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  • imageAngelSong76:
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    imageladeebri:
    My FFFC is that I've never owned a vibrator but I want one. I'm afraid DH might take it personally. The man works nights and for whatever reason pregnancy sends my drive into overtime (feels like a cruel joke really). I can only climax on top and I just feel huge and like I'm squishing him so that's out of the picture now. 

    So if anyone has any not so expensive recommendations, please let a girl know. There's a shop in the section of town where my doctors office is and I might just go buy one after I'm done here (in the waiting room now). 

    I wish I could remember the brand I have right now because it's pretty great.  Sadly, I'm at work and the name has escaped me.

    Talk to the people at the shop (even if you are embarrassed to do it - don't worry, they have seen it all!) and they should be able to give you great recommendations.  Tell them what you are looking for and the price range.  I was a first-time buyer about a year ago and was so nervous about going in there, but they were fantastic.  The girl at our local shop even got the batteries I would need and the lubricant that would be best and put them all together for me, still under the price range I wanted.  She even put the batteries in for me and made sure everything worked.  

    As for your husband, I think explaining to him what you just said to us about how he works nights and sometimes you're in the mood when he's not home should work.  But if it doesn't, remind him that it doesn't have to be a solo action.  My husband and I use mine sometimes when we want to switch things up a little or (TMI) if he finishes before I do.  It's just another way to introduce variety into your sex life, which is not a bad thing at all!  :)

    Well I went and got a g kiss? I wanted a rechargeable but didn't have the $100 to spend. I hope the $40 one I went with isn't a POS. I kinda feel like I should've told him what I was doing before I went and did it, but I've been thinking about getting one for a VERY long time now and dammit I was on the side of town *now* and it's a 45 min drive from the boonies where we live. I'm sure he will be fine with it. Maybe not at first. I can't imagine him getting too bent out of shape about it. 

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  • imagebellre:
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    My vibe is called a jeJoue (www.jejoue.com) and it is fantastic. 

    It's awesome, well made and rechargable - a key thing as these babies burn out. 

    Do NOT waste your money on a Rabbit. They're a POS and burn out easily.

     Talk to your H about feeling secure. I honestly can't relate to that but really, unless he can make his johnson vibrate or spin at the top there is no competition here 

     HAHAHA! Thank you for that. 

    Haha. Yes, thank you. Although I don't think the one I bought spins. ;) 

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    I live in Montreal and the lovely province of Quebec is going through elections.  I'm sick and tired of the students being on strike and asking for free education.  Get over yourselves.  Asking taxpayers to pay for YOUR schooling so you can stay there for 25 years instead of working like the rest of us is ridiculous.  Especially since our university fees are peanuts compared to other provinces and other countries.

    I'm sick and tired of the English vs French war.  People in Montreal speak ENGLISH.  French people get over it.  If you don't like it, feel free to move to an area where they only speak French.  The fact that you refuse to speak English is only detrimental to yourself. 

    Last but not least, I'm soooo fed up of people talking about this stupid "Quebec should be a nation and we should separate from Canada" thing.  Quebec is a nothing without the rest of Canada and I would rather be dead than wave a Quebec flag, travel under a Quebec passport and become a Quebecer.  Yuck!

    Wow so glad I got that off my chest!

     

    Wow I'm so glad to see this! I'm in Quebec also and all my "friends" from high school and my college days are pro-strike, I'm freaking out. All my FB feed is hidden until that resolves because I want to punch every single one of these people (not for having an opinion but trying to force it to everyone else without legit arguments!) 

    I thought I was the only person in QC to think that way, don't get me wrong I love being able to speak French and living here but Canada FTW and I proudly display our red and white flag when traveling :)

    Oh I hear you!  It annoys me so much more when it's high schoolers and cegep'ers that are pro-strike...they haven't even been to university yet!  It's so much crap.  FWIW I speak 4 languages and it truly hits a nerve whenever I hear a French person say: I refuse to speak English because I live in Quebec.  If I was an employer, I would never hire someone who can't speak both languages.  I love Canada and Montreal but I hate the province of Quebec.

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  • I'm not Polish but I kinda read what she said differently than you guys.

    It's no secret that I'm pretty much an atheist. (I say pretty much because I haven't quite made the jump just yet). What I took from her response was that she likes her life choice and it has helped her in her everyday life.

