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I know it's stupid to feel this way but,
I was so sad and anxious and jealous when my friend announced she's 4 mnths PG. The reason why I feel stupid for being jealous is she resently had 2 m/cs, so she's been through so much to get to this point, but nonetheless all my IF anxiety got all stirred up. I'm feeling a little better now. I go back to the RE tomorrow AM so hopefully he'll have some good news for me.
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Re: I know it's stupid to feel this way but,
I know exactly where you're coming from! My cousin has had a very rough road while trying to have a baby (multiple miscarriages and an infant loss). I wish nothing but the best for her and have prayed and prayed that she has a healthy baby, but I still get small pings of jealousy when she posts a pic of her and her baby. When she lost her baby I actually prayed that she would have a healthy baby even if that meant I didn't have anymore. So, I would never wish she didn't have a baby, I just wish I had another one too. It makes me feel silly and guilty, but I can't help it. (Wow, sorry to ramble!)
Good luck at the RE's!
I agree with others. I have a friend who has had IF struggles too, and she is expecting #2 in just a few months. I am happy for her, but sad it is not me (yet).
I think that is one of things that I hate about IF most, not being able to just be happy for others without the pain and sadness of my own struggles.
TTC #2 since 6/2010
10/2012 DH diagnosed with Epilepsy
A few failed IUIs summer 2012 and 2013.
DH taking clomid and waiting to see if he needs another vericocele repair.
Hoping for a 2015 baby or babies.
Wishing, hoping, waiting.
This. I also have a friend with IF struggles that just had #2 last month, and as much as I am happy for her, it still makes me sad to a certain extent.
It's totally normal to feel the way you do. Good luck at the RE!