Have people given you any rude reactions to hearing that you're pregnant again?
Everyone keeps telling me how I'll "really have my hands full." Um, yes I know. Thanks for the pep talk! Ha. This pregnancy was not planned, but we are not telling people that (I just don't think it's anyone's business to know).
Anyway, my kids will be 2 grades apart. It's not like that is uncommon or anything. Actually, I think most American families have kids two grades apart.
I guess I am just tired of hearing the comments or getting stares now that I'm obviously pregnant again. Anyone else?
Re: Question for those with 2u2 (or preg with 2u2)
Well since I only found out today that I am PG I haven't had to deal with this but I think my response wil be "F*ck Off" or "Go F*ck yourself"... haha. That will teach them for saying such silly things.
BTW I am totally kidding, I would never tell some random person to F*ck Off
I feel like back in the day ppl had a million kids all close together and it was normal. however financially it was difficult. So those kids grew up and dexided to have only a couple kids and spaced them out so they had more money.
Now it seems the joy of pregnancy and kids is sweeping the nation once again, and ppl are having more kids again.
From what i have observed in my short lifethats what i think. My point in saying that is ppl of a certain generation have a mindset to not have a lot of kids and to not have them close together.
I would find it insulting aomeone saying that to me, bc clearly u are able to take care of a child, u have been doing it already for the past 1.5 yrs at least. And being an adult, u are not naive about the difficulties life brings especially when u have kids. So tell them all to SCREW OFF!! HA HA
I'll be 22 next month, and people judge the hell out of me as it is. Even these same people badgering me about getting pregnant judge me cause I got married at 19 and pregnant three months later. Even if we were TTC, I wouldn't tell anyone in real life! Lol
I had 2u2 three times and ppl would always say something rude. Then they would say it must be so hard having 4 little ones, I would always reply how easy it was, I would watch my niece from time to time and how hard she was to have around. She is an only child. I always said 1 child is way more work then 4, and no I didn't use the older ones to take care of the younger ones. They did entertain each other and that helps a lot.
Now my sister in law thinks of ppl like me are just dumb and can't stop breeding, now her I would love to rip her a new one. She drives me absolutely nuts , but that is a whole other thread best left alone.