he makes! He has a ballpark of what I make but doesn't really pay attention. I pay all bills and finances.
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  • He can tell you down to the dollar how much I get paid. He is in charge of the budget. 
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  • At tax time he sees exactly - he can probably ballpark it.  Pay checks go into joint checking account so we see each others weekly.

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  • I am a SAHM and wife works.  I take care of all of the finances.  We both know what eachother makes. 
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