I posted this on another board but thought someone over on this board might have some insight into this.
I just found out my daughters father is being stationed in germany. We were married 17 years so I was a military wife for a long time. Emma is only 7 months old right now, i want her to see her father but am unsure what would be a fair amount of time to agree to. I am going to talk to a child phycologist next week but it would be nice if someone has any real world experience with this kind of thing. I want to do whats in Emmas best interest but of course do not want to be seperated from her for to long. He wants 90 days visitation a year but wants her over there for a month at a time which i feel is too long at her young age.
Any advice would be appreciated.