    The way I read the second part was that she thinks if people researched more, then maybe the atheist community would be bigger. I didn't take it as her saying that anyone who is religious should research and you'll change your beliefs. I think she meant it in a general sense. I would also assume that religious people would feel that if people who didn't believe, would go to church, they'd be able to learn and get something out of it.  

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    I live in Montreal and the lovely province of Quebec is going through elections.  I'm sick and tired of the students being on strike and asking for free education.  Get over yourselves.  Asking taxpayers to pay for YOUR schooling so you can stay there for 25 years instead of working like the rest of us is ridiculous.  Especially since our university fees are peanuts compared to other provinces and other countries.

    I'm sick and tired of the English vs French war.  People in Montreal speak ENGLISH.  French people get over it.  If you don't like it, feel free to move to an area where they only speak French.  The fact that you refuse to speak English is only detrimental to yourself. 

    Last but not least, I'm soooo fed up of people talking about this stupid "Quebec should be a nation and we should separate from Canada" thing.  Quebec is a nothing without the rest of Canada and I would rather be dead than wave a Quebec flag, travel under a Quebec passport and become a Quebecer.  Yuck!

    Wow so glad I got that off my chest!

    I <3 you! This couldn't have been said better. I always feel horrible for having an opinion on it since I'm not French or living in Quebec. But how do they think free schooling should be right? If we asked for that in Alberta we would be laughed at by the government. Hell, I think we would settle for a reduction in fee, which will never happen.

     And we have the crazy separatists out here too. How the heck they think that is going to work is beyond me. We are Canadian. Just because we are enjoying good times right now does not mean that we won't ever need the rest of the country. We built this country as a whole and have developed a culture and people I am proud of. Separating is the most rediculous idea.

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    I prefer sex with my vibrator to sex with my husband right now.

    Yes Oh me too!!!!!

    Sorry for two posts...TB hates me this week.

    Posts like this are so funny when paired with your son's picture. It looks like he's saying something like "Oh, Mom! I don't want to hear that!" haha. 

    This is what I was thinking too!  Her sons expression in her siggy is just too funny paired with the topic at hand!

    It's even funnier with her first response that didn't include the words. I felt like she was shaming me. =P

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  • imageLetsHikeToday:

    I'm not Polish but I kinda read what she said differently than you guys.

    It's no secret that I'm pretty much an atheist. (I say pretty much because I haven't quite made the jump just yet). What I took from her response was that she likes her life choice and it has helped her in her everyday life.

    The way I read the second part was that she thinks if people researched more, then maybe the atheist community would be bigger. I didn't take it as her saying that anyone who is religious should research and you'll change your beliefs. I think she meant it in a general sense. I would also assume that religious people would feel that if people who didn't believe, would go to church, they'd be able to learn and get something out of it.  

     She said she was highly cynical of people who believe in God and that you just needed to do research. I feel like she was saying that if you did research you would see her side. I was saying that research doesn't always equal fact. A lot of science is based on theory that has research behind it but still just theories. Regardless we will all believe in what we want right! I just don't think either side should be cynical of the other.

    No I do not think if an Atheist went to church they would believe. You have to be willing to want God in your life and I would say an Athesit does not. Church will not change that.

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  • imagenealbl:
    imageLetsHikeToday:

    I'm not Polish but I kinda read what she said differently than you guys.

    It's no secret that I'm pretty much an atheist. (I say pretty much because I haven't quite made the jump just yet). What I took from her response was that she likes her life choice and it has helped her in her everyday life.

    The way I read the second part was that she thinks if people researched more, then maybe the atheist community would be bigger. I didn't take it as her saying that anyone who is religious should research and you'll change your beliefs. I think she meant it in a general sense. I would also assume that religious people would feel that if people who didn't believe, would go to church, they'd be able to learn and get something out of it.  

     She said she was highly cynical of people who believe in God and that you just needed to do research. I feel like she was saying that if you did research you would see her side. I was saying that research doesn't always equal fact. A lot of science is based on theory that has research behind it but still just theories. Regardless we will all believe in what we want right! I just don't think either side should be cynical of the other.

    No I do not think if an Atheist went to church they would believe. You have to be willing to want God in your life and I would say an Athesit does not. Church will not change that.

    I don't know. I guess I don't see a huge problem with her saying she is cynical of people who believe in God. I'm sure people are cynical of her for not believing. It's her confession.

