33day cycle, 14dpo CONFUSED!!

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

I just wrote out my whole post and i deleted it by accident, JOY.

well i'll just summerize, 33 day cycle 16 LP, 14 dpo right now, AF due wedensday.

ive been having a few symptoms not many, today i had very light pink spotting still lasting until now but not enough to fill a pantie liner. I NEVER get spotting, when im to get my period it comes full on, heavy flow. Ive been having werid cramps lower belly area not sure what to make of this! Instead of driving hubby crazy i decided to come here lol! we were active the day before i ovulated.. Im just confused is it possible to have implantation bleeding this late? or is it normal early preg spotting or am i just going crazy and im not in fact pregnant, i just need to take a test i know i know but just rather wait until AF is actually due to test. Huh?

TIA , and btw stay safe with this weather!

penelopemaria · October 2012

Is there a question?

I don't get it.. take a test

sunlavender · October 2012

aprillm730 · October 2012

I've never been pregnant but I hear that AF and preg symptoms are similar. But, being this close to your expected period, my guess is that it is AF coming. Just because you never spotted before doesn't mean it won't happen sometime, cycles are crazy like that. If no AF, then test. Good Luck.

Lue94 · October 2012

Are you asking if it's possible to have implantation bleeding at 14dpo?

BMnatz11 · October 2012

ajsmomma315:

I just wrote out my whole post and i deleted it by accident, JOY.

well i'll just summerize, 33 day cycle 16 LP, 14 dpo right now, AF due wedensday.

ive been having a few symptoms not many, today i had very light pink spotting still lasting until now but not enough to fill a pantie liner. I NEVER get spotting, when im to get my period it comes full on, heavy flow. Ive been having werid cramps lower belly area not sure what to make of this! Instead of driving hubby crazy i decided to come here lol! we were active the day before i ovulated.. Im just confused is it possible to have implantation bleeding this late? or is it normal early preg spotting or am i just going crazy and im not in fact pregnant, i just need to take a test i know i know but just rather wait until AF is actually due to test.

TIA , and btw stay safe with this weather!

Could you please spellcheck in the future? It hurts my brain to see so many misspelled words and not one capital i.

I'm pretty sure you answered your own question. Only a test and time will tell.

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

Yes that's what I was wondering, sorry for it not being clear I was fusturated after the 1st post got deleted.

WashingtonQueen · October 2012

I am confused too. What was the point of this post?

Lue94 · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
Yes that's what I was wondering, sorry for it not being clear I was fusturated after the 1st post got deleted.

What were you wondering? There is a quote button next to reply. You can use that to let the person know you are talking to them.

GermanGirl2007 · October 2012

It is really hard to say, but my best advice would be to tell you to test. If you temp and are fairly certain that you are 14DPO, it is pretty likely that you would be able to turn a test at this point if you are actually KU.

I never had spotting either, until I did. It's kind of frustrating when you realize that there really is no normal. Most cycles now I start spotting about 1-2 days before AF, but sometimes I still don't spot at all.

If I can be totally honest with you, I would doubt that it is implantation spotting at this point, and more likely the start of AF, but for your sake, FX that it is just early pregnancy symptoms. GL!

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

Lue94:
ajsmomma315:
Yes that's what I was wondering, sorry for it not being clear I was fusturated after the 1st post got deleted.

What were you wondering? There is a quote button next to reply. You can use that to let the person know you are talking to them.

Sorry, I'm using my phone and being new to this fourm doesn't help so thanks. I was trying to reply back to someone who had said if my question was if you can have implantation bleeding this late.

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

bbg676:
If you're temping and know for a fact you're 14dpo OPKs don't actually confirm ovulation, just show the surge that indicates you MIGHT ovulate, then take a test.nbsp;
If you are pregnant enough for symptoms, you're pregnant enough to test positive.nbsp;
Also PMS and pregnancy symptoms are pretty similar.nbsp;

No I don't temp or use opk's, I just chart my periods every month and watch for the changes in cm. I know that's not accurate either. But thank you!

