A huge thank you to those who recommended "Happiest Baby on the Block"..it came in the mail yesterday, and I read nearly the whole thing by last night!
DS has slept so well the past sleepings (bedtime last night and his nap today) -- mostly, I think, from us swaddling him the "right" way.. but, when he's had his meltdowns, I immediately swaddle, swing, and shush in his ear and can soothe him almost immediately..
Also reading Touchpoints -- it's decent.
Re: PS --