    Like I said, I'm not Polish. I could have taken it the wrong way too.  

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  • imagemmnumber5:
    I hate Hawaii! I hate living here!  It is not paradise and I want to go back to Iowa!  I miss my family and my friends and Hawaii is not fun!  

    ha! I literally just had this convo!

    My parents live there, I've lived with them before there. I may have to move back

    I HAAAAATTTTEEE it there! Don't get me wrong, it's beautiful.

    What island are you on? Oahu? Military? 



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    I'm trying to ignore the fact that my brother's STB-ex wife is pregnant as well and due in Dec.   When they got married, they agreed not to have kids. A few years later when DH and I got married and started trying, SIL suddenly wanted children and confessed to my mom and I that she was thinking of stopping bcp without telling DH.   Well I guess she did.   They were in the process of seperating prior to this news of her pregnancy.  I have to say that part of what bothers me is that it took DH and I almost 3 years and multiple IVFs to get our daughter and she tricks him when he wants nothing to do with a child.   We will see what happens once the baby is born.

    Why in the world did you mother not tell your brother that your SIL was planning to stop her bcp without telling him??

    We did when it happened about 2.5 years ago.  Supposedly they talked and came to the understanding that no kids worked for them and that if it was so important to her then they would split.   She promised to stay on them, but she was known to frequently lie.  Why my bro didn't do anything to prevent is beyond me.

     Oh good.  I'm glad that you and your mother said something.  That stinks for your brother that he trusted her.

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  • My MIL is great and I love her, but if she calls this baby "our baby" one more time, I will loose it.
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  • imageStarry Again:

    This was inspired by nothing today / no recent posts.

    I side-eye a lot of comments around stepchildren. On the bump, the child's mother is always crazy, the husband was tricked into having children with her, and the stepchildren are brats. Whereas your new baby with your husband will be perfect, for sure! If anyone starts commenting about the mother of their stepchildren being a wacko with absolutely no sensitivity I assume they are not nice people. Of course some mothers ARE wackos but when you marry someone with children, you need to woman up and try to respect each other.

    I feel the exact same way about the MIL posts here. My MIL is a little wacko but in no form is she a hellish beast. I especially feel this way when the MIL is being compared to "Mom", like yeah I am sure your husband thinks YOUR Mom is peaches and cream all the time. ;) 

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  • imagecashandrich:
    My MIL is great and I love her, but if she calls this baby "our baby" one more time, I will loose it.

    Haha! I have a friend who recently had a baby and everyvtime her mother called the baby "our baby" I would cringe. Ugh, I just really think it is gross and crosses a major boundary, but that is my opinion.  

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  • imagecashandrich:
    My MIL is great and I love her, but if she calls this baby "our baby" one more time, I will loose it.

    Same here... Mine said she is quitting her job in October so she can raise "our baby".

    *insert every gif out there with someone freaking out* 


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  • imagemmnumber5:
    I hate Hawaii! I hate living here!  It is not paradise and I want to go back to Iowa!  I miss my family and my friends and Hawaii is not fun!  

    I've never been to Hawaii. It's one of my dream places to go one day.  Why is it so bad though?

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    imagemmnumber5:
    I hate Hawaii! I hate living here!  It is not paradise and I want to go back to Iowa!  I miss my family and my friends and Hawaii is not fun!  

    I've never been to Hawaii. It's one of my dream places to go one day.  Why is it so bad though?

    it's beautiful but it's a tourist-based economy and lifestyle. Most of the people who live there full time are usually transient in some way. There's not a whole lot to do if you're not into surfing or outdoor activities or don't have some sort of niche cut out. It's also very expensive.

    You can't leave. Just to go to another island will cost you like $100 minimum in airfare. Flying to California is a minimum 5 hour flight and also a fortune. You're really really isolated. On Maui the furthest you could get was like 45 min away. 

    Visiting is fantastic.

    I always say it's like living in some really rural area with a lot of fancy hotels and palm trees. PP is living on Oahu which has some activity. My family lives on Maui, which is even less. Kauaii or the Big Island? forget it. I have never been so lonely or bored in my life living there.  There wasn't even a place to like, just go windowshopping outside of cheesy tourist stops. 

    You can forget seeing any movies outside the top 5 stupid block busters (again, maybe a little better in Oahu), getting any sort of interesting food (sushi there rules tho), museums, bookstores, etc.

