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Venting..need some opinions
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Re: Venting..need some opinions
Pfft, only $100k?
If this crazy lived five minutes away from me, you're damn right I'd keep my distance.
Love the Happy Gilmore reference.
Her bubble is on. I'm surprised she hasn't made any more witty comebacks.
Oh, right, that would require being witty. Oopsie.
"We like nothing better than buffing our Zygoma. And imagining a horny time traveling long overcoat purple scarf wearing super sleuth nordic legend fuck fantasy. Get to work on that, internet." Benedict Cumberbatch
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I would be so bored without the bump; my little milk leach keeps me sitting a lot of the day. Honey, you're perfect for the internet with your lovely ad hominem argument tactics.
To the OP:
For everyone else:
I can't imagine why your MIL doesn't want to spend more time around you.....
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
BURN!
That's okay, I don't really want that time back. Its been fun. Lets do it again sometime. Like, say, the next time you open your mouth with the stoopid again.
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I am a little sad you spent time away from your kid spoutng off nonsense like you did. Sorry, too, you didnt get the "opinions" you were looking for here. Too bad the fact you're a complete nutjob got in the way of that. I advise a trip to a counselor and then e pharmacy where I am pretty sure you will get a scrip for some Xanax for that a$$hole attitude of yours.
Has anybody posted the obligatory "I feel bad for your husband" response? I only skimmed but seriously, OP, what does your husband have to say about all this resentment you have towards his mother?
He says nothing. Can you imagine the repercussion if he did?
I want to put money on the idea that her H actually gave his mom the check book so she could get some things she needed...like maybe she needed a new hot water heater or washer dryer and couldn't afford get it on her own, hell a down payment on a mini van to drive those 10 kids she takes care of around. And when crazy B fummed he couldn't set her straight.
Sounds like you two are perfect for each other. Congrats.
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lol
I love you.
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op, i dnk why these icky women are bein such haterz. you are super well edumicated and know what you are talking bouts. your mil is tots the prob! e1 knows foster kids are trouble kids, and ppl only "help" for the $$$$. mil and ghetto sil are jacked up! why you be wanten them to see ur bby? me id be movin
You're contradicting yourself by saying you want her to see your son, but don't want her to babysit, but want her to spend an hour with him, but don't want her over.
You need to sit down and decide what you want. Do you want to let her have a relationship with your son or not? You can't b!tch about her not being a "baby person" but then turn around and b!tch about her wanting to see him. Just because she's not a baby person, doesn't mean that she doesn't want to see him..at least that's how I see it....she wants to see him, not hang out for an hour alone with him.
She probably doesn't want an hour alone with him because she's probably scared that she will do/say the littlest wrong thing and you will go all BSC on her.
You know what OP? I have a FIL who admits he's not a baby person and spends a lot of time with the children of his step children. And DH and I are cool with it. We respect that he's closer to those kids than to DS. We don't expect him to babysit DS, but he still wants to see DS more. Just because someone says they "don't do babies" doesn't mean they don't ever want to see them. I respect that it's my child to take care of and that while visiting FIL I can't expect him to change diapers or do much more than hold him for a couple minutes.
Also, insulting people you ask opinions from is ignorant and asking for flaming. What could have been a discussion about grandparents sharing the love with adopted/foster children degenerated into a back and forth insulting match that the bump loves to watch. If that was your intention, you did a great job. You've given us a funny thread to watch for a few days.
DH: 37
Married: May 24, 2008
TTC #2 since: June 2020
OP subsitute the word brain for hamster and listen to Mr Kitty's personal message to you
DD1: allergic to eggs & dairy
c/p 4/1/11
DD2: milk and soy protein intolerant, allergic to eggs, soy, peanuts, tree nuts, sesame, bananas
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I couldn't get past the first two pages, but this was epic.
OP, care.com is a great resource for baby-sitters. I realize this is more of a principle-based thing for you, but if you ever really NEED a baby-sitter rather than boiling up inside that your MIL sucks, try it... a lot of people swear by it.
Also, unless your MIL is an absolute witch to your child, put your feelings aside and try to be the bigger person and make the effort so your son has a relationship w/ his grandma. I have to swallow my pride and do this myself so I know it sucks.
Yeah, what a beyotch. I mean, those foster children should be treated as second class to your precious angel. Pshh.
Oh, and ps. you're a moron. YWIA.
Nevermind, I am upping my ante...you are not a moron, you are a thundercunt.
I know I'm a little late to the party here, but in the words of my incredibly awesome grandmother (who is classy, educated, wealthy, knows the difference between "principle" and "principal", etc):
"Being an adult is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't."
OP, in your case, I would suggest inserting the following words in place of "an adult": "rich", "classy", "educated".
The fact that you are criticizing strangers on the internet does not inspire confidence.