September 2012 Moms

I just got judged, and it felt good.

So, I ran to Target on my lunch break to pick up a homestyle Mac-n-Cheese easy mac & a hot dog. Then, I saw this ad for a Hibiscus whatchamadoodle thing at Starbucks. So, I walked over there to get one. (Gross BTW) As I am standing at the counter waiting on my drink the guy behind me says to the chick that was with him, "Are you sure you don't want anything?" She looks right at me & said "No, This is a coffee shop & I am pregnant. Pregnant women don't need anything from a coffee shop" I just laughed and said "Sucks my kid will have two heads" & walked off sipping my nasty drink. (If only she knew there was also a hot dog in my target bag! ::gasp::)

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  • People's stupidity never fails to amaze.  Regardless of one's feelings on caffeine while pregnant, they do realize you can get non-caffeinated items at a coffee shop, right?
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  • Judgemental people suck. I'm glad you had it in you to say something. I probably would have just ran away. I can never think of good comebacks at the time!
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  • So I'm not allowed to get a decaf frap or anything? Judgy heifer. I would've laughed in her face. 
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  • It really was hilarious.

    I thought the Barista was going to die when I said my kid would have 2 heads. I mean this woman made no effort to be discreet that she was judging me. ha-ha

    Also, this mac-n-cheese is awesome.

  • I get my kid drinks at starbucks when we go together.  I must be the worst mom EVER!!!!!!!!

     

     

  • That poor girl...lol.  Enjoy your lunch!! I LOVE their hotdogs.

     


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  • I love your response! I have not had any snarky comments like that made to my face. I hope if I do that I can come up with a good response. 

    Oh and sorry your drink was nasty!


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  • imageauroraloo:
    WTF? I don't drink coffee at all, (gross) but I've been known to enjoy a smoothie from SB on occasion.

    This! Their smoothies are amazzzzzzzing!

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  • imagejocymama:

    I love your response! I have not had any snarky comments like that made to my face. I hope if I do that I can come up with a good response. 

    Oh and sorry your drink was nasty!

    ha-ha thanks. It would be awesome as an air freshner made by Febreeze.
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  • Oh whatevs. there is such thing as decaf at a coffee shop b*tch. She's just jelly LB.

  • I hate people.

    Good for you for standing up for yourself! :)

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  • imageDerpityDog:
    People's stupidity never fails to amaze.  Regardless of one's feelings on caffeine while pregnant, they do realize you can get non-caffeinated items at a coffee shop, right?

    Yeah, I had decaf coffee this morning (the horror!) And what about herbal tea, smoothies, hot chocolate or lemonade? I seriously hate people.


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  • I'm pretty sure I would have fallen on the floor if I had been that barista. I haven't been judged (out loud) this pregnancy but with DD the lady at dunkin donuts asked "What are you doing to that poor baby?" as she handed me a DECAF coffee.
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    i had mc donalds and a Barq's rootbeer for lunch...i dont look PG i just look super fat and i'm ok with that :):)

     

    GOOD FOR YOU LB, should throat punched her too...lol..just kidding

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    imageDerpityDog:
    People's stupidity never fails to amaze.  Regardless of one's feelings on caffeine while pregnant, they do realize you can get non-caffeinated items at a coffee shop, right?

     My thoughts exactly. Plus Starbucks has tons of other options that aren't coffee at all.

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  • Um, that biitch is stupid. SB has DECAF.

    Good for you. I probably would have just 'accidentally' spilled my drink on her.

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    HA! That's hilarious.
  • imageLindsayB8469:

    i had mc donalds and a Barq's rootbeer for lunch...i dont look PG i just look super fat and i'm ok with that :):)

     

    GOOD FOR YOU LB, should throat punched her too...lol..just kidding

    are you? Oh, and IBC Root Beer is my thing right now. I can't get enough of it! I hate root beer. WTF Baby?
  • Your response was priceless LB. I would've loved to see her face. 
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  • imageLILBIT1221:

    It really was hilarious.

    I thought the Barista was going to die when I said my kid would have 2 heads. I mean this woman made no effort to be discreet that she was judging me. ha-ha

    Also, this mac-n-cheese is awesome.