    I was coming from Manhattan though so...talk about culture shock.  



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  • imageMCookie816:
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    This was inspired by nothing today / no recent posts.

    I side-eye a lot of comments around stepchildren. On the bump, the child's mother is always crazy, the husband was tricked into having children with her, and the stepchildren are brats. Whereas your new baby with your husband will be perfect, for sure! If anyone starts commenting about the mother of their stepchildren being a wacko with absolutely no sensitivity I assume they are not nice people. Of course some mothers ARE wackos but when you marry someone with children, you need to woman up and try to respect each other.

    I feel the exact same way about the MIL posts here. My MIL is a little wacko but in no form is she a hellish beast. I especially feel this way when the MIL is being compared to "Mom", like yeah I am sure your husband thinks YOUR Mom is peaches and cream all the time. ;) 

    me too! even if my MIL called the baby "my baby" once....just once....Indifferent

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  • imageMCookie816:
    imageStarry Again:

    This was inspired by nothing today / no recent posts.

    I side-eye a lot of comments around stepchildren. On the bump, the child's mother is always crazy, the husband was tricked into having children with her, and the stepchildren are brats. Whereas your new baby with your husband will be perfect, for sure! If anyone starts commenting about the mother of their stepchildren being a wacko with absolutely no sensitivity I assume they are not nice people. Of course some mothers ARE wackos but when you marry someone with children, you need to woman up and try to respect each other.

    I feel the exact same way about the MIL posts here. My MIL is a little wacko but in no form is she a hellish beast. I especially feel this way when the MIL is being compared to "Mom", like yeah I am sure your husband thinks YOUR Mom is peaches and cream all the time. ;) 

    You are lucky that all you have to deal with is a MIL who is a little wacko. Some of us do have to deal with MILs who are, in fact, hellish beasts. And truly crazy. I love that those of us who are dealing with that kind of crazy can come here and share our experiences. It helps to know we are not alone.

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  • imagecashandrich:
    My MIL is great and I love her, but if she calls this baby "our baby" one more time, I will loose it.

    This, but change "our baby" to "my baby." Just because she's due on your birthday, doesn't mean she belongs to you! You aren't carrying her, giving birth to her, breastfeeding her, changing her, raising her, so she doesn't belong to you!

    I am hoping against hope that she comes before her EDD, not only to avoid a c/s, but also so that my MIL doesn't act like we had this baby as a birthday present for her. =P

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    Yesterday was a very slow day in my office.  1/2 my office is out on vacation and even with covering for 2 co-workers, I ran out of things to do 2 hours before I was to leave. I ended up calling up a book on my kindle app on my phone and reading those last 2 ours while at work.  I've never read while on the clock before.  I felt awful at first, but it beat staring at the clock.  

    I've done this too, I downloaded kindle for the pc on my work computer. I think I read 3 books total and then got guilty and uninstalled it. I'm so busy at work now though I think it evens out! 

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  • imageAngelSong76:
    imageMCookie816:
    imageStarry Again:

    This was inspired by nothing today / no recent posts.

    I side-eye a lot of comments around stepchildren. On the bump, the child's mother is always crazy, the husband was tricked into having children with her, and the stepchildren are brats. Whereas your new baby with your husband will be perfect, for sure! If anyone starts commenting about the mother of their stepchildren being a wacko with absolutely no sensitivity I assume they are not nice people. Of course some mothers ARE wackos but when you marry someone with children, you need to woman up and try to respect each other.

    I feel the exact same way about the MIL posts here. My MIL is a little wacko but in no form is she a hellish beast. I especially feel this way when the MIL is being compared to "Mom", like yeah I am sure your husband thinks YOUR Mom is peaches and cream all the time. ;) 

    You are lucky that all you have to deal with is a MIL who is a little wacko. Some of us do have to deal with MILs who are, in fact, hellish beasts. And truly crazy. I love that those of us who are dealing with that kind of crazy can come here and share our experiences. It helps to know we are not alone.

    Maybe that is just it, my MIL is wacko but I don't pretend my Mom, when she was alive, was a Saint. Clearly, I don't know everyone's specific circumstances and you MIL may in fact be a hellish beast. But I find it hard to believe that EVERY MIL rant post is being told from the point of view of a completely innocent and sweet DIL. ;) My original statement was not directed at any individual just merely a confession about something I have observed. 

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