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

GermanGirl2007:
It is really hard to say, but my best advice would be to tell you to test.nbsp; If you temp and are fairly certain that you are 14DPO, it is pretty likely that you would be able to turn a test at this point if you are actually KU.
I never had spotting either, until I did. It's kind of frustrating when you realize that there really is no normal.nbsp; Most cycles now I start spotting about 12 days before AF, but sometimes I still don't spot at all.nbsp;
If I can be totally honest with you, I would doubt that it is implantation spotting at this point, and more likely the start of AF, but for your sake, FX that it is just early pregnancy symptoms.nbsp; GL!

Thank you!! On wed ill test I was just seeing if maybe someone had something simliar happen to them.

BethK22 · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
bbg676:
If you're temping and know for a fact you're 14dpo OPKs don't actually confirm ovulation, just show the surge that indicates you MIGHT ovulate, then take a test.nbsp;
If you are pregnant enough for symptoms, you're pregnant enough to test positive.nbsp;
Also PMS and pregnancy symptoms are pretty similar.nbsp;

No I don't temp or use opk's, I just chart my periods every month and watch for the changes in cm. I know that's not accurate either. But thank you!

I highly suggest you start tempting. CM doesnt confirm if or when you ovulated.

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

BethK22:
ajsmomma315:
bbg676:
If you're temping and know for a fact you're 14dpo OPKs don't actually confirm ovulation, just show the surge that indicates you MIGHT ovulate, then take a test.nbsp;
If you are pregnant enough for symptoms, you're pregnant enough to test positive.nbsp;
Also PMS and pregnancy symptoms are pretty similar.nbsp;

No I don't temp or use opk's, I just chart my periods every month and watch for the changes in cm. I know that's not accurate either. But thank you!

I highly suggest you start tempting. CM doesnt confirm if or when you ovulated.

I attempted to last cycle but come some mornings I forget, either my daughter wakes up and I run to get her or I run to the bathroom then realize I forget. I guess I'm SOL and just have to wait it out.

WashingtonQueen · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
Thank you!! On wed ill test I was just seeing if maybe someone had something simliar happen to them.

I really don't see why you can't just test with a cheapie...

Also, seeing as how you don't actually chart, you do not know how many DPO you are.

Lue94 · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
bbg676:
If you're temping and know for a fact you're 14dpo OPKs don't actually confirm ovulation, just show the surge that indicates you MIGHT ovulate, then take a test.nbsp; If you are pregnant enough for symptoms, you're pregnant enough to test positive.nbsp; Also PMS and pregnancy symptoms are pretty similar.nbsp;
No I don't temp or use opk's, I just chart my periods every month and watch for the changes in cm. I know that's not accurate either. But thank you!

I don't chart or temp either but most women on this board do, so they will wonder how do you know that you're 14dpo if you aren't for certain when or if you ovulated.

To answer your question, implantation bleeding usually occurs around 10dpo give or take. (I think) Maybe since the other ladies know what you are asking, they may know better. I just started TTC and I'm 5 days before my period would normally be due and every little thing I feel I'm thinking "Am I pregnant?" I get how you feel.I'm a more wait to AF comes. I don't test. Good luck.

bananatiff · October 2012

I had light spotting 1 day before my missed period with my daughter. It stopped the next day so I took a HPT and got a BFP. I don't remember how I was feeling at the time though.

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

WashingtonQueen:
ajsmomma315:
Thank you!! On wed ill test I was just seeing if maybe someone had something simliar happen to them.

I really don't see why you can't just test with a cheapie...

Also, seeing as how you don't actually chart, you do not know how many DPO you are.

Well the reason why I haven't tested is because I haven't really had the time to grab one, and the reason why I say how many dpo I am cause when I put in my info on mycountdowntopregnancy.com it says when to test ect. And it says how many dpo you are.

jeffsjayme · October 2012

I always find it weird when "newbies" know acronyms like dpo, LP, but don't know when to take a test. If you're educated enough to know your average LP and how many DPOs you are, you should know that you can take a test at 14dpo.

