So we had sex for the first time in 2 weeks last night, and he could barely get it in! Anyone else? DH is... well endowed... but obviously this was not our first time... what's the deal here?
This happened to us tonight, too! lol He couldn't get it in & I started laughing. The laughing caused it to get even tighter & he kept trying to shove it in, but I was laughing so hard he couldn't understand me saying "stop", which just resulted in even more laughing, repeat cycle. It ended in me yelling "YOUCH" & tearing.
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Um....yes! We tried last Friday, tried. It didnt end well. Let's just say it was impossible for him to even get it in, hurt like you know what and we just gave up. We had a good laugh though!
Oh crap, that's crazy! I've been on complete "pelvic rest" since 18 weeks due to marginal placenta previa... hopefully that will only last until next week when it's rechecked, but I'm nervous about how it's going to go when we can finally have sex again! Ugh!
LOL, this totally happened to us the last time we tried as well. We even tried changing positions and nothing seemed to work. DH kept telling me, "you're pushing me out!?" And was a little confused. Of course, I was laughing real hard as a result. Glad to read I am not alone!
We've been pretty limited in activity since I was on pelvic rest from weeks 7-20. We've done it twice since the rest was listed and both agreed it feels a lot weirder than usual.
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This has been a common problem for us for quite awhile now. I am literally closed for business.
Same here!!! It's been super painful anytime we've tried! Doesn't make me feel good about the prospects of fitting a baby through there....
I've also had the same problem for quite a while now. thought it was just me. and i totally said the same thing to hubby about how am i going to fit a baby out there if he can't even fit!! obviously it stretches but it hurts to stretch enough for him to get in there!
DH and I have not been as "active" as we usually are, maybe once every 2 or 3 days. Things are different down there. Lots of swelling and tenderness, but thankfully no pain with BD. Notice it more when trying to trim down there. Which is much harder since I can't see what I am doing.
Re: Wayyyy TMI... tighter than ever..?!
This happened to us tonight, too! lol He couldn't get it in & I started laughing. The laughing caused it to get even tighter & he kept trying to shove it in, but I was laughing so hard he couldn't understand me saying "stop", which just resulted in even more laughing, repeat cycle. It ended in me yelling "YOUCH" & tearing.
Yup same thing happened to us too. It hurt so bad I couldn't let him put anything but the tip in. It was just way too painful.
Also, I had no idea the vag could retain water, interesting fact!
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Same here!!! It's been super painful anytime we've tried! Doesn't make me feel good about the prospects of fitting a baby through there....
I've also had the same problem for quite a while now. thought it was just me. and i totally said the same thing to hubby about how am i going to fit a baby out there if he can't even fit!! obviously it stretches but it hurts to stretch enough for him to get in there!