Not too much going on around these parts. I hate to admit it but I am feeling so uncomfortable doing it when I can feel her moving so much in there. I try to get it out of my head during sex but it is so hard. Anyone else?
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Re: How's your sex life?
Non-existent. My husband feels disconnected from me and is threatening divorce totally not fair. I'm sure yours is a little more understanding about what you are going through than mine is.
Hang in there. I hear it all comes back!
We have sex like rabbits... but we always have, so this isn't anything new. But I can see where you're coming from. It is a little weird having sex when I can feel him moving. What we found that works is that instead of doing missionary or "cowgirl" (girl on top), I just go on my hands and knees and he enters from behind... It makes me feel a WHOLE lot better that I can keep my big belly to myself, and not do too much work... haha.
This post got WAY TMI, but there you go.
My thoughts exactly. Poor Dh I feel so bad but apparently not bad enough to do much about it for him.
'Til He returns, or calls me home,
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This is total coincidence, but I have noticed that women that post on here that are having girls tend to not have as much sex during pregnancy and women that are having boys get to have all the fun.
I just can?t produce.. if ya know what I mean.. (TMI). I think about it, but can?t get in the mood for it.
With DD1 I was down pretty much all day every day. And we had sex literally everyday if not multiple times a day. Apparently I set the bar too high last time though, because SO is VERY disappointed that its is the exact opposite this time around.
My thoughts exactly.
I just feel so gross. It's not that I don't find him sexually attractive or appealing, I just feel disgusting. Last time we did it I actually made him wear a condom, to protect him from my grossness. Haha TMI, I'm sure... but between some nipple leakage, lovely vaginal discharge (not the kind you want for sex) and gas, why does he even want to be anywhere near me??
We've tried a couple times, but my vagina seems to be shut. He can't even get in there. I picture baby in there squeezing it closed and yelling "Seats taken!"
Also, our position was always me on my stomach, him on top/behind, and that doesn't work anymore.
Every day I say to myself "tonight i'll give it a go, and at least give him a BJ" but then I'm so asleep the minute I hit the bed.
This for us too.
HAHAHAHAHA! LOVE!
I dread it, right now. My poor husband is walking around with a constant erection and I have to force myself to throw him some booty. I still have morning sickness, everything hurts, and I'm exhausted. We try it from behind and my belly is dragging on the bed, baby girl is kicking me the whole time like she's riding a tricycle in there and I'm stuck somewhere in the middle thinking, "FML."
Blah!
With H's work schedule it's hard, he is gone for about 30 hrs 3 days a week.
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If you ever find out, let me know. I'm curious about this sex everyone is talking about also.
This is us exactly. I think I want it more than him anymore.
I wish I could get in the mood... I have ZERO drive. And poor DH LOVES me pregnant, all sorts of new curves...
Poor guy. I give it once, maybe twice a week- he's such a good sport
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I feel for you. I was on pelvic rest for a month in the first trimester and it drove me nuts!
Now I'm rarely in the mood. We have sex about half as often as we used to so about once every couple weeks now. It's just not as fun as it used to be, I don't allow positions where I'm not in control (this is a result of first trimester bleeding after sex that lead to discovering a SCH which lead to the pelvic rest) so my favs are out. Plus it just doesn't feels as good for me. Poor hubby.
Not always true- haha! We are about 3 times a week! I can't get enough!! TMI
This about sums it up.
BFP #1- 11/7/10 ~EDD 7/20/11 ~M/C (bo) 12/6/10 @ 8wks ~Missing my Little Firework
BFP #2- 9/11/11 ~EDD 5/25/12 ~M/C (mmc10w)11/4/11 @ 11wks ~Missing my May Flower
BFP #3- 02/21/12 ~EDD 11/1/12 Audrey Lee Born 11/4/2012
BFP #4 ~EDD 6/20/14 stick baby stick!
This. Both of us are not into pregnant sex and it's been months.
Same here it's been about a few weeks since I've thrown him a bone lol. Im usually way too exhausted and when I am in the mood my lady part doesn't cooperate the way it should.
At first he was afraid he'd hurt me or something he said. Now I think he'd too stressed and tired from working and the heat. I would be down most all the time now that I'm not having MS and I keep having sex dreams randomly. Last week it was McDreamy from Greys lol
So I wish we had alot more sexy time
We've been having sex every day or every other day the whole pregnancy. I barely started getting my libido back but it's not as strong as it was before.
Mines been the same since before getting pregnant (at least once a day). I did have a week where I needed it more...and I want those days to come back.
For us me on my side with one leg between his, and one over his leg, has been our favorite since getting bigger.
Bahahahaa! That completely cracked me up!
Our situation is kind of weird. He's working a lot more than pre-PG, so I'm sure he is really tired and not up to doing it as much. I want to do it more, however even with such a high interest, I am having a harder time..."finishing" (when we do do it), where he used to be able to do "just the right things" and I'd be done, now no matter how hard we both try, I can barely finish... then I get frustrated and cry. I have NO.IDEA. what this is all about.
I would say we are doing it once a week or less currently, but it seems to be picking up nicely. So I'm excited about that...
Really???
That's what I'm talking about! You go, girl! I wish... I just... wish...