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

Lue94:
ajsmomma315:
bbg676:
If you're temping and know for a fact you're 14dpo OPKs don't actually confirm ovulation, just show the surge that indicates you MIGHT ovulate, then take a test.nbsp; If you are pregnant enough for symptoms, you're pregnant enough to test positive.nbsp; Also PMS and pregnancy symptoms are pretty similar.nbsp;
No I don't temp or use opk's, I just chart my periods every month and watch for the changes in cm. I know that's not accurate either. But thank you!

I don't chart or temp either but most women on this board do, so they will wonder how do you know that you're 14dpo if you aren't for certain when or if you ovulated.

To answer your question, implantation bleeding usually occurs around 10dpo give or take. (I think) Maybe since the other ladies know what you are asking, they may know better. I just started TTC and I'm 5 days before my period would normally be due and every little thing I feel I'm thinking "Am I pregnant?" I get how you feel.I'm a more wait to AF comes. I don't test. Good luck.

 

That's how I am, I'd rather see AF instead of a sad neg lol. But thank you and good luck to you!! Baby dust xoxo

jeffsjayme · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
WashingtonQueen:
ajsmomma315:
Thank you!! On wed ill test I was just seeing if maybe someone had something simliar happen to them.

I really don't see why you can't just test with a cheapie...

Also, seeing as how you don't actually chart, you do not know how many DPO you are.
Well the reason why I haven't tested is because I haven't really had the time to grab one, and the reason why I say how many dpo I am cause when I put in my info on mycountdowntopregnancy.com it says when to test ect. And it says how many dpo you are.

Does mycountdowntopregnancy.com tell you that you can test now? Then do. And really, you can test any time you want to. You can even test on CD2. It'd be meaningless, but you can pee anytime you want to. Most spotting at true 14 dpo is the beginning of AF, but you only know after the fact.

sunlavender · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
Well the reason why I haven't tested is because I haven't really had the time to grab one, and the reason why I say how many dpo I am cause when I put in my info on mycountdowntopregnancy.com it says when to test ect. And it says how many dpo you are.

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

sunlavender:
ajsmomma315:
Well the reason why I haven't tested is because I haven't really had the time to grab one, and the reason why I say how many dpo I am cause when I put in my info on mycountdowntopregnancy.com it says when to test ect. And it says how many dpo you are.

Lmao well that's why I came here to get info and help, at one point before you where trying to concive or everyone for that matter had questions. Not asking for " omg yes your pregnant " no. Now I know that those websites are crap and that I should indeed temp.

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

jeffsjayme:
ajsmomma315:
WashingtonQueen:
ajsmomma315:
Thank you!! On wed ill test I was just seeing if maybe someone had something simliar happen to them.

I really don't see why you can't just test with a cheapie...

Also, seeing as how you don't actually chart, you do not know how many DPO you are.

Well the reason why I haven't tested is because I haven't really had the time to grab one, and the reason why I say how many dpo I am cause when I put in my info on mycountdowntopregnancy.com it says when to test ect. And it says how many dpo you are.
Does mycountdowntopregnancy.com tell you that you can test now?  Then do.  And really, you can test any time you want to.  You can even test on CD2.  It'd be meaningless, but you can pee anytime you want to.  Most spotting at true 14 dpo is the beginning of AF, but you only know after the fact. 

It says to test wed. But since everyones saying its all bullcrap I guess once my expected period is supposed to come ill test if I don't get it.

sunlavender · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
Lmao well that's why I came here to get info and help, at one point before you where trying to concive or everyone for that matter had questions. Not asking for " omg yes your pregnant " no. Now I know that those websites are crap and that I should indeed temp.

You're right. We all had questions at the beginning. But unfortunately, a post like this one gets posted, in some form, several times a day. You didn't ask if you were pregnant, but you did say you were 14dpo, which you can't know for sure without temping. Those websites only use averages and don't take into consideration your personal ovulation schedule.

