June 2013 Moms

wheres my my sex drive?!

I am 14 weeks today and have had no sex drive since I found out I was pregnant. I keep hearing "oh it will come" but when? Its affecting my relationship.  And advice?

Re: wheres my my sex drive?!

  • Ya and my body definitely doesn't follow the "norm" lol hopefully this trimester brings some new fun :)
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  • When I was pregnant with DS I never got my sex drive back. I have gf who had crazy sex drives while PG but not me. I'd much rather have a nap.

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  • Same here I'm usually just too tired to have any desire. We have two bother children at home but this is my first pregnancy. My husband keeps hearing from his guy friends that we should be doing it all the time lol. So he doesn't understand. But I feel what I feel so theatres not much I can do but wait and see.
  • It differs for everyone. We have had sex about 4 times since finding out I was pregnant and the last time has been the only time I have really wanted to have sex. Try doing other things besides sex.
  • Mine is gone too and has been and I feel so bad for MH :(

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  • No sex drive here either, it usually comes back for me around week 16. My Dh is counting down until then.

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  • If iys affecting ur relationship suck it up and do it!!! Lol...i havent had muh of a sex drive either..but it is returning finally. Maybe your conscious about the baby and uncomfortable knowing it is in there?? I dunno..
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  • imagedaisy19782011:
    Mine is gone too and has been and I feel so bad for MH :(

    Ugh, me too. 

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  • I'm right there with you. DH was super understanding at first, and is still being nice about it but I can tell he's getting annoyed. I've made myself have sex a few times this past weeks because I knew he was cranky. I figured I'd just put on a good act and get through it (awful, I know), but it was great and I was glad I did!
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