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Re: Worst birthday ever.

  • daynakakodaynakako member
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    I am so sorry for your loss, especially it being right around your birthday. Have you considered having a Damp;C? With my loss my OB gave me the option to wait it out or have a Damp;C it was a missed m/c, so the baby had been gone for several weeks but I did not miscarry on my own yet. The Damp;C was very managable, painless physically.. A friend of mine actually two.. just had them recently but one was going on vaca the next week so decided it would be better to have the Damp;C than to wait it out and I think she was happy with her decision. Anyway, I am so sorry for your loss :


    I wasn't able to do a d and c before we left because the baby still had a heartbeat only 86 bpm. If I have not started bleeding by the time we come back, I go for another ultrasound. If the results are what we anticipate they will be, I will schedule the d and c. I defineitly hate the waiting.
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  • TammyDoubleBTammyDoubleB member
    I'm so, so sorry, Dayna. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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    TTC #1 since November 2011
    Dx: Endometriosis, Stenosis of the Cervix, Uterine Polyp, Hostile CM and Borderline PCOS
    Stage 1 Endo and Uterine Polyp removed and Cervix widened on July 9, 2012.
    IUI #1 Clomid 50 mg - 3/6/13 BFN
    IUI #2 Clomid 50 mg - 4/3/13 BFN
    IUI #3 Clomid 50 mg - 10/4/13 BFN
    IUI #4 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 11/2/13 BFN
    Cycle #28 - Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger + TI (IUI #5 cancelled) - 2/5/14 BFN
    IUI #5 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 3/5/14 BFN
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  • curlylocks3curlylocks3 member
    Dayna, I'm so sorry. I know its going to be an incredibly difficult vacation but I hope you and your husband can find some peace together. I know its a rough day but I still wish you the best birthday you can have. 
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  • Cupcakelove109Cupcakelove109 member
    I'm so sorry that you are going through this pain on your birthday.  I'm so sad for your loss.
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  • coraggiosacoraggiosa member
    ::hugs:: I'm so sorry for what you are going through. You are in my thoughts. 

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  • Ladybugs718Ladybugs718
    I am so, so sorry.  Sending you T&P's.
    TTC Since July 2012
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  • mama&babymama&baby member
    I am so sorry for your loss.. and I know the vacation thing doesn't help at all. I know there is nothing I can say to make you feel a bit better, but you are in my thoughts
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  • ChuggingWaterChuggingWater member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • tinydovetinydove member
    I am so sorry.
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  • hungryhippohungryhippo member
    ::lurking from TTCAL::

    Huge warm hugs, and gentle smiles for you.

    You are not alone. I "celebrated" my birthday waiting to miscarry last year AND I had plans to go on vacation days later. I actually started to bleed on my first day of vacation. It was all heartbreaking and I was in an awful state because of it. However, somehow I do have a couple of nice memories of that trip despite how hard it was. I hope that your vacation gives you some moments of sweetness. I'm so sorry you are in this position.
    TTC #1 since January 2011
    BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
    BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
    After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
    Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!! 
    BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
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  • kelle017kelle017 member
    I'm really sorry you are going through this.  While I wasn't as far along as you were I had a c/p and started bleeding just a few days before my birthday this year.  

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    BFP #1 9.9.12 EDD 5.21.13 c/p 9.12.12 at 4 weeks 1 day

    BFP #2 10.15.12 EDD 6.28.13 c/p 10.19.12 at  4 weeks.