    Nice lol :)

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  • They had free samples of the hibiscus thing at my Target starbucks today!  It was delicious!  Good for you.  I'd have just given her the finger.  I'm cranky until I get my 60mgs of caffeine a day.
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  • Wow, I would have laughed at her too.  I go to Starbucks almost everyday.  That hibiscus thing is pretty gross... I've been getting the Passion Tea Lemonade, super refreshing on hot days.  Sometimes I get a decaf something, sometimes I just really want some caffeine, so I get a regular.  Luckily no one has tried to make some stupid comment like that to me.  WTH is wrong with people? 
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  • imagetara1223:

    She fails at being pregnant. 


    HAHAHA! 

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  • I am so glad you said something. If only you had your other adorable ones in tow to prove a point. 

    Whattabitch. 

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  • I feel sorry for her baby and her s/o for that matter!  I love my fully-caffeinated java chip frap once a week (would do it more if it wasn't so expensive), and deli meats, and hot dogs, and...you get the picture.  I'm glad you made a comment!
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  • I was told I should be drinking decaf while at Starbucks last week by the barista!  Really chick?  Your job is to sell me something. 

     

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  • imagemrsh0606:

    I was told I should be drinking decaf while at Starbucks last week by the barista!  Really chick?  Your job is to fix what I order, not recommend what you THINK I should order. 

     

    FTFY
  • MMMMM.....I don't like coffee, but now I really want a cream based caramel frap!!  Those are way better than any milkshake lol
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  • I'm confused...was the fact that you were going to order/drink SB going to impact her child?  Did she think through osmosis or cosmic kinship or something that your clearly risky behavior was going to give her child 2 heads?

    I would have told her that her Mother of the Year status won't come out for another 18 years when you can judge if her child is a productive member of society.  If her kid isn't, she probably could have reconsidered all that caffeine.

    What an a$$hat.


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  • Just once I would like someone to judge me so I could respond like that. :)

    I like how she's all "there's nothing for a pregnant lady at a coffee shop." clearly she hasn't had their glazed donuts. OM NOM NOM.  


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    After reading all these comment...iIm not trying to stick up for her...but got me thinking...maybe she's one of those tree-hugging hippy dippy vegans that will only eat tofu and withered bean sprouts picked by fellow vegans...and if she is maybe her kid will come out with 3eyes because of all the soy...lol......
  • imagelinzeek44:

    Just once I would like someone to judge me so I could respond like that. :)

    I like how she's all "there's nothing for a pregnant lady at a coffee shop." clearly she hasn't had their glazed donuts. OM NOM NOM.  

    Forget the glazed donuts...try the chocolate cream filled muffins. They are to dye for!!  Before someone gets all judgy on me, I have refrained from eating any during my pregnancy, mainly because we can't affor SB right now.

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  • I order full caff coffees all the time, and I've never been openly judged. That sucks, really, cause I want the chance to be snarky like that. :(

    Great comeback, BTW! 

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  • Awesome response.  I go to Starbucks a lot...and get caffeinated drinks!  Those new refresher drinks are disgusting.  They were offering samples out, so I tried both even though the barista told me they were nasty.

     Glad  you're enjoying your mac n cheese and hot dog!

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  • imagejessager:
    I feel sorry for her baby and her s/o for that matter!  I love my fully-caffeinated java chip frap once a week (would do it more if it wasn't so expensive), and deli meats, and hot dogs, and...you get the picture.  I'm glad you made a comment!

    Oh right there with you!!! mocha cookie crumble once a week and i had a hotdog today!!!

  • imagecmumama:

    Awesome response.  I go to Starbucks a lot...and get caffeinated drinks!  Those new refresher drinks are disgusting.  They were offering samples out, so I tried both even though the barista told me they were nasty.

     Glad  you're enjoying your mac n cheese and hot dog!

    yeah, I wish I would have had a sample instead of wasting that $3. Oh well. there was no way I was letting on to her that it tasted like air freshner.
  • imagetara1223:

    ha-ha-ha. I drink coffee everyday, albeit not a ton, but I cannot function if I don't have some.

    Also, even if you don't like coffee, there are plenty of pastries in starbucks that she could have eaten. She fails at being pregnant.

    This. I've had three Starbucks brownies in the past two days. She definitely fails at being pregnant!

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  • LOL...Good for you! Nothing wrong with a little caffeine here and there. I know I am religious to my 1 cup of coffee a day! :)
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