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I no longer feel married.

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H and I met at the bank and we had all the paperwork notarized.  We now have to wait 90 days, we have to go to a co-parenting class together (which I'm actually pleased for HIS sake) and then we're done.  By end of February it will be official.

Bankruptcy will be over in about 2 weeks too.

I feel strangely single again. As I watched H drive away in his truck, I thought how odd. He doesn't feel like my husband anymore.

It feels good. I am on my way to being own woman again.

"he offered her the world. she said she had her own" - poet Monique Duval
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Re: I no longer feel married.

  • mom2onemom2one member

    That's pretty much how my ex and I did it too...was an even better feeling the day we went to court to finalize. Dec 12th will be 10 years (and today is my 8th anniversary happily married to DH!)

    Congrats on your freedom! 

    Stay at Home Mama to 3 Beautiful Children by the miracles of Birth & Adoption
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  • +just+j++just+j+ member

    I am happy that we won't have to go to court.Ours is uncontested so there's nothing to settle.  We'll get official paperwork saying it's final. 

    It's all pretty much a formality now.

    "he offered her the world. she said she had her own" - poet Monique Duval
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  • KaeldrasmommyKaeldrasmommy member
    I'm glad for you. I'm glad that it wasn't long and drawn out and more difficult than it needed to be. Time for a deep breath to let go of the stress he added to your life.
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  • Karma1969Karma1969 member
    I'm happy for you that you're being so strong and not looking back.
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  • Littlejen22Littlejen22 member
    imageKarma1969:
    I'm happy for you that you're being so strong and not looking back.


    Me too. And I am also glad he signed and did not drag it out, I am guessing calling his bluff and him getting caught made a difference there. You are a smart strong women, the next chapter will be great.
    Jen - Mom to two December 12 babies Nathaniel 12/12/06 and Addison 12/12/08
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  • twister22twister22 member
    I'm so glad you guys could agree on things and not have it be a long, drawn out court battle.
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  • hterry85hterry85 member
    Good for you, I hope that you and DD can get into a new normal fairly quickly.
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