If you really think you might be pregnant, you'll need to take a test. If it's negative, keep testing once a week until AF shows or you hit 60 days. Good luck.

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

sunlavender:
ajsmomma315:
Lmao well that's why I came here to get info and help, at one point before you where trying to concive or everyone for that matter had questions. Not asking for " omg yes your pregnant " no. Now I know that those websites are crap and that I should indeed temp.

You're right.  We all had questions at the beginning.  But unfortunately, a post like this one gets posted, in some form, several times a day.  You didn't ask if you were pregnant, but you did say you were 14dpo, which you can't know for sure without temping.  Those websites only use averages and don't take into consideration your personal ovulation schedule.

If you really think you might be pregnant, you'll need to take a test.  If it's negative, keep testing once a week until AF shows or you hit 60 days.  Good luck.

That I understand, when I was pregnant with my daughter I was on BabyGaga and I seen a million same posts so I know it gets fusturating. But thank you for actually explaining all this lol, now I know not to listen to those websites.

WashingtonQueen · October 2012

I suggest that you sign up on https://www.fertilityfriend.com/, start temping, and read this book - https://www.amazon.com/Taking-Charge-Fertility-Anniversary-Edition/dp/0060881909

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

WashingtonQueen:
I suggest that you sign up onnbsp;https://www.fertilityfriend.com/, start temping, and read this book https://www.amazon.com/TakingChargeFertilityAnniversaryEdition/dp/0060881909

Thank you, I will.

Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

GermanGirl2007 · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
sunlavender:

ajsmomma315:
Lmao well that's why I came here to get info and help, at one point before you where trying to concive or everyone for that matter had questions. Not asking for " omg yes your pregnant " no. Now I know that those websites are crap and that I should indeed temp.

You're right. We all had questions at the beginning. But unfortunately, a post like this one gets posted, in some form, several times a day. You didn't ask if you were pregnant, but you did say you were 14dpo, which you can't know for sure without temping. Those websites only use averages and don't take into consideration your personal ovulation schedule.

If you really think you might be pregnant, you'll need to take a test. If it's negative, keep testing once a week until AF shows or you hit 60 days. Good luck.

That I understand, when I was pregnant with my daughter I was on BabyGaga and I seen a million same posts so I know it gets fusturating. But thank you for actually explaining all this lol, now I know not to listen to those websites.

I already commented, but I just wanted to agree with those that said that those period tracker sites are crap. I have very regular cycles, (28-31 days), but I typically ovulate around CD17-18. If I would have timed sex based on those calendars, I would have been way off. If you have any questions about charting, this is a good board to ask them.

sunlavender · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
Thank you, I will. Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

Personally I would go with a BBT thermometer. Or at least one that measures to the 1/00 degree (two decimal places). Most places have one in the family planning section. I got mine at CVS.

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

sunlavender:
ajsmomma315:
Thank you, I will. Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

Personally I would go with a BBT thermometer.  Or at least one that measures to the 1/00 degree (two decimal places).  Most places have one in the family planning section.  I got mine at CVS.

.

Okay, ill have to invest in one asap.
When should I start taking my temp? If I do get af?

coleann04 · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
sunlavender:

ajsmomma315:
Thank you, I will. Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

Personally I would go with a BBT thermometer. Or at least one that measures to the 1/00 degree (two decimal places). Most places have one in the family planning section. I got mine at CVS.

. Okay, ill have to invest in one asap. When should I start taking my temp? If I do get af?

When I started temping I started with CD1.

jeffsjayme · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
sunlavender:
ajsmomma315:
Thank you, I will. Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

Personally I would go with a BBT thermometer. Or at least one that measures to the 1/00 degree (two decimal places). Most places have one in the family planning section. I got mine at CVS.
. Okay, ill have to invest in one asap. When should I start taking my temp? If I do get af?

Yes, since you're so close to it. You can really start anytime, but CD1 is a natural time to start when you're so far into your cycle.

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

coleann04:
ajsmomma315:
sunlavender:

ajsmomma315:
Thank you, I will. Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

Personally I would go with a BBT thermometer.  Or at least one that measures to the 1/00 degree (two decimal places).  Most places have one in the family planning section.  I got mine at CVS.