    BFP #3 1.19.13 EDD 10.1.13 Eleanor born 10.7.13 at 40 weeks 6 days

    13dpo hcg@32, progesterone@13.7, 15dpo hcg@110, 16dpo progesterone@25.9



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  • CiderWenchCiderWench member
    I hate that you have to go through this again. You are in my thoughts and prayers. ((((Hugs))))
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  • landosmommylandosmommy member
    Oh Dayna, I'm heartbroken for you. :( I'm so sorry, Love. I hope you are able to find some enjoyment in your vacation and Happy belated Birthday!!!!!! (((HUGS)))

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  • weansworld09weansworld09 member
    I am so deeply sorry for your loss :( You and your family will be in thoughts & prayers
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    *TTC since 1/12*
    *Me - PCOS * DH - Azoo*
    *IUI clomid 5/13 - BFN*
    *IUI clomid 6/13 - BFN*
    *IUI clomid 7/13 - Cancelled due to poor response*
    *IUI follistim 9/13 - Cancelled due to over response*
    *IVF #1 - 13R, 5M, 4F, 2 transferred on day 3 - BFN & nothing to freeze*
    *IVF #2 - 7R, 4M, 4F, 2 transferred on day 3 - BFP!!!!*
    *Beta #1 15dp3dt >2,000, Beta #2 21dp3dt >17,000!*
    *U/S on 6/27/14 @ 6w4d - 2 sacs, 1 HB found @ 125bpm!*
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  • deelopi9deelopi9 member
    Dayna I am so so sorry for your loss. :::hugs::: This is such a hard time for you both. Sending T&P your way
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    TTC since 10/2010 (Rhythm method since 2007)
    Me (33) Sept 2012 - DX Low ovulation/progesterone, Luteal Phase Defect. HSG 5/2012: both tubes are open, cervix and lining look good;
    September 2014 DX Hashimoto's; November 2014: PCOS IR
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    DH (37) Sept 2012 SA Normal; October 2014 Mild MFI count 42 Million, Motility 36%, Morphology 2%. Clomid 50mg,
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    2004 Cyrosurgery, LEEP
    May 2012 - HSG Clear; June 2012 - Appointment with RE
    July 2012 - October 2012 - Clomid 50mg W/ TI & Progesterone 3 mature follicles- BFN
    January 2013 IUI #1 (900,000 post wash) Clomid 50mg, TI & Progesterone 2 mature follicles - BFN
    February 2013 IUI #2 (1.3 Mil post wash) Clomid 50mg, TI & Progesterone 4 mature follicles - BFN
    March 2013 IUI #1-3 (2.5 mil post wash) Clomid 50mg, Baby Aspirin (lining thinned) TI & Progesterone - 2 mature follicles BFN
    April 2013 Benched due to cyst, May 2013 WTF appointment
    June 2013 DH SA mild MFI break for 2 months to re-test; August 2013 - DH SA 36 Mil count, 36% Motility, Morp 2%
    September - December 2013 - Mental sanity Break
    January 2014 - IUI #4 switches to natural due to scheduling conflict Femara TI & Progesterone - 1 mature follicle - BFN
    May 2014-June 2014 - DH Appointment w/ Urologist to check Bi-lateral Varicocele; 2nd opinion w/ another urologist - bi-lateral varicocele dx is slight no surgery
    July 2014 DH starts clomid 25mg daily SA 53.8 Mil count, Motility 37%, Morph 3%;
    September 2014 DH Repeat SA after being on clomid for 3 months 42 Mil Count, Motility 36%, Morph 2%
    October 2014 Me: Hashimoto's DX, DH taken off clomid;    November 2014 Me: new RE PCOS IR Diagnosis
    December 2014: IUI #4 Follitism 75iu 7 days, TI, IUI & Progesterone, BFMFN
    January 2015: IUI #5     Gonal-F 75iu 7 days, TI, IUI & Progesterone, Another BFMFN onto IUI #6
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  • AkieshaAkiesha member
    Dayna and Sarah, I am so sorry you are both dealing with this. (((hugs))) sending T&P your way:(
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    Me-34,DH-34
    Dx:Hypothyroidism 2008
    HSG- All clear CD 3 bloodwork normal
    SA- Abnormal Dx:MFI
    DH on 50mg Clomid 3x week
    BFP#1- 1/21/13 CP 1/24/13
    Cycle 18,19 & 20 50mg Clomid+trigger+IUI= All BFFN
    Cycle 21-25 Taking a break for now, still HIO Hoping!
    Moving onto IVF Next AF
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