. Okay, ill have to invest in one asap. When should I start taking my temp? If I do get af?

When I started temping I started with CD1.

Ok thank you!

ajsmomma315 · October 2012

jeffsjayme:
ajsmomma315:
sunlavender:
ajsmomma315:
Thank you, I will. Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

Personally I would go with a BBT thermometer.  Or at least one that measures to the 1/00 degree (two decimal places).  Most places have one in the family planning section.  I got mine at CVS.
.

Okay, ill have to invest in one asap.
When should I start taking my temp? If I do get af?
Yes, since you're so close to it.  You can really start anytime, but CD1 is a natural time to start when you're so far into your cycle. 

Thank you aswell!

WashingtonQueen · October 2012

ajsmomma315:
WashingtonQueen:
I suggest that you sign up onnbsp;https://www.fertilityfriend.com/, start temping, and read this book https://www.amazon.com/TakingChargeFertilityAnniversaryEdition/dp/0060881909
Thank you, I will. Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

You would normally use a BBT. I use the Mabis from Walmart, most of the women on the board use the same one.

Start temping on CD1. Fertility Friend will teach you how.

coleann04 · October 2012

WashingtonQueen:

ajsmomma315:
WashingtonQueen:
I suggest that you sign up onnbsp;https://www.fertilityfriend.com/, start temping, and read this book https://www.amazon.com/TakingChargeFertilityAnniversaryEdition/dp/0060881909
Thank you, I will. Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

You would normally use a BBT. I use the Mabis from Walmart, most of the women on the board use the same one.

Start temping on CD1. Fertility Friend will teach you how.

I also use the Mabis from Walmart. It was only like $8-$9. I don't recommend the one from Walgreens, it favors temps. I originally started with that one and switched to the Mabis, it's much better.

CaliforniaDream87 · October 2012

We will not tell you that you are pg OP.

Take a test, simple. If you aren't pg the resources these wonderful ladies provided is recommended for you.

GL

Stizzle · October 2012

coleann04:
WashingtonQueen:

ajsmomma315:
WashingtonQueen:
I suggest that you sign up onnbsp;https://www.fertilityfriend.com/, start temping, and read this book https://www.amazon.com/TakingChargeFertilityAnniversaryEdition/dp/0060881909
Thank you, I will. Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

You would normally use a BBT. I use the Mabis from Walmart, most of the women on the board use the same one.

Start temping on CD1. Fertility Friend will teach you how.

I also use the Mabis from Walmart. It was only like $8-$9. I don't recommend the one from Walgreens, it favors temps. I originally started with that one and switched to the Mabis, it's much better.

Just curious, what do you mean by 'favoring temps'? This is the one that I use.

coleann04 · October 2012

Stizzle:
coleann04:
WashingtonQueen:

ajsmomma315:
WashingtonQueen:
I suggest that you sign up onnbsp;https://www.fertilityfriend.com/, start temping, and read this book https://www.amazon.com/TakingChargeFertilityAnniversaryEdition/dp/0060881909
Thank you, I will. Another question some women say it doesn't matter what thermonitor sp you use. True or false?

You would normally use a BBT. I use the Mabis from Walmart, most of the women on the board use the same one.

Start temping on CD1. Fertility Friend will teach you how.

I also use the Mabis from Walmart. It was only like $8-$9. I don't recommend the one from Walgreens, it favors temps. I originally started with that one and switched to the Mabis, it's much better.

Just curious, what do you mean by 'favoring temps'? This is the one that I use.

It has certain temps that it keeps as a "favorite" and will use over and over again. I got 97.18 a lot and when I went online to look at the reviews because I started getting suspicious a lot of people gave it bad reviews and talked about it using the same times "favorite" temps, some were the same ones I always got. Now that I use the Mabis I don't get that, it seems more accurate to me.

ETA: For some people they said they could still see their trend so it didn't bother them but I felt like it messed with